Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

David,
Hey there its been two years since you've passed away.I miss you so MUCH!.I still have rough days.Like the other day i was going through my papers and i seen this little poem i had wrote about you.All i could do was cry.I hope the girls are doing fine.I havent talked to them in a while.I love them girls and i would do anything for them.You know i would to.But im going to go.I love you bunches.I will be seein ya!!

Chelsea
"Your STEP-Daughter"

October 20, 2009

rEFLECTING ON OUR LIFE AND LOVE AS ONE LEADS ME TO REALIZE EVERYDAY WHAT I HAVE LOST. LIFE IS SO CRAZY SOMETIMES. IM CONSTANTLY TRYING TO MAKE EVERYBODY HAPPY. FEEL LIKE IM UNDER A MICROSCOPE CONSTANTLY! ALL I CAN DO IS BE THE BEST I CAN BE FOR THE GIRLS AND HOPE THEY KNOW EVERYDAY HOW MUCH I LOVE THEIR DADDY! YOU ARE FOREVER ENGRAVED IN MY HEART. WHAT A JOY IT IS TO HAVE BEEN THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. I MISS YOU CONSTANTLY AND LONG TO BE WITH YOU! I LOVE YOU DAVID ALAN

YOUR LOVING WIFE, MICHELLE

October 9, 2009

hey its been like two years since ilast saw u every one misses u . hannah moved schools and every one is being mean to mikayla and they need to stop the drama . i'm dating dakota and alot of stuff has changed since u've been gone . well the teachers looking ,bye xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooooooooooooooooxooooooooooxoxxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxox

lizard
uncle

October 8, 2009

hey whay up hope mikaylas knee gets better

lizard
cousin

October 8, 2009

POOKIE, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. TODAY MARKS 28 MONTHS SINCE YOUR PASSING. WHEN DOES THE PAIN IN MY HEART STOP ACHING? DUE TO THE CONNECTION AND DEEP LOVE WE SHARE I WILL ADMIT THAT PAIN WILL NEVER EASE. I FOUND A LETTER YOU HAD WRITTEN ME BEFORE YOUR DEATH THAT SAYS THIS: MICHELLE, WE SHARE A WONDERFUL JOURNEY TOGETHER. THANK YOU FOR NEVER TURNING YOUR BACK ON ME AND BELIEVING IN ME EVEN WHEN I DOUBT MYSELF. YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND. YOU MEAN EVERYTHING TO ME AND I HOPE THAT IN THE COMING YEARS I CAN BE THE KIND OF HUSBAND THAT YOU SO MUCH DESERVE. YOU ARE A VERY SPECIAL WOMAN AND I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH. LOVE ALWAYS, DAVE. I AM SO VERY THANKFUL THAT I KEPT THINGS LIKE THIS. WORDS THAT ARE SACRED TO ME. THINGS I WILL NEVER TAKE FOR GRANTED. YOU WERE AN AMAZING LOVING AND RESPECTFUL PARTNER. YOU MY LOVE, MEAN THE WORLD TO ME AND I AM SO THANKFUL AND BLESSED FOR OUR TIME ON THIS EARTH AS SOULMATES. I COULD TELL YOU ANYTHING AND YOU LISTENED. YOUR LOVE IS THE GREATEST GIFT BESIDES MY SALVATION I HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED. MY LOVE SPANS ACROSS THE WAY TO YOU TODAY AND EVERY DAY. ILL GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH TO PROCLAIM MY LOVE FOR YOU. WE ARE NEVER FORGETTING WHO YOU WERE AND WHAT YOU STOOD FOR IN OUR HOME, AND COMMUNITY, AND COUNTRY. I FIND MYSELF WATCHING FOR GODS RETURN KNOWING IT WONT BE MUCH LONGER TIL WERE ALL HOME TOGETHER. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. YOUR LOVING WIFE, MICHELLE

YOUR LOVING WIFE, MICHELLE

September 22, 2009

Missing you like crazy. Please continue to watch over us and guide us. Until we meet again.........
FOREVER LOVING AND HONORING DAVID A POLING!!!!!!!

