Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Enjoy your EOT Sgt.

Detective Frank Misiano
Richmond Police Dept., Richmond, Va.

August 19, 2009

Chief Dean Strzelecki and the entire Niles Police Department send our deepest condolences to the family, friends and colleagues of Sergeant Murray Jr.. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Godspeed.

Niles, Illinois Police Department

July 21, 2009

In this time of deep sorrow, I know that Officer Murray is God's Angel now. He brushes each of our grieving hearts with his consoling spirit. He wants us to remember him for his wit, charm, and heart of gold. We have truly lost a spectacular man, officer, husband, and dad. Rest in peace, dear Earl. Robert's and my prayers are with your precious family.

Anonymous

July 14, 2009

Dear Family, Friends, and Co-Workers of Sergeant Dulan Earl Murray Jr.,

We are so sorry to here about your tragic loss of Sergeant Dulan Earl Murray Jr. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in support during this very difficult time. We know that sometimes there is little comfort that comes from words. Keep focused as you can on the memories and joyous times for these things may bring you comfort. Rely heavily on family, friends, and other law enforcement for support. Honor your fallen loved one, for their sacrifice will not be forgotten. Sergeant Dulan Earl Murray Jr. is a hero.

Respectfully,

Alissa Scott
Widow of Beryl Wayne Scott
E.O.W. 09-10-02

Lisa Schultz
Widow of Don Schultz
E.O.W. 05-12-04

Co-Founders of Survivor Help Network

Anonymous

June 24, 2009

To Sgt. Earl Murray Jr., to all family members and friends who call him beloved, and to his law enforcement family:

I was sorry to learn of Earl's death and extend my sincerest condolences on the grievous loss you have suffered. Words are insufficient to describe the sadness I feel for the Murray family. May you find comfort in your faith and the support of the law enforcement community.

There are many police survivors who share this same journey with you, and that community will be there to support you. Earl's memory will be forever honored and revered.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the years of distinquished service Earl gave to his community and the citizens of North Carolina and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on May 15, 2009.

Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg, CA PD, eow 4/24/05 (also a NC native)

Anonymous

June 24, 2009

May God Bless Sgt. Murray Jr., his family, and fellow officers. Thank you for your service Sir, you will never be forgotten.

Police Officer
Ohio

June 9, 2009

May you rest in peace, Sir! You will never be forgotten.

Police Officer

June 3, 2009

God Bless you Sir.

Rick F.
Ret. CO

June 1, 2009

I had the distinct honor and priviledge to have known and
worked with Earl Murray as deputies assigned to District A in Patrol Division for the Dare Co. S.O. An even greater blessing was to have been very close to Earl outside of work. He and his family have always been very dear to me and I loved him, not like, but as a brother.

Earl was a man of strong faith. He was a devoted husband who adored his wife. He was a proud father who cherished his daughters. He was a fair and honest police officer who quickly took charge, but was also able to de-escalate most any volatile situation. His patrol car and uniform were impeccable and his integrity was beyond reproach. Earl was an inspiration to others around him and I hope that he knew how much I admired him.

Though I left the Outer Banks of N.C. ten (10) years ago and went to work for an agency in the center of the state, Earl and I still remained close and kept in contact with one another. Whenever I returned to visit I was certain to contact him in advance to ensure that we would be able to visit while I was home.

Earl meant a great deal to me and I am very proud to call him my friend. Throughout my life I've met many people from all walks of life, but Earl was very unique. Very few people will cross our path in life and have a positive influence with the kind of magnitude as Earl has.

I am truly thankful for having been blessed with the time that I knew Earl Murray and I look forward to one day seeing him again in the presence of our Lord.

Deputy C.L. Galloway
Harnett Co. (NC) Sheriff's Office

May 31, 2009

Sgt. Murray,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of Nags Head. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

R.I.P.
USBP

Anonymous

May 31, 2009

Just a terrible thing to hear about this officer. I had just found out the day after he passed away when I was on vacation in Nags Head. RIP Dulan Earl Murray Jr.

Donald Robertson
Master Security Inc. Youngstown, Ohio

May 30, 2009

Rest easy, your job is here is done. Your sacrifice is great will not be forgotten. Your brothers and sisters in blue will care for those left behind until you are reunited.

Sgt. Beth Quinlan
Gaitherburg Police Dept.

May 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Sergeant Murray, today and always.. Thank you Sergeant Murray for your service and sacrifice, you are a HERO, and will never be forgotten... Rest in Peace Sir!

Joyce
Sister of Ofc. John P Harris EOW 8/19/1994 Henrico PD Virginia

May 29, 2009

Sgt Murray I just wanted to say think you.For everything you did for me, may family and the public.You are a cops cop. Rest in peace sgt, and god bless you and your family.

Police Officer Chase Tadlock

May 28, 2009

Although I never knew Sgt Murray, I felt like I did I worked with his father at the Department of Corrections, and he always spoke highly of his son. I know Sgt Murray will be missed. God Bless his family, friends, and the Nags Head Police Department.

