Northern York County Regional Police Department, Pennsylvania
End of Watch Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Reflections for Police Officer David Donald Tome
Hi Babe,
It is so hard to believe we made it a whole year without you. I do not doubt that God and the love and strength that you left with us is what pulls us thru. Looking towards the future I become so scared, but I know you will always be there to guide us. Even in your absence we continue to feel your love. You will always be the love of my life and remembered for all the joy you brought to it. I look forward to the day when I can run into your arms and see your smiling face again. Until then...all my love!
Dody
Wife
October 21, 2009
It's hard to believe it's been one year since you were taken away. Time hasn't healed any wounds, in fact, as time goes on, days / events pass that only make us miss you more.
Of course your first memorial race will happen on an appropriate game day, and even though I think I already know the outcome, I still have to say GO BLUE!
Anonymous
October 21, 2009
To Officer David Tome and his loved ones:
On this the first anniversary of your tragic death, please know that your memory is honored and revered today. Rest in Peace, Dave. I am praying for solace for your family members today, and each day that they are on the survivors' path.
This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the distinquished service Dave gave to his community and the citizens of Pennslyvania, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on October 21, 2008.
Phyllis Loya
mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater
October 21, 2009
To Officer David D. Tome, his family and his fellow officers with the Northern York County Regional Police Department:
Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Officer Tome’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Officer Tome and thank you for your service.
Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Memeber and Staff
October 21, 2009
Officer Tome, Thank you for your service.
Today, as always, your Wife, Children and Friends & Family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Rest in peace Officer, you served well.
J. Clendening #407
Glades County Sheriff's Office, FL
October 21, 2009
David, Tomorrow will be one year. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. You live through my memories that I've had with you and Dody and the family. It's still not the same without you! Dody, Eli, and Joslyn love you very much. Please keep your loving arms wrapped around them and keep them safe! We all love you and thank you for all you've done! You are greatly remembered!
Janelle Leib
cousin
October 20, 2009
David...We love you and miss you each and everyday! Keep shining down on us!
Janelle Leib
Cousin
October 20, 2009
I'm writing this tonight because I know that I won't be in a position emotionally to write tomorrow. Tomorrow. The memories from 10/21/08 are burned into my mind. Hearing the "rumor". Making the frantic phone calls. Finding out that Randy had already heard the news and couldn't bear to tell me. Pleading with God to have it all be some crazy mistake. And then the long, sad days that followed. I've held your beautiful Dody and have tried to convince her of things that I'm not quite sure I believe myself. Destiny, fate, God's plan, etc. But the only thing that I can convince myself of tonight is that you had so much living left to do and none of this is fair. You are truly missed and will forever be in our hearts!
By the way, Josy wants another Coach for Christmas & I totally plan to indulge her!
Jenn Shearer
friend
October 20, 2009
DAVID,
I MISS YOU SO SO MUCH. THANK YOU FOR THE 31 YEARS, BUT I STILL FEEL YOU LEFT US TO TO SOON. THANK YOU FOR BEING IN MY DREAM THE OTHER DAY. HOLDING MY HAND AND BEING BY MY SIDE. MY HEART IS BROKEN BUT YOUR THUMB PRINT IS WITH ME
ALWAYS. LOVE YOU SON. YOU SPIRT WILL LIVE FOREVER ALONG
WITH THAT SMILE. OUR HERO WHO PUT 110% INTO HIS LIFE.
XOXO
MOM
Karen Reever
Mom
October 18, 2009
David our sweet son-in-law,
Here we are in the count down days. It will soon be a year that you have been taken from us. Everyday I lived that day over being told of your accident. Making that trip to church to tell Dody, then to your mom's house to tell her. There is days I can't stand it, I just want to cry, scream do something. I still hurt so bad inside cause I love and miss you so much. Then my mind starts to think, if I miss you this much, how must it be for Dody. Then I feel worse. I'm her mom and when she was growing up, I could a lot of times help take her hurt away, and now I feel helpless, and that hurts me so much. I know with God's help and strength, and with our family and friends, we are getting through the loss of you. You will always remain in my heart David.
Deb Leib
MOTHER-IN-LAW
October 18, 2009
Hi,
i want you to know that I think about you and Dody often. I have wanted to call Dody so many times, but I am afarid she may be having a good day and I don't want to ruin it and make her upset. I know one year is coming close and I can't believe it. I still think of the time I first met you both at penn state york and then finding our Dody was brooks' cousin and you went to hunting camp with him. He hasn't had much luck hunting yet. Maybe you could help him out a bit this year. I'm glad to hear the woman that hit you got some justice although nothing will bring you back to your family. Please continue to watch over them as she is one very stong woman and I love you all very much!!
Gwen & Brooks
friend and cousin
October 4, 2009
Dave, Thinking of you always......... Dody, Eli and Joslyn praying for your continued strength! We are here for you always!
