Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Deputy Sheriff Ralph Steven Graves

Randolph County Sheriff's Office, North Carolina

End of Watch Friday, June 10, 1977

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Reflections for Deputy Sheriff Ralph Steven Graves

Rest in peace Deputy Sheriff Graves.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

June 9, 2024

Steve was my cousin and best friend in this world. He died too young (24) I was 24 also and my heart still.aches for him. I am 67 now and I wonder about what a great man he would be now. God bless him he was a Good soul and friend and my brother in heart.

Petty Officer Second Class
US Navy

May 26, 2020

Rest in peace Deputy Sheriff Graves.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

December 25, 2019

Steve I miss you everyday. You were like my brother and all I ever knew was you and me always there for each other. I think of the great times together we had and I mourn the loss of you in my life. May God always smile on your soul.

Terry Moore
Cousin of Steve Graves

August 24, 2017

Time may have passed but you are not forgotten. I believe as long as someone remembers you or speaks your name, you are still with us.
Thank you for your heroism.
GOD Bless

Detention Officer A.Zambito
Texas

June 15, 2015

To fully appreciate the heroes of the present, we must recognize our heroes of the past. Your heroism and service is honored today, the 35th anniversary year of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer who was murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Time never diminishes respect. Your memory will always be honored and revered. Rest In Peace

Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05

November 17, 2012

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell
Sergeant
Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
Copyright © 1999 - All Rights Reserved
and may not be duplicated without permission

Investigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

December 27, 2007

Rest in peace, Sir. Thank you for your service and ultimate sacrifice.
Shirley Roberts-Aunt of Fallen Officer John Logan EOW-March 14, 2004

Shirley Roberts

June 10, 2004

I can still hear your voice on the radio that night. You were my friend and co-worker........I will never forget.

Lt. Bobbi McDowell
Randolph County Sheriff's Office

You are deeply appreciated and never forgotten.

Ofc. Talent, Ofc. Curry
Randolph County Sheriffs Office

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