Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Police Officer Robert Carey Deckard, Jr.

San Antonio Police Department, Texas

End of Watch Friday, December 20, 2013

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Reflections for Police Officer Robert Carey Deckard, Jr.

Rest in peace, Officer Deckard, I feel so much for your family, friends, & fellow officers as well as the community you served with my brother Ben.
You are Heros and will always be remembered for how you lived and embraced life and serving others.
That Giant Smile of yours says it all!
May the Holy Spirit bring peace to All

Terri Marconi
Sister of Detective Ben Marconi

December 21, 2023

Officer Deckard,
On today, the 10th anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of San Antonio. And to your Family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

R.I.P.
USBP

Anonymous
United States Border Patrol

December 20, 2023

Rest in peace Officer Deckard.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

April 5, 2022

John 5:28, 29 - "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out". I pray that everyone can find peace in knowing that we will see this officer as well as many others again in Paradise soon. Until then, please accept my condolences.

A.W. Montgomery
Concerned Citizen

September 13, 2018

After I was shot in Oct 2013, you reached out to me. Sent me a msg with words of encouragement. "Im glad you're still with us" you wrote, "I'd go through a door with you any day!" It meant a lot to me then but I couldn't have imagined how much it would come to mean to me later when you were shot under similar circumstances. It broke my heart and I felt called to come and be by your side. Your family welcomed me, even though we had never met and I came and told your aunt the story of how we came to "know" one another. I was there. Right next to you. I held your hand and I talked to you. Somehow, I KNOW you could hear me. I carry you with me Bobby. Now and always. I will never forget you. One day...we WILL meet again...and no doubt, guard the gates of Heaven...TOGETHER. #YouGoIGo

Semper Fidelis, Slow Salute...

Officer Ann M. Carrizales #2935
Meadows Place (Texas) PD
U.S. Marine Corps Veteran (Sergeant)

March 6, 2018

Brother, time continues forward despite our want for it to "stand fast". Maybe it's because we want to hold-on to our loved ones or because we don't want to lose clear crisp memories. One thing for certain; Your life & your service will forever be remembered. We'll hold on to your memory and to every exchange we shared. Apart of you lives in every Peace Officers life. As Bretheren we'll continue forward until "The Roll is called up Yonder" learning "Leaning on the Everlasting Arms" because like the Apostle "I can do all things in Christ; which strengthen me". Your Bex Co Family will seek to walk the straight & narrow road to Honor you & those that Responded. Thank You.

Patrol East joseph rico
BCSO

December 21, 2017

Words can’t describe how many lives you impacted! Thank you for the good times, all the laughter! It was an honor working beside you at the Sheriff’s Office and running into you at Fiesta events and the mags office once you moved on to SAPD! True warrior

Deputy Sheriff Patrol Alma Barbosa
Bexar County Sheriffs Office

December 20, 2017

RIP officer deckard I hope that I will visit your grave to leave a better reflection

police explorer D.I. Oscar Vasquez
San antonio police department

February 21, 2016

I can't believe I haven't heard your voice or that devious laugh for so long now. I miss you everyday and things will never be the same.

RN S Thomas
Hospital

December 20, 2015

"Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God."
Matthew 5:9

Marshal Chris Di Gerolamo
Federal Air Marshal Service

July 5, 2015

Hello , I am a French police officer , I met today a San Antonio police officer who is on holiday in France. I have a thought for the police and wish you all the courage and be careful. Good luck and do not hesitate to visit us in France.

Gardien de la paix Napoleon Julien
Csi 75

February 24, 2015

Bobby was an amazing person, outstanding, dedicated officer, my classmate through two acadamies and one of my best friends for more than 8 years. He had an infectious smile and a mischievous personality. Yesterday marks one year since he was killed. Not a day has gone by that I haven't thought of that smile, and laugh. He touched so many lives, and those who never met him, truly missed out. RIP, brother, watch over us until we are with you again.

Detective S. Landry
San Antonio Police Department, classmate, friend

December 21, 2014

R.I.P..in my thoughts

j lange 1549
san antonio

December 20, 2014

You were one of the Elite brother. Rest in Heavan my friend.

Officer M.A. Salazar
San Antonio olice Dept.

August 13, 2014

Thank you and R.I.P. Brother.

Officer R.J. Sanchez
Poth Police Department

June 14, 2014

During the 2014 Candlelight Vigil, I had the honor and privilege to escort your family member from the bus to their seat in the Memorial with the rest of your family and children. I was able to learn a little bit about you and your incident. It was my honor to share in your memory. Rest In Peace sir! You will never be forgotten!

Officer Ted Cam
Westtown-East Goshen Regional Police

May 15, 2014

May the Hand of God continue to guide you through your journey of grief. May you find comfort in the Brotherhood of Blue that surrounds you. I pray you will make the journey to Washington DC for the ceremonies for the fallen next month. There will be officers who ride in honor of your husband on the Police Unity Tour and the Law Enforcement United Tour. It is a heart warming and bittersweet moment when we all meet at the wall to rejoin our fallen and greet you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers along with all of those who serve us everyday all over the world. May you have Peace and grow through the pain and find comfort in the wonderful memories you shared with Robert. God Bless and Godspeed.

Major (retired)
Pasco County Sheriff's Office, Florida

April 20, 2014

On behalf of my family, I extend our sincerest condolences on the grievous loss you suffered when Robert was killed.

To Robert's family, my heart goes out to all of you and may you find comfort in your loved ones and your strength in your faith. When my son was killed, the entire law enforcement community in our area embraced us in a circle of love and support, and I know you will receive the same support. It makes the unbearable less torturous, and I pray for your solace.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the dedicated service Officer Deckard gave to his community and the citizens of Texas, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on December 20, 2013. Even in death, you made the magnificent gift of life by being an organ donor.

Phyllis Lasater Loya
mom of fallen officer Larry Lasater

April 2, 2014

Rest easy Warrior you have earned your place with God ! Being a street cop you would have chosen this way to leave us. May your family,friends and co-workers find peace and comfort that you now patrol the streets of Heaven

R Eberhart friend and partner to
Royce Anderson HCSO eow 10/26/81

February 2, 2014

Robert was an awesome officer, when he first came to Bexar County I was his DTO, he was one of my better Cadets he learned quick & was a valuable asset to the county, It was an honor being your DTO! RIP

Dep Roger Musquiz Jr#1265
Bexar County Sheriffs Dept/ Detention

January 23, 2014

Officer Deckard was selected to be a member of the San Antonio Police Honor Guard just prior to the incident. It would have been an honor to walk with you. RIP Bobby.

Officer Boyle #0200 SAPD Honor Guard
San Antonio Police

January 21, 2014

Rest In Peace Officer Deckard.
Watch over us from above, your sacrifice will never be forgotten. My thoughts are with your family and children.

Police Officer Needham
NYPD

January 16, 2014

RIP Officer Deckard. Your family and your SAPD family have been in my thoughts and prayers. Watch over us from above. We'll take it from here.

Officer Daniel Crook
San Marcos Police Department

January 16, 2014

RIP Sir, godspeed to your family, friends an the SAPD.

K. Brooks
Houston PD

January 7, 2014

Bobby,
You were one of the good ones. Your dedication and servitude to the force was something to be desired. We are going to miss you dearly. Rest in Peace.

Cpl. Kelly B. Murray
Bexar County Sheriff's Office (Retired)

January 2, 2014

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