Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

TAI,
You were my first Sarge, my trainer, the king of organizing and compassionate policing. When people ask me why I’m so organized I say I took it on after I lost a friend many years ago. I have no clue how I found this site today myself as many of us are stating. You are missed, you are remembered and you mattered. Thank you my friend. Moody recalling your laugh, thank you, I could hear it again and had forgotten. Love to his family and friends when you come by.

Cyn Dugf Liggett
Apple Valley PD. Minnesota

May 23, 2024

Not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. Orange County just posted that they put up a memorial in you're name and dedication on the new north Econ pedestrian trail park, Near the spot of that sad fatal event.
I know you are looking down on you're loved ones, as well as taking care of others up there with you.

Thank you for giving me direction when I needed it the most. I will never forget the officer, man, or father figure you were and still are in many ways.

Miss you very much

Francis , Retired

May 12, 2024

Rest in peace Deputy Sheriff Ingram.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

May 9, 2019

Rest well hero. Thank you for service.

Lieutenant Ray Flores
N.Y.P.D. (retired)

May 12, 2017

The Sheriffs of Florida and their deputies will never forget the sacrifice you and your family made to uphold our laws and protect society.

Your name has been inscribed on the Florida Sheriffs and the National Law Enforcement Memorial and in our hearts. May you forever rest in peace.

A scripture inscribed on the Florida Sheriffs Law Enforcement Memorial:

"Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called the children
of God." Matthew 5:9

Executive Director Steve Casey
Florida Sheriffs Association

August 20, 2016

Deputy Thomas A, Ingram:
My beloved friend and hero, your guidance, pray and kind words to everyone you came in contact with; no matter if it was a fellow LEO, a suspect, a 10-15 (arrestee), a defendant (you was called to testify against in court) or a young person going astray, your influence was always that of a powerful and positive remembrance.

I remember your settlement and you purchased a limousine business, and was shortly given an ultimatum of your badge or your business. We talked in great length and you smiled and said “Ron, I have thought everything over and my community has to come first, or I would no longer be the person I am.” That conversation burns hard in my mind, you gave up a very financial lucrative career to continue protecting your friends, family and neighbors (the community you so loved).

Well my friend your community loved and still loves you.

All the time we spent together made me a better person and the person I sit here today being.

I named my first son in your remembrance whom was born just after your demise.

My friend I look forward to the day I see you in the great heavens above.

Forever remembering the person you made me!

Civilian
Friend

February 22, 2016

Deputy Thomas A, Ingram:
My beloved friend and hero, your guidance, pray and kind words to everyone you came in contact with; no matter if it was a fellow LEO, a suspect, a 10-15 (arrestee), a defendant (you was called to testify against in court) or a young person going astray, your influence was always that of a powerful and positive remembrance.

I remember your settlement and you purchased a limousine business, and was shortly given an ultimatum of your badge or your business. We talked in great length and you smiled and said “Ron, I have thought everything over and my community has to come first, or I would no longer be the person I am.” That conversation burns hard in my mind, you gave up a very financial lucrative career to continue protecting your friends, family and neighbors (the community you so loved).

Well my friend your community loved and still loves you.

All the time we spent together made me a better person and the person I sit here today being.

I named my first son in your remembrance whom was born just after your demise.

My friend I look forward to the day I see you in the great heavens above.

Forever remembering the person you made me!

Civilian
Friend

February 22, 2016

Somehow I've stumbled upon this site... Not sure why but I'm glad I did. Please watch over the family. I love you grandpa RIP

amber ingram

October 8, 2015

Time may have passed but you are not forgotten. I believe as long as someone remembers you or speaks your name, you are still with us.
Thank you for your heroism.
God Bless

Detention Officer A.Zambito
Texas

May 12, 2015

I reflect on a regular basis our friendship, and work, I was not surprised to hear how Tom was killed, helping others. He was one of the finest officers I have ever known and I miss his laugh and humor. I always had fun working together with Tom. I ordered a memory band and have worn this reminder for over 20 yrs. Each DUI arrest I would say a little pray and say to myself, this is for you Tom.

Retired Chief of Police Brent C. Moody
Wrangell, Dillingham and Kake Alaska

October 18, 2014

Deputy Ingram;

On April 20th the day of our Walk Like MADD- I will walk proudly in your honor with the officers from the Orange County Sheriff's Office and other families and friends who will remember your dedication and hard work in the fight against drunk driving. Rest in Peace.

Yolanda Larson Executive Director
Mothers Against Drunk Driving

March 22, 2013

It's been a long time, but you are not forgotten my friend. I see your photo every work day as it hangs on the wall in the East Orange Substation along with our other Heroes. Thank you for your friendship. R.I.P. Brother. I will see you on the other side one day.

Sergeant Paul Smalley
Orange County Sheriff's Office

February 28, 2013

Your heroism and service is honored today, the 22nd anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer who was murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Time never diminishes respect. Your memory will always be honored and revered.

I pray for solace for all those that love and remember you for I know both the pain and pride are forever. Your family is in my heart's embrace. Thanks to your family and friends for sharing their memories and devotion to you through their reflections.

Rest In Peace.

Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05

May 12, 2012

Rest in Peace, Deputy Ingram. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.

Officer 11169

February 14, 2012

So, somehow I came across this site, I don't know how. But, I love you grandpa.

Victoria
granddaughter

March 16, 2009

Deputy Sheriff Ingram, thank you for your service and dedication. Rest in peace.

Michelle - wife of Retired LEO

April 23, 2008

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell
Sergeant
Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
Copyright © 1999 - All Rights Reserved
and may not be duplicated without permission

Investigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

December 15, 2007

I have no idea how I happened upon this site, but I'm glad I did.
It's so good to see Tommy's smling face.
I miss you everyday big brother.
I love you, M-L

Mary-Lynn Rourke
Tom's sister

September 28, 2007

Myself and other clasmates, at Whetstone HS, who knew Tom know how he took on all his work with enthusisum. This site is a wonderful Memorial for all Law Enforcement. May all past, present and future Law Enforcement people be blessed with the same kind of friends Tom has had.

Paul Rompel
High School Classmate

August 1, 2006

Brother Ingram,

May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Respectfully,
You’re Brothers in Blue

Untouchables LE Motorcycle Club

January 13, 2006

You are not forgotten..............

Sgt. Al Whitney
Yuma County Sheriff's Office, Yuma, AZ

April 18, 2004

For someone I never met you have touched my life through some many others. I have ran into several people over the last few years who still bring you up in conversation. The lives you touched were touched deeply and forever. Please continue to watch over these guys. Feel free to drop in on them from time to time. They could use your presence and company. "Angels watching over"

Anonymous

Rest in peace motorman.

Inv. Michael Walker
Tallahassee Police Department