Hope Gracey
Anonymous
September 25, 2009
David,
It breaks my heart that you're not here to share your 8th anniversary with Dody. We had so much fun with you & Dody last year at PSU during your anniversary "weekend getaway"! We always had fun with you around - you didn't always say much, but you always had a smile on your face. I remember your wedding like it was yesterday. You & Dody were beaming! I don't think I've ever seen two people so perfect for each other. You were meant to be together & I know that you'll be together again someday. Everyone who knew and loved you misses you so much.
Jenn Shearer
friend
September 15, 2009
Dear David,
Today would of been your 8 year anniversary. Talking to Dody the night before is dreading the day, because she don't have you to share it with her. Just finding out more about your accident and the lady who hit you, and all what she was doing behind the wheel, gets very upsetting. Thank you for marrying my daughter on 9-15-01, and for giving her a very happy life, with 2 great children. You were a great son-in-law to have.
DEB
MOTHER-IN-LAW
September 15, 2009
Officer Tome,
State Police have charged the the woman that hit you. The investigation revealed she was on the cell phone and putting on make-up, what a horrible shame that you and your family has to pay for her selfishness. I pray for your family every day. Rest in peace brother.
Fellow York County Officer
September 12, 2009
Hi Babe,
We have reached that time of year again...cooler days and Penn State Football. Your favorite!!! You were always anxious for Fall to arrive. This season has lost its spark for me. Traveling to State College for football games will never be the same. I pray that Eli grows to love and appreciate Penn State as much as you dreamed for him. So far he is off to a good start. It is still so hard for me to think that this is permanent. Facing each day without you hurts so bad. I miss your voice, smell, touch and us just being a family.
I love you so much,
Dody
Dody
Wife
September 3, 2009
I know you already know this, but this morning I had the most special privilege of getting to see your wonderful wife and children. Eli is such a little man, and Josi is getting so big! Eli didn't hesitate to climb on that big bus this morning. He was excited. I am glad I got to share in that special moment of your little man starting his first day of kindergarten. Continue to watch over those who love you most!
Kim Lindner
Friend
August 26, 2009
David,
Today would have been another special day in your life. One that I wish that you were here to share with Dody.
Everyday, I pray that God watches over Dody and your family to give them the strength and courage for the challenges that they must face on a daily basis without having you by their side.
You are always in our hearts and mind.
Diane
Aunt
August 26, 2009
My Dearest David,
I miss you so much. Today when I was going to work a police car was behind me. I thought of you and started to cry. When our family gets together, it's just not the same. Seeing Dody and the children without you just rips my heart out. Eli & Josy are getting so big. The children is what keeps us all going on. Last week was the week we would of been on vacation at the beach. We did not go. It would of not been the same without you. All last week all I could think of was what we did at the beach last year. I'm so glad you and Dody went parasailing, and us taking our boat across the bay to get there. What adventure that was. I thank God you were part of our life. It's very hard not having you here, but what I read in the book 90 minutes in heaven, I could not wish you back, no matter how bad I do want you here. Your in my heart and thougths daily. I love you my dear son-in-law.
Deb Leib
MOTHER-IN-LAW
August 22, 2009
David,
I saw a squirrel on the Battlefield last night and thought of you. I was out walking - trying to get myself in some sort of shape for your memorial 5K that Dody has worked so hard at planning. You would be so proud of her! She's doing such a great job at being strong - even when she doesn't feel like it. Everyone misses you so much! We'll be heading to PSU soon. I know you'll do what you can to help out the team. And while you're at it see what you can do to keep me from tripping and landing on my face at the 5K!
Jenn
P.S. Thanks for leading me to the yellow roses!
Jenn Shearer
friend
August 13, 2009
David,
I miss you so much. Dr. Noel said he can not fix a broken heart. Your memories are so precious to me. You left us way to soon. I am so proud of your two children and Dody, but it is so hard not to see you with them, you should be with them. I know you are watching over all of us. My heart is broken but you will always be loved. OUR HERO.
XOXO
Mom
Karen
Mom
August 6, 2009
David,
I miss you so much. Doctor Noel told me he can not fix a broken heart. But I am so thankful he deliver you into this world. Your memories are so precious to me. My hero and the father of two wonderful children. So proud of them and Dody. Keep that great smile till we meet again.
Love you son. But you left to soon. But we know you are waching over us. Looking down on us as we look up for you.
Love you son.
MOM
Anonymous
August 5, 2009
David, you are thought about every single day and missed terribly. Your family is also thought about daily with prayers for them to remain strong and grow even stronger as time progresses.
Anonymous
July 27, 2009
David, you are thought about every single day and missed terribly. Your family is also thought about daily with prayers for them to remain strong and grow even stronger as time progresses.
Anonymous
July 27, 2009
David, I visited your grave on July 2nd. I think of you so much.The view out across the corn field was great, but you know that.I have not gone on a ride along since the last with you. This reflection is a sign to me that it is time for me to go. I am sure you would say go !! I will keep your hiding place secret. I saw Dody,Eli,and Joslyn on June 27th at the picnic and I hurt so much not to see you.Eli sure did like playing ball,but you know that also. God watch over all of us, Duane
Duane Hull
Dover Twp. Supervisor
July 6, 2009
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