Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

PAUL,I'M SO SORRY ABOUT CHRIS.I HOPE AND PRAY THAT YOU GUYS ARE TOGETHER NOW.

DAVID HARRIS,DEPUTY SHERIFF
HENDERSON CO.SO-FRIEND

July 21, 2009

Well Paul this is the 3rd time I have tried to leave you a message, for some reason it's not getting posted. I just wanted to let you know that you are still thought of alot at the office. Myself and some others recently traveled to the TX Peace Officer's Memorial held in Austin to honor your name and your sacrifice. You are missed dearly by everyone. It's comforting to know that you and Tony are watching over us as we continue to do the job that you loved so much. Oh, and I will continue making an entry until one gets posted. Until we meet again, Rest in Peace.

Sgt Brad Gray
Henderson Co SO, TX

June 3, 2009

Your heroism and service is honored today, the second anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer who was murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Time never diminishes respect. Your memory will always be honored and revered. Rest In Peace.

I hold your family in thought and prayer today and pray for their solace.

Phyllis Loya

Phyllis Loya
mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater

May 17, 2009

hey babe,

I left you a message on 3-6-09 which I knew would not be posted. Guess I have to go somewhere else. I miss you dearly. I just wanted to tell you how I am. I still love you so much I can stand it. I guess you already know I no longer work for the Sheriff's Dept. It was a decision I had to make on my own. I know you shine down on me each and every day. Your love is always with me. I kiss your picture every morning when I wake up. Can't wait to see you again and hold you in my empty arms.

Love you forever,
YOURS ALWAYS,
YOUR WIFE,
Nita (nmw)

unemployed
none

March 7, 2009

PAUL, PAUL, PAUL.... WHAT CAN I SAY EXCEPT I MISS AND LOVE YOU. I GUESS YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT WE LOST SHANNON... SEEING AS HOW HE IS IN HEAVEN WITH YOU AND TONY NOW. I KNOW YOU ALL ARE WATCHING OVER US AND CUTTING IT UP LIKE OLD TIMES. NITA IS JUST AS BEAUTIFUL AS ALWAYS AND PAUL... SHE MAY NOT FEEL LIKE IT.... BUT SHE IS AN ABSOLUTELY ROCK. SHE HAS MANAGED TO HOLD STRONG AND STILL BE GORGEOUS. I MISS YOU AND TONY VERY MUCH AND GIVE ANYTHING TO SEE YOU WAVE AT ME LIKE A CRAZY MAN AT THE STOP LIGHT... HAHAHAHAHA.... UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN BROTHER....

Deputy T. Ogburn
kaufman s.o./ friend

February 24, 2009

Paul was a Cop's Cop. I often pass by an alpine lake in California where Paul and I fished together. There is never a time I pass this lake that I do not think of Paul. Paul was an old school cop. A true product of the old days. He stood proud of the profession. He was a man of integrity and sincerity. He is deeply missed by all who knew him.

Officer Scott Willson
South Lake Tahoe Police Department

January 27, 2009

Paul,
I have tried to leave you a message many times, it's still so hard to believe such a bad thing happened. You were such a great influence on so many people. I know I learned so much from you, you were the best cop I know. I tried to fill your position in Investigations knowing that I could never do half the job you did. Maybe one day I will go back to law enforcement, and if I do, I would still try to follow the example you set for us all. I think of you daily and try to make sense of that horrible day. I hope that someday I will find peace with it all. I hope you know how much you are missed. I am so thankful that I was blessed to know you. Your family will always remain in my prayers.

Beth Renberg
Former Deputy Sheriff HCSO

January 7, 2009

It's been 1 yr and 8 months since you were taken from us so tragically. Your knowledge and wisdom is still a topic of discussion. You are missed dearly by all that had the pleasure of knowing you. God Bless and may you rest in peace.

