Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Police Officer Ronald G. Becker, Jr.

New York City Police Department, New York

End of Watch Sunday, August 19, 2012

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Reflections for Police Officer Ronald G. Becker, Jr.

12 years ago today, I was sitting at my fathers bed side thinking of when the worst day of my life was going to happen, not knowing that, that night was my last night with my father

Patricia Valentine
Daughter of NYPD Officer

August 20, 2024

Daddy,

It has been 12 years without you!! This heartache and pain only gets worse as my life goes on without you! I’ll just share the post that I made on my Facebook last night before closing my eyes to get some sleep…

12 years ago today, I was sitting at my fathers bed side thinking of when the worst day of my life was going to happen, not knowing that, that night was my last night with my father

Patricia Valentine
Daughter

August 19, 2024

Just stopping by to update: Daddy, Makayla has graduated High School and turned 18! Alexa is going into her senior year of high school and Aiden is going into 1st grade! We miss you so much Dad! We had a rough month in June and beginning of July. Don’t worry, I am keeping an eye on Uncle Scott! Miss and love you so much dad! I am going to be riding 25 miles in honor of YOU with the Law Enforcement United bike team come 2025! I am going to Washington DC in 2025 and I am also going to try my hardest to get to the adult child’s survivors camp with COPS! Until we meet again Faja….love always, your baby girl <3

Patricia Valentine
Daughter of NYPD Officer

July 19, 2024

RON YOU WERE ONE OF THE NICEST GUYS I MET WHILE WORKING IN THE 42 PRECINCT SO SORRY BROTHER YOUR IN MY PRAYERS

RET DET JAMES PALA
NYPD

March 25, 2024

Officer Becker,
On today, the 10th anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice-not just as a Law Enforcement Officer but for our Country as well when you served with the USN. And to your Family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

Anonymous
United States Border Patrol

August 19, 2022

Ron was a true gentlemen. He never had a bad thing to say about anyone. I remember the last time we were together during your last days. I had left the house without saying goodbye. I just never like the word itself and didn't want to show the tears. I wanted to remember you always with that smile and how happy you were for all the love from your family and friends. Rest in Peace Brother. It was a pleasure to working with you.

Ret. Po Eils
Nypd Bxtf

September 10, 2021

When I was assigned to the 42 back in January 1993 Ronnie was one of the "Old Timers" who did not say much but was always a positive influence on the rookies. I will always remember his relaxed demeanor and kindness about him. RIP Brother

PO Brad Ickes
NYPD TARU

September 8, 2021

Happy Heavenly Birthday, sweetheart

Patti Becker
Wife

September 28, 2020

Miss you so much Daddy! I can’t believe it’s 8 years already! I love you Faja!! You will NEVER be forgotten! You are my hero ❤️❤️
Love always,
Your baby girl

Patricia Valentine (Becker)
Daughter

August 29, 2020

One of the many amazing men and women who gave so selflessly and heroically that day and the many days that followed. Thank you for your service and rest in peace always knowing that your sacrifice will never, ever be forgotten.

Detective Cpl/3 Steven Rizzo
Delaware State Police (Retired)

August 19, 2020

2,920 days
My dearest husband, you are so loved and missed. Not a day goes by that we don’t think of you, speak of you, remember you and your beautiful smile and hardy laugh.
Continue to watch over us, my love.
Until we meet again, you will forever live in my heart

Patti Becker
Wife

August 19, 2020

Merry Christmas Daddy!! Miss and love you so much! I will continue to make you proud!! Until we meet again....
Love always your baby girl

Patricia Becker-Valentine
Daughter

December 26, 2019

Seven years has passed without you, yet it feels like yesterday. So much has changed. You have a new grandson, and he is amazing

Patricia Becker
Wife

August 19, 2019

May you continue to rest in peace my brother. It's now seven years that you have left your loving family and extended family: NYPD.
I want to thank you again for your service and sacrifice. Until one day we all meet.

Lieutenant Raymond Flores
NYPD (retired)

August 19, 2019

Daddy,

I miss you so much! Momma and the rest of the crew are making their way down to FL for good! I know you are happy to know we are all going to be together again! Daddy, you will NEVER be FORGOTTEN!! I love you Faja! Until we meet again.... I will continue to make you proud ❤️

Patricia Becker-Valentine
Daughter

June 1, 2019

John 5:28, 29 - "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I pray that everyone can find peace in knowing that we will see this officer as well as many others again in Paradise soon. Until then, please accept my condolences.

A.W. Montgomery
Concerned Citizen

September 17, 2018

Hi Trish, it was a pleasure for Milly and me to meet you at Dr. Kantounis' office on Jan. 30, 2018. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Your father made the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom so that others could survive. Our country will always be grateful to your family for the loss of your father. God bless.

(You ARE making your father proud!)

Ed Fleck, Special Agent
FBI (ret)

February 12, 2018

Merry Christmas in Heaven Daddy! I miss and Love you so much Faja! I am going to continue making you proud!!! Love you Daddy!!!

Daughter Patricia Becker Valentine
NYPD

December 27, 2017

Continue to rest well my brother. We, who were also there, are still here wondering when it is our time. But while we are all here, we want to thank you for your service and sacrifice to all of us. May you also continue to watch over your loving family, friends, and all whom you have touched. May they all be blessed as they think of you. Until we meet.

Lieutenant Ray Flores
N.Y.P.D. (retired)

August 19, 2017

Papa, What can I say I love and miss u to pieces. It's been almost 5 years now and I'm graduating next year. I'm sad that ur not gonna be there to see it but I know that you'll be watching from above. Makayla and Tricia moved to Florida and I don't know what to do with myself. I miss them almost as much as I miss u. Well I just wanted to say that. I love u and miss u lots,bye

Ur youngest Alexa
Grandpa

August 14, 2017

Daddy,
Where do I begin? It's been 4 years since God called you home. I miss you so much Daddy! I wish you were here with me to guide me with the big move I'm going to be making next year. I miss your laugh, your smile, you waking me up by tickling my feet. I miss everything about you daddy. Thank you for your service in the United States Navy and the NYPD! You were born to serve! You will never ever be forgotten! I am working very hard as you know to have your name engraved anywhere and everywhere it belongs. I LOVE YOU DADDY!
Love Always,
Your little girl Tricia ❤️

Patricia Valentine
Daughter

November 7, 2016

May God rest your soul, thank you for your service.

Peter Kennedy

October 25, 2015

... the passage of time will never diminish our sincere appreciation for your dedicated service and ultimate sacrifice for us. God Bless You, your Family and the New York City Police Dept.

anonymous

August 19, 2015

Officer Becker,
On today, the 3rd anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of New York City and our Country as well. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

R.I.P.
USBP

Anonymous
United States Border Patrol

August 19, 2015

I said a little prayer today for Police Officer Becker and his family. He may be gone but never forgotten. He will always be a New York HERO.

Robyn Wilkes

August 14, 2015

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