a friend forever

September 16, 2009

Hey Dave it has been awhile since i have left any thing on here i just want you to know that i will never forget the friendship that we had and i know that i am a better person because of it this has made me such a different person i have had to harden myself to so many people that i thought i never would have but it is for the best you taught me so many things in our time together i just cant wait until we can talk face to face in heaven one day i will cya again brother go rest high i know that you are happy there not walking through hell here anymore

Brother
GCSO

September 12, 2009

I love you today as much as I did the day you were taken from me! I love looking into the eyes of our girls and seeing the legacy you have left me! Im one lucky girl!!!The girls are adjusting back to the school days. They dont want to get up out of the bed! They r not morning people. They definately get that from you!!!HAHA! OH WELL THEY R SOOOOOO MUCH LIKE U! I LOVE YOU BABY ALWAYS AND FOREVER!

your loving wife, michelle

September 8, 2009

I am reminded today how much I miss you!! I have thought about the last days on this earth we shared together and it brings a warm smile to my face. I was thinking about the last mothers Day I shared with you. We got up on that Sunday morning for church and as we pulled into the church parking lot you dropped my mom, the girls and I off at the door and said you'd be back in a bit. Ofcourse I couldn't understand why you werent coming into church with me and I was a lil upset but you said Trust me Ill be right back. After Sunday school was over I remember you coming in and joining me in our pew. We came home and to my surprise you had went and bought steaks, potatoes, salad, and a huge watermelon ( which you knew I loved ) and corn on the cob. You cooked on the grill for me and mom. It was one of the best meals I've ever had. After we ate yoiu gave me the most beautiful card. I remember you hooking my hammock onto the porch and the 4-wheeler!! LOL You rigged it up so we could lay in it that afternoon and rest. I remember Tommy Wright coming by to see us and standing in the yard talking with him. After he left you were holding me and you told me how lucky you were to be married to me and that you were so blessed to have me be the mother of your children! I think about that so often! I was fortunate to have you as the father of our girls and my partner. I remember how proud you were of me and our relationship! You were so humble and loving. I never have to wonder a day how much you loved me and that is a blessing. Each day that passes by is a day that I am closer to being with you again! God is good all the time and his mercy endures forever! His promises are outstanding and his grace is sufficient each day. I ask him to supply me with joy and strength to go forward each day. I want to walk in truth and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I am doing all I can to provide love and stability to our girls. They are beautiful as you already know! They have great hearts and truly miss you! I miss your laughter and sense of humor. I miss so much but I will go on just as you asked me to do. You always said the two things i love most about michelle is her smile and her southern accent! The accent will never go away and I try everyday to find the smile you so loved! If we look hard enough everyday brings a blessing. I'm thankful for my positive outlook on life and I want to surround myself with people who are the same! Negativity is out the window! I'm not giving up but some days are so hard and I look for the reasons why I'm still here and you are not! I don't know if i'll ever understand it! I know everyone has a set time but why you! I'm just being selfish and wish you could be with all of us! I know you are happy just where your at. You have reached your destination David Poling! The coming of the Lord is at hand and I know the days are counted to when we will all be together again! Please watch over us and know you are forever a part of us!

your loving wife, Michelle

July 7, 2009

Hey there David - We are all still loving and missing you like crazy. Still today after all the days here without you it doesn't feel right. I know we will see you again someday and until then you will forever be in our hearts.
FOREVER LOVING AND HONORING DAVID A. POLING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