Sgt. Bradley Gray
Henderson county SO, Texas

January 6, 2009

HEY PAUL,I MISS YOUR YOUR SMILE AND YOUR BARITONE VOICE.NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT YOU AND ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN.I DO DRAW STRENGTH FROM YOUR WONDERFUL FAMILY
AND KNOWING THAT YOUR IN A FAR BETTER PLACE.LOVE YOU PAUL.

DAVID HARRIS III
HENDERSON CO.SHERIFF'S DEPT

January 5, 2009

Brother we miss you. I still ask myself on calls what you would do. You will inspire officers for decades. Love ya brother

KWH Police Officer
Friend

December 26, 2008

Happy Belated birthday, Paul !! thought about you all day yesterday, as I do everyday. As you know, things are not the same around here without you here, but just so you will know, Momma Nita is still the blonde-headed bimbo I always told you she was !! But she is my favorite Bimbo !! You don't have to worry about her. We are taking care of her the best we can without you here. She is still my Mommy and you are still my Daddy !! Love ya dearly.

Alisha Harris
Your adopted daughter

October 2, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WISH I COULD SAY IT IN PERSON. I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!!!!!!!! I STILL HURT SO MUCH BECAUSE OF WHAT RANDALL MAYS DID THAT DAY IN MAY. THINGS JUST AREN'T THE SAME AT THE SHERIFF'S DEPT W/O YOU THERE. I'M TRYING SO HARD TO KEEP UP WITH THE PROPERTY. CHRIS AND JENNY ARE HERE NOW AND HELP OUT A LOT. I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MUCH I MISS YOU. I WISH I WAS WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YOU ARE ALWAYS IN MY HEART AND ON MY MIND. I LOVE YOU STILL SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH IT HURTS!!! MAYBE SOMEDAY WE WILL BE ABLE TO FINISH OUR RELATIONSHIP THAT WAS CUT SO SHORT. I WILL ALWAYS BE YOURS!!!!!!!!!!!!
NMW!!!!!!!! LOL

YOURS FOREVER,
YOUR LOVING WIFE
MRS. NITA HABELT
PROUD OF WHO I AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

dso nita habelt
henderson county sheriff's dept

October 1, 2008

God Bless Brother. I was proud to ride for you this year.

P.O. Michael Stise
Jersey City Police Dept

June 12, 2008

JUSTICE WAS SERVED,MAY YOU REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND.

DAVID HARRIS III DEPUTY SHERFF
HCSO--FRIEND

June 2, 2008

As your family, friends and those to whom you are tied by the thin blue line journey through this the last day of "firsts", I pray that they feel the hand of God. A good jury of 12 brought a conviction and penalty for this person's actions -- but the true desire of your loved ones is to have you back.
We, your extended brothers and sisters of the badge, will never forget. A HERO walks with angels and has our back every day. Thank you for your service.

Miller
CPPD

May 17, 2008

A year has passed and you are not forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Trooper II
Texas Highway Patrol

May 17, 2008

I've been trying all day to write a reflection, but still words are hard to find to express how I feel. It's been nearly a year since Paul was taken from us and the deep emotions of 05-17-07 still fill my heart with sorrow. On Monday 05-12-08 the Grand Prairie Police Dept. held their Police Memorial Service. Two names were called that day that brought a flood of memories pushing to the surface. Those names were PAUL HABELT and TONY OGBURN. What an honor it was for Trish and me to represent their memories. As I look back on that black day, all I can say is that GOD was there and in control. I still do not fully understand why it had to happen, but heaven celebrated upon Paul and Tony's arrival. May we all continue to find peace in knowing they are still part of our lives now and forever more.

