El Paso Police Department, Texas
End of Watch Friday, December 16, 1966
Reflections for Patrolman Arthur Joe Lavender, Jr.
I love you daddy. At Christmas every single year there is a quiet place in my heart that will always be yours. It’s been over 50 years dad. I know that you smile down on us. Continue to watch over us.
My love,
Your daughter
Sandra Lynn
December 22, 2018
Sandy Jones
Daughter
December 22, 2018
Sandy allowed us the privilege of replicating your badge for the family. It was a great honor for us. I learned a lot about the great man you were through speaking with Sandy. Godspeed to you my brother and blue!
Deputy Jose A. Kluge #3328
El Paso County Sheriff's Office
November 13, 2018
Patrolman Lavender,
I Learned of your supreme sacrifice when I had the honor to meet your granddaughter recently. Please rest assured your brothers are protecting your family, as you patrol the streets of Heaven. As a fellow Motorman, I will sit up a little straighter knowing you are watching from above.
God Bless you and all of your family.
Motor Officer Bret R. Hamlyn
Sioux Falls Police Department
February 19, 2017
Daddy I love you and I think about you every single day. I can't wait to see you again in Heaven.
Your daughter,
Sandra Lynn
Sandra Swalley- Jones
daughter
February 10, 2015
Joe, Your not forgotten. RIP. Tom McKay, former policeman and United States Marine. Semper Fi
Corporal Thomas W. McKay
Police Brother and Marine Brother
April 20, 2013
Patrolman Lavender,
On today, the 46th anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice-not just for your Community but for our Country as well when you served with the USMC in the Korean War. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.
Semper Fi Devil Dog!
A fellow former Marine/LEO
Anonymous
United States Border Patrol
December 16, 2012
RIP Granpa!
Christina Nicole Wilson
Granddaughter
September 16, 2012
Your heroism and service is honored today, the 45th anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.
Rest In Peace
Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05
December 16, 2011
I love you dad. Blane
Blane Wilson Lavender
Son
June 22, 2009
You are remembered today and thank you Sir for your service
vandenberghe
manchester, nh
December 7, 2007
Rest in Peace Motorman. You are not forgotten.
Motor Officer Danny Johnson
Metro Nashville Police Dept.
December 16, 2006
Patrolman Lavender,
On today, the 40th anniversary of your death, I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of El Paso.
R.I.P.
A fellow El Pasoan
Anonymous
December 16, 2006
Joe, I still miss you pardner, your advise, your support and your good nature and smile. Also miss those duets we used to sing in the car to stay awake on a slow grave-yard shift.
Lt. J.E. (Ed) Agan
El Paso Police Dept.
September 20, 2005
I salute you for your service and honor you for your sacrifice.
April 14, 2005
May God continue to grant you eternal peace, and bring comfort and peace to your loved ones.
January 25, 2005
Rest in peace motorman.
Ofc. Michael Walker
Tallahassee Police Dept.
September 10, 2003
God Bless you and Keep you.
Rest in Peace Brother.
CPD
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