Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

R.I.P

Anonymous

October 17, 2022

Thank you for your service and please know that your sacrifice is always remembered by your law enforcement brethren.

Detective Cpl/3 Steven Rizzo
Delaware State Police (Retired)

October 10, 2020

Rest in peace Sergeant Henderson.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

October 10, 2019

Good man. Rest in peace.

Kyra

June 2, 2019

NEVER FORGOTTEN!
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Monica Zahasky
Cops cycling for Survivors

October 10, 2017

Rest in eternal Peace.

N.Y.P.D. Lt. Ray Flores (Ret.)

October 10, 2016

It's almost been 6 years since you left us to be with the Lord. I am still so very saddened by the events that led to your departure from us. You were a great asset to our community and our Police Department. I miss our chats about life and especially discussing your love for children. We had that in common! Your son,Kyle is gonna be just like you! You set such great examples of how a dad,husband,friend,officer,Sargeant .......etc, should be. I am proud to have called you my friend. Thanks for all you done for me to get my son back. I feel more guilty than anyone could ever imagine, and it never goes away. I'm deeply sorry for what your family has went through due to the misbehaviors and criminal acts of two teenagers. I will never forget you, I will see you again someday and have the opportunity to say, IM DEEPLY SORRY! God bless your family.

Terri Kuhn-Jareski
Saddened Friend

September 19, 2013

Rest in Peace, Sergeant Henderson. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.

Officer 11169

April 6, 2013

I never knew you but I know your son. He's a good man. I look at your picture and see the resemblence between you two. Out of all of the police officers in this town he is probably the most liked. He understands people make mistakes and he makes sure justice is brought to those who deserve it. I never liked cops until I met your son. Honestly, I look up tok him as a friend. He gives me hope. I want to take this time to thank you for your services and I know you are truly missed by your loved ones.

Anyomous

November 21, 2012

Five years ago today our department lost a great officer and I lost an outstanding friend. Rest Well Gary...Semper Fi...Mac - SPD 118

Dan "Mac" McCarty
SPD

October 10, 2012

Gary, we're thinking of you today. Thank you for your service and the joy you brought to those who were lucky enough to know you.

(Oh and my boys thank you for being so nice to them...yes and the candy!)

Mrs Mac (118)
Wife to fellow SPD officer and Tresurer FOP Aux. Lodge #84

October 10, 2012

I knew Gary through his son, Kyle. Kyle and I became friends and I had the pleasure of getting to spend some time with Gary. He was a very knowledgable police officer, but better yet just a great, friendly guy. I know Kyle is continuning to make him proud and I hope that someday I can enjoy some more Chinese food with him.

Det/Lt Joey Laughlin
Fayette County Sheriff's Department

August 30, 2012

Hey Dad!!!

So, I'm on "administrative leave" as I'm sure you already know! I believe you were looking down on us all.. It is not an easy thing to do to take another life. I thank you for all that you have done, and the protection you have provided! I am what you made me! Thankyou for being you!

Corporal / Field Training Officer
Kyle Henderson 136

Corporal Kyle Henderson
Son

January 12, 2012

Hey Dad -
Just checking in with you-
I know you probably can't believe what you're seeing down here - can you believe it, they're actually letting me ( your son) train new officers!! I remember you telling me how when you came back out to the street after like 15 years in detectives and Deputy Chief that some of the guys you hired were now "retraining" you! LOL.. I'm laughing now just at the thought of you sitting next to me, and ME telling YOU what to do! Like I could ever compare to you at this stage in my career!

In 3 days we'll hold the 3rd annual Sgt. Gary W. Henderson Golf Outting - and guess what - it grows every year so far! And Bobby, you should see him, what he does in your memory and the time he puts in to help me and Mom - it is beyond what we could ask for! He truly is like your dear ole' friend Bob Sr.! He would do anything for us!You would be so proud of him!

I am who I am because of you, I'll always do what is right because of you, I'll always be the best man I can be because of YOU.