a friend forever

June 23, 2009

Hey Dave you have been on my mind alot lately even more than normal. and to even add to the heartache, I took my little boy down to the park. BOY THAT WAS HARD. I haven't been to the docks for 2 years and it wasn't easy. I had no idea that was only the beginning. We were driving down the road and past the park again, and he pointed to the river and said. Mommy we went there yesterday didn't we. I saw a man, and he fell into the river and didn't make it. I couldn't even believe my own ears, not alone try and focus on driving. So I said what? he said, I talked to a man yesterday and he fell into the river and a boat had to rescue him but he didn't make it. and to be careful. I was speachless, so a few days later. I just wanted to find more. I couldn't help myself. So I asked him again. He said the same thing. So I asked him if he knew of the mans name. He said he was a police man, he had a badge mommy. and he told me to becareful. Of course tears ran instantly. So I wanted to say Thank you, for being there with us. I just wish I knew it at the time. After a few moments, I was glad I went. Its one of those things where you know you are all around us, but that was just like a warm hug. KNOWING you are. THANK YOU DAVE, I CANT EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH I NEEDED THAT...
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU

Tina
friend and wife of coworker

June 15, 2009

hey it's Chelsea your other daughter...I miss you so much..!!..We all know that the 22nd has passed and it was two years that day...It was really hard..I couldnt sleep..That same day they had a memorial ceremony for you down by the river..Im sorry that I didn't make it..It was just to hard...But I just want you to know that i Love you with all my heart and will no matter what happens..Im thinking bout going over to the house this summer to be with MOM and the girls..I miss them so much!!...Everyday I pray for MOM and the girls hoping everything goes fine for them everyday..But I'll be seeing ya!!I just want you to know that Im here for the girls if they ever need anything..Mom also...__ I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!

Chelsea** your Step daughter**

May 28, 2009

Dave, you are always in our thoughts, but today is a reminder, that 2 years ago... we lost one of the finest... a hero doesnt' even say enough...

Tina
friend and wife of coworker

May 22, 2009

To Probation Officer David Poling with the Gallipolis Municipal Court:

Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Officer Poling’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Officer Poling and thank you for your service.

Wives Behind The Badge, Inc
Members and Staff

May 22, 2009

it has almost been two years and it seems like that can not be true. i saw all of your girls last night and i think you would be so very proud of them all. everytime we play them , i cant help myself from looking for you. i will always remember how you charmed Taylor who was terrified of men with just a simple smile and she adored you from the very start. WE all miss you and love you.

missy
friend

May 19, 2009

Almost 2 years, feels like yesterday sometimes. We dont understand the how and why, but trusting.
Miss most of all, your practical jokes and the smiles it brought. Even the folks you dealt with in your line of work speak highly of you. That says alot. Others should take note sometimes.
Miss you.

co-worker

April 23, 2009

Hi David its Hannah its been so sad since you passed away.
Plus I have swithched schools I go to washington now.
I miss Mikayla Faith Michelle Lizard and Allyssa S plus Winter dillard. Mikayla is like a big sister to me and I miss her alot she was my best friend in the whole wide world other than Winter and Lizard. I miss you so much I wish you were still here with all of us. Because it was and sad hard for all of us. You were a great cop and I wish some one else went in the river not you ,you were agreat friend a great husband but most of all a great father and everyone knows that . Bye the way what is your new # Mikayla Sincerely Hannah caudill your friend.