Officer Robert Pearce
Wilmington Police NC

May 26, 2009

I learned of Earl's death a few hours before the national memorial service in Washington, DC, which I attended with a very heavy heart. It's so sad to see the names of so many officers who gave their lives in service to their communities. Yet it is an honor to stand in support of the families that have been left behind. Next year, I will stand there again and listen as the name of my good friend is read at roll call.

Earl Murray was the genuine article, the epitomy of a good ol' boy from a small town in eastern North Carolina. I had the priviliege of knowing him for more than 14 years. I also worked with him for a couple of years at DCSO. There was never a time he didn't greet me with a smile or a handshake. If I ever needed him he was there, whether to answer a question, back me up on a call, or simply talk NASCAR or family. Earl was a great person and I am proud to have known him as an officer, and a friend. I will truly miss him.

Rest in peace, 105. We'll take it from here.

Corporal Shane Allen
Kill Devil Hills Police Department

May 26, 2009

Our heartfelt prayers are with you all during this time. May God bless.

Alayna Wilcox
Slidell Police Dept.

May 26, 2009

Earl was one of those officers that you considered a lifelong friend; (we’ve known each other for 25 years)…you might not see each other for a few weeks or a few months, but when you did, it was like you’d just spoken the day before.
I remember many nights on duty, hitting signal 9 at the Golden Corral, and laughing until we thought we were going to fall off of our chairs…Earl was just that way….

I remember discussions at high school volleyball games, with our daughters playing on opposing teams, and seeing the pride shining in his eyes while he watched one his girls playing…

I remember when Earl and his wife were dating and then married, and over the years, his obvious love for her never seemed to fade.

I remember attending training, and rooming together at the Justice Academy and making the drive to his parents’ restaurant….and Earl laughing at me the first time I ever tried pickled watermelon rind…at his insistence…

Earl, friend for life, brother forever, you are missed, you will be remembered, you made a difference.

Chez
DCSO

Investigator David Cheesman
Dare County Sheriff's Office

May 26, 2009

Thank you Sergeant Murray for your service and sacrifice, you are a HERO, and will never be forgotten... Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends today and always... Rest in Peace Sir..

Joyce
Sister of Ofc. John P Harris EOW 8/19/1994 Henrico PD Virginia

May 26, 2009

In the simple performance of duty,
he pinned on a badge,
checked his gear with a practiced eye,
and kissed his loved ones good-bye.

In the simple performance of duty,
he reported for work,
joked with his buddies,
and made his last trip down the squad room hall.

In the simple performance of duty,
he answered the call
to help the helpless, to find the lost,
no matter the danger or how great the cost.

In the simple performance of duty,
he lay down his life,
for those in peril he tried to save,
our brave friend went to his grave.

In the simple performance of duty,
we honor his deed,
as we carry him to rest in a flag-draped casket,
long after the world has forgotten, we shall never forget.

Never judge or regret, what he did, in the simple performance of duty.

Earl, you will be sadly missed. Your "Buddy Roe" and "Dag Gummit" will be forever echoed in our halls. Your “Outer Banks Drain Hole Theory” will be carried on as well as ridding the world of the word, “PVA”. Earl was a good cop, and a stand up human being. No matter how bad your day was, he could tell a few jokes and get you back on your feet, even when he was having a bad day, he could joke about it. I consider it a privilege to have worked with you in the short amount of time that I did.

Rest in peace brother, you will always be remembered.

Detective Greg South
Nags Head Police Department

May 25, 2009

I worked with Earl for 3 years and I can truly say the world lost one of the 'good ones'. Earl loved his two girls to death and was a devote family man.
As a supervisor he was nothing but class and as a fellow officer, he always had time to listen and offer advice and help with problems. Earl you were one of the best people I have ever met in this line of work and you will be truly missed.
My deepest condolences go out to Kim, Sami Jo and Paige. Rest easy my friend and know that the boys in blue have the watch now. I look forward to the day we can see each other again. Until then 105 is 10-42

officer shawn mckimmey
plymouth police department

May 23, 2009

Sgt Murray was a fine man and outstanding Officer. He will be missed here. See you in Heaven. Rest Peacefully My Friend.

E.J. Williams,Jr , Lt Col (Retired)
Dare County SO (Retired)

May 23, 2009

Thank you for your service. You leave many officers behind, but you join so many amazing ones when you get to heaven.

NC Police Officer

May 23, 2009

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell

Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
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and may not be duplicated without permission

INvestigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

May 23, 2009

Sgt Murray, your watch is ended. May our Heavenly Father watch over your family and friends during this tragic time. May your soul walk carefully and proudly into everlasting life. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in God’s peace my friend, you deserve it.
REV

Chaplain Michael Grinnals
Camillus Police Department

May 22, 2009