MARSHAL R. DEAX #M011
GRAND PRAIRIE MARSHAL'S DIVISION / BROTHER-IN-LAW

May 14, 2008

Well, this past week & a half have been an emotional rollercoaster. The trial is now over and the jurors made the right decission. Death to Randall Wayne Mays. The only choice there was. I believe the punishment should fit the crime and this time it did. There is still something besides Paul that is missing in my heart. I still don't have the closure I thought I would. Maybe it is because this was not his trial, I really don't know. Paul you would be proud of me yesterday. I stood strong and read an impact statement for our families and friends. You are always in my heart and I think of you everyday. Not a day goes by that I don't kiss your picture. I wear you wedding band on my left thumb just to know I am still near you in some way. I miss seeing your smiling face EVERYDAY! I miss your hugs and kisses. I love you still and always will. You were not only my husband, my soul mate, but my best friend. You will ALWAYS be in our hearts, especially mine. You will never be forgotten, we won't let that happen by no means. Keep smiling down on us and protect those that go out on the street everyday to make sure the citizens are protected. When the sun is shining I know you are smiling down at me and I love you for that.

love and kisses,
miss you so much
nmw!!!!!!
your wife still,
nita

dso nita habelt
henderson co so

May 14, 2008

We had a memorial service at our office today to honor all officers who have died in the line of duty. I was so honored when I was asked to read a tribute to you after all the other names were read who died in 2007. I thought it would be easy for me to do and yet I could not begin to tell you the emotions I felt while trying to gain my composure and read in front of all the people who were present. Thanks for being a true friend, and know that you are deeply missed.

Inv. John Pippin
DART Police Department, TX

May 12, 2008

Paul we miss you so much. It's been almost a year now and there is still an empty hole in my heart. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you and wish you were here. You were my inspiration to do this job and how I wish I could call you and ask for your opinion or advice on a call. I love you so very much. You were more than a father figure you were a friend and someone I could turn to for advice about anything I had a queation about. You made mom so very happy and she loves you still and always will. I will never forget 5/17/2007. The day that darkness fell in Henderson county. You will be forever missed and loved always.

Chris Stanbery

Deputy Chris Stanbery
Henderson Co. SO

May 7, 2008

Here it is nearly a year later and my heart still hurts. I wish that I could tell you how much I miss you. Mom has been strong. We all love you so much. You are still our number 1 hero!! Nikole and Maddi still sleep with your pictures. They miss you too. I love you!!

Lori Stanbery
daughter

April 24, 2008

A LOSS FOR ALL.

DARRELL EDDY
FRIEND

January 11, 2008

I come to the ODMP often to remember my late fiancé Dennis. Everytime I come here it breaks my heart to know that yet another officer has fallen and that yet another family has to live their lives without the man they loved. My heart goes out to everyone who knew and loved Deputy Habelt, especially to his wife. Know that you are not alone in the "journey" that you walk. Should you ever need anything please don't hesitate to contact me. The Davis Co. Sheriff's Office in Iowa will always know how to reach me. You will be in my thoughts.

From reading the reflections left for Paul, he sounds like he was a great man with a beautiful spirit. Those of you who knew him in life were so blessed to have been able to share in it. I hope that you will all continue to find a way to celebrate and remember Paul's life and the MAN that he was. Remember that Paul's life was about so much more than the way he died. Paul will continue to live on as long as we continue to remember him.

Deputy Habelt, thank you for helping to make this world a little safer for us all. YOU will not be forgotten. Please continue to watch over all of us as only you can. If you happen to bump into my late fiancé Dennis up there give him a big hug for me and the kids. It's been almost five years but we still miss him terribly.

Wishing you brighter and better days,


Jocelyne :)

"Forever Remembering 26-3"

Jocelyne Brar (Winnipeg, MB Canada)
Surviving Fiancee of Deputy Dennis R. McElderry (EOW: 01/03/03)

December 24, 2007

I miss you so much! I wish for one second that I could talk to you. I know it is not meant to understand why you were taken but you will NEVER leave our hearts. You are my hero and I love and miss our time together. You changed my life and gave me something to cherish. I love you!! There will never be a day that I do not think of you. Morgan is my gift to you! She was the latest granddaughter born this year. She was born on your birthday to carry on your legacy and allow us to never forget how precious life is.

Lori Stanbery
daughter

November 1, 2007

We miss you guys more than we can say.

Shannon Harris
former HCSO

October 16, 2007