Hannah Caudill
friend

April 22, 2009

WOW! i HAVE DEFINATELY LEARNED SOME TOUGH LESSONS HERE LATELY! I GUESS WHAT DOESN'T KILL ME ONLY MAKES ME STRONGER! I'M GONNA BE SUPERWOMAN IF THIS MESS KEEPS UP THOUGH! I HAVE HAD TO RID MYSELF OF SOME PEOPLE IN MY LIFE WHOM I KNOW YOU LOVED BUT I CAN'T FIX EVERYONE- I CAN'T BE THE SAVIOUR OF THE WORLD. I KNOW YOU UNDERSTAND AND KNOW I DID THE BEST THAT I POSSIBLY COULD AND PUT UP WITH MORE THAN YOU WOULD HAVE EVER EXPECTED ME TOO. I HAVE GOT TO FIND SOME PEACE AND QUIET AND I AM PRAYING FOR SOME BORING, DULL DAYS TO COME!!! I WANT THE GIRLS AND I TO HAVE SANITY AND STABILITY IN OUR LIVES. MIKAYLA SAYS TO ME THE OTHER DAY "MOMMY, DON'T MAKE PEOPLE A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE IF YOU ARE JUST AN OPTION IN THEIRS" SHE IS ONLY TEN SOON TO BE 11 BUT SHE IS VERY WISE BEYOND HER YEARS. I KNOW HOW PROUD YOU MUST BE OF THE GIRLS! MIKAYLA DECIDED TO PLAY SOFTBALL AFTERALL. SHE HAS HER FAIRPIG AND SHE IS NICE!!!! WE HAVE A NEW KID ON THE FARM. HER NAME IS BELLA! SHE IS WHITE WITH ONE BROWN SPOT ON HER SHOULDER. THE OTHER GOAT WILL PROBABLY KID IN ABOUT A MONTH! IT IS NOT EASY KEEPING ALL THIS UP BY MYSELF BUT THE FARM AND ANIMALS DO BRING ME HAPPINESS. WE ARE GONNA PUT OUR GARDEN OUT BEFORE LONG. WE HAVE OUR LETTUCE BED DONE! I AM DOING THE BEST THAT I CAN DAVE. I HAVE MADE SOME MISTAKES BUT YOU KNOW HOW NIEVE I AM OF PEOPLE AND I TEND TO THINK NOTHING BAD WILL HAPPEN TO ME, YOU WOULD THINK AFTER LOSING MY DAD TO A FIRE TRAGEDY AND MY HUSBAND TO A DROWNING THAT I WOULD SOON SEE THAT BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. I WANT TO MAKE YOU PROUD AND I NEED GODS' GUIDANCE EVERYDAY. I HAVE EXTENDED MYSELF OUT TO HELP OTHERS AND I GET STEPPED ON AND TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I HAVE LEARNED A VALUABLE LESSON AND I AM GOING TO BE MORE WISE IN THE FUTURE. I LOVE YOU

YOUR LOVING WIFE MICHELLE

April 14, 2009

Dave,
I just wanted to drop a line or two to let you know, we are all thinking of you... As the days are approaching for the 2 year mark, it's a moment that is hard to believe and one you don't want to relive... I don't think we are going to make it to washington to honor you this year, but you will be in our hearts and minds as you always are...I also wanted to say thanks for looking out for Michelle... She is a strong woman and a very admirable one... but she needs help never-the-less... thanks for keeping your eye on her, I know she is doing her best!!
We love and miss you! I know everyone up there is enjoying your smiles as we did down here....

Tina
friend and wife of coworker

April 9, 2009

Hey uncle David how is it in heaven?Just asken so when its time for me to go ill now what its like!!!!!!!I really do miss u and i wish u would be here still.But im still wishing and maybe someday u will come but that would just be a dream come true and also a mericale.Im not that sure that was how to spell meicale but will work.Or at least i hope it will.So what is it like in heaven.Is there a golden road just asken because i really want to now what it is like.Well i gotta go uncle david.i love you good bye.!!!!!

reesecup

April 2, 2009

Hope you had a wonderful birthday Dave!!!

we love you!! Happy Birthday!!

Tina
Friend and wife of co-worker

March 23, 2009

You would be so proud of your brother. He is getting his life together. He has been there for your girls. He loves them with all his heart. Although I did not know you personally,I know that Rusty loved and respected you.

Anonymous

March 12, 2009

Hey Pookie! It has been a few days since I have been on here. I love you with all of my heart and miss you like crazy!!!!!!! Sometimes I do not know how I am going to keep on without you beside me!!! Stay close to me right now! I do not want to go through all this grieving but I know the tears are necessary for healing. I cannot believe it has been almost two years since your accident. God knows I miss you and Love YOU!!

your loving wife, michelle

March 6, 2009

Was in Mercerville, just thinking of you buddy.

Pacman
oshp

February 19, 2009

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX hey faith is at my mammaw's right know . Me and mikayla got to play against the boy's and with the third and fourth grader's . Also against's courtney's team . Well everyone misses you and I WILL SEE YOU UP THERE LATER , BYE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

lizard

February 16, 2009