Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Dear Heath,
We are so proud of you! You made our lives complete, you are the son we never had. I can count on you all the time,
you are there when we need you. I can never tell you how much we love you. I have never seen such a loving,kind
person, you love your family and job, and if God had to call you home you went doing the job you love so much.
I was with you at the birth of Samantha and Mason. I have
never seen you so happy and excited,except for your marriage
to our daughter Shelly!
I will never see a man as long as I live so LOVING and DEVOTED to his wife and children. All I have to do is look
at your facial expression when you look at Shelly and any
one can see how much you LOVE her, you both have worked so
hard to have a beautiful home,a loving place where friends
and family gathered to celebrate special days. I would give
anything to see you one more time with Shelly, Samantha,
and Mason just to see the glow that surrounded the family,
the glow comes from all the love and devotion you have for each other!
I know God has a plan for you, as he only takes the best!
People tell me to look at what we had, not at what we lost,
if that is the case, we had the best 15 years together,
you make our daughter the GREAT LOVING woman she is today,
and you gave us two beautiful grandchildren, with great values they have today.
I miss the talks we had, with all the plans you had to
show Shelly how much you love her, and the plans to have
family trips when time allowed.Anyone who came in touch with you knows Shelly, Samantha and Mason means more than
life itself to you.
People refer to us as Heath's mother and father-in-law,
Shelly,Heath,Mel,Harold and God know us as "second dad and
mom". We love and miss you Heath,we are so very proud of
you, along with family,friends and community.
I ask God, to allow you to make at least one visit to Shelly so she will know you are alright,and allow her
to tell you again how much she LOVES you, and how PROUD
she is to be called Officer James Heath Hardins'wife and
mother of his BEAUTIFUL, LOVING children Samantha and Mason.
As we promised, we are here for Shelly, Samantha and Mason, we can NEVER do the job or come close to filling
your shoes, but we will give and do the best we can.
If you are allowed to make the trip, plese give us a sign
you are alright and God has placed you on the Heavenly Police Force, and WINGS to wrap around your family to keep
them safe and they feel your love all around them until the
end of time when all of you meet again in heaven.
Jim and Shirley (second mom and dad)

Jim and Shirley

February 4, 2007

May you rest in peace, Sgt. Hardin. Reading the tributes here, one can see that a hole was left in the hearts of many when you were taken home. May your wife, children, HMPD family, and friends find comfort in memories of the times shared with you before you were called Home. Thank you for your service to your community and fellow man. You will not be forgotten. Peace be with you. You are a hero.

granddaughter of a former sheriff (Lee Co.)

February 3, 2007

To the family and loved ones of Sgt. Heath Hardin and his fellow officers with the Hope Mills Police Department:

On behalf of our family, I want to extend our sincerest condolences on the grievous loss you suffered when Sgt. Hardin died in the line of duty. His dedication and courage will never be forgotten.

In reading the loving reflections left by family and friends, it is obvious that Heath was an amazing young man who touched many lives in a positive way. I can see that he is so loved and will be missed by so many.

The circumstances of his death were heart breaking and I know caused much anquish for all those affected.

May Heath's spirit continue to soar and his memory continue to inspire. May God hold Heath, his wife and children, and his other family members in the warmest part of his heart and the most gentle part of his soul.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the distinquished service Heath gave to his community and the citizens of North Carolina, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on January 11, 2007.

Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater of the Pittsburg, Ca PD eow 4/24/05
(Larry was also born in North Carolina)

February 3, 2007

Rest in peace brother.

Sgt.Det. Stan Finley
LCSO(Arkansas)

February 2, 2007

When I look back on these times and the dreams we left behind. I'll be glad because I was blessed to have you in my life. When I look back on these days I'll look and see your face. You were right there for me. In my dreams
I'll always see you soar above the sky and in my heart there will always be a place for you for all of my life.
I'll keep a part of you with me and everywhere I am there you'll be.

You showed me how it feels to feel the sky within my reach and I always will remember all of the strength you gave to me. Your love made me make it through and I owe so much to you.

I always saw in you, my light my strength and I thank you now for all the ways you were right there for me. For Always, there you'll be. I love you Heath and I always will ... Happy 13th Anniversary

Shelly

February 2, 2007

Heath, It was hard to hear the news about passing. I was out of the country when I got the news. I hated that I didn't get the chance to laugh and joke around with you like we did so many times back in the day. This is a hard reminder just how short and precious life can be. I will miss seeing you with your family at the powwows we love so much. You will always have a special place in my heart. Your memory will always live on in both the Police and Native American Communities. You are definately on of our fallen heros. Your family will be in my prayers to help them get through this hard time. Heath, I know you are looking down from heaven right looking out for all of us. Until then, God Bless you and your family. We will see each other again. Aho!

MPO. Brian Richardson
ECU Police Department/Friend

January 31, 2007

Heath-I don't really know what to say other than I miss seeing your smiling face here at work. I always looked forward to working with you. I did not ever hang out with outside of work or anything like that but I knew you well enough from our conversation and laughs that we have had at work. I don't know why but I am having the toughest time letting go of this. A few people have told me I need to talk to someone but I don't really know what to say-will they even understand? How could they if they didn't know you? It's a loss that at no time will be forgotten. I had a wierd dream last night and you were there...I didn't know what to make of it and I thought that maybe it would help if I went to see you. Well, as you know I did go see you and Heath I really wanted to talk to you I just couldn't. I hope you understand what was on my heart though. I think it helps to put my feelings into writing and I hope this is okay. I have to wonder if their was a purspose for me being here on that fateful day...if there was I don't know what it was. As far as work goes it was the absolute hardest thing that I have ever had to deal with. I doubt myself every day and I don't know if I am doing the right thing in staying. I guess time will tell, I'm trying not to make any rash decisions. Well, I am going to close for now but we will talk again. With friendship-Me

January 30, 2007

Heath,
I just wanted to tell you about the last couple of weeks. On Friday, our first night back to work, we had a RWDW/AOF and after Brooklyn took the report we/he found the guy. We had to call in Sheila, who by the way is getting better at the gang sign. Brooklyn and I joked about how if you were still here physically you would have found the bad guy, as you always did making us look good. I told Sheila at the funeral that we would see her that weekend because she was on call and we were working. On Saturday we extended a conditional invitation into Strike Team Alpha to Larry, which he accepted. Though at briefing he has to start at the bottom of the pile. Brooklyn has only taken off his tie to eat. T.T. seems to be doing okay trying to stay busy on and off duty. Shelly, the kids, and your parents attened the Fireantz game of Saturday. Sports and his family, Brooklyn and his family, and me and my family went also. At the begining of the game they had a moment of silence in your honor, which I thought was really cool of them to do. Mason and your Dad got to go into the locker room after the game to meet the players. We are checking on Shelly and the kids all the time. We miss you Heath and we know that you are watching out for us and in fact that you are riding with us every shift. I will write more later.

M.F.M.Jean
Hope Mills Police Dept

January 29, 2007

My prayers and thoughts go out to Sgt. Hardin's family and his fellow brothers at Hope Mills Police Dept. and across the states. I'm so sorry I didn't have the opportunity to meet Heath but after reading all the reflections I felt like I knew him. He was a son, a husband, a dad, a brother and a friend that touched so many lives. Heath accomplished so much in a life that was cut short on earth. I believe in Angel's and I believe Heath received his Angel Wings the day he passed. With the LORD'S blessings I pray that Heath will protect