Thank you so much for who you were and still are, and the devotion and guidance you gave me. I'll NEVER let you down!

Kyle - your SON.

Corporal Kyle Henderson
Shelbyville Police Department - SON

October 5, 2011

We miss you 120! I am sure you know that IMPD just lost a great officer like yourself and it hits close to home. I am sure you two are walking the streets above together and are telling us all down here that we have nothing to worry about. Please keep all of us safe! You are never forgotten.

Anonymous

January 29, 2011

Hey Dad,
Bennett and I were in the report writing room tonight talking about how we carried the shift and took 16 calls tonight! I couldn't help but think about you limping through the kitchen, holding your back with that silly smile, telling how "oohhh, my back hurts, I carried the shift tonight!" Everyday I hope you're proud of the job I do, and how I try to treat people the way you taught me. The greatest compliment I ever receive is always - "I knew your Dad, he was a great man, and you're following right in his footsteps." We still talk about the back brace sometimes, and Capt. Weidner constantly reminds me that he saved my life on several occassions when the 2 of you talked about me. It's been 2 years, and not a day, a shift, a football game, a song, my puppy...nothing - that doesn't make me think of you. The golf benefit was amazing this year. So many people came out in your memory! I realize more and more everytime someone talks to me about you how lucky I am to have had 27 years with a Dad like you! Please keep all the guys safe, and help me be the best I can be!

Your Son,
Kyle - #136

Kyle Henderon, Patrol
Son / Shelbyville Police Dept. #136

November 22, 2009

To Sgt. Gary Wayne Henderson, his family and his fellow officers with the Shelbyville Police Department:

Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Sgt. Henderson’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Sgt. Henderson and thank you for your service.

Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Members and Staff

October 10, 2009

Rest in Peace Gary

Deputy Randy Bennett
Henry County Sheriff's Dept. (Indiana)

October 10, 2009

Not a day goes by that we don't think of you, Gary Wayne. Know that we will all gather Saturday in your memory and to celebrate your life. You will live forever through Karen and Kyle and your entire family. We love you always.

Gena Bennett
Shelbyville PD/Niece

October 6, 2009

Gary, thank you for your service to the citizens of Shelby County. Please guide us while we build the Fallen Officer Memorial Garden in your honor. Please help it become a sacred place of peace for your family and the citizens of Shelby County. God Bless you and yours.

Theresa Nolley
President FOP Auxiliary Shelby Lodge #84

October 1, 2009

Happy Birthday Gary Wayne, we miss you just as much today as we did October 11th. You're always on our minds. Love ya.

Gena Bennett
Shelbyville PD/niece

June 24, 2009

Missed you at the holidays again...miss you everyday. Your tragedy has effected so many of us - especially my sister. I can't tell you the times she's told me that she misses her Gary Wayne. It still doesn't seem real. You left us so quickly, so tragically, so unselfishly.

Sharon
Sister-in-law

January 11, 2009

Missed you at the holidays again...miss you everyday. Your tragedy has effected so many of us - especially my sister. I can't tell you the times she's told me that she misses her Gary Wayne. It still doesn't seem real. You left us so quickly, so tragically, so unselfishly.

Sharon
Sister-in-law

January 11, 2009

Not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. You were the funniest and best man that I've ever met, and you have etched memories that will never be forgotten.
You are forever missed.

Jenni Russell
Friend

December 10, 2008

To Sgt. Gary Henderson and and his loved ones:

On this the third anniversary of your tragic death, please know that your memory is honored and revered today. Rest in Peace, Sgt. Henderson. I am praying for solace for your family today and each day of their journey as survivors. I know you must be proud that your son Kyle is following in your footsteps and pursuing a career in law enforcement, and that he is looking after his mom.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the distinquished service Sgt. Henderson gave to his community and the citizens of Indiana, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on October 10, 2007.

Phyllis Loya

Anonymous

October 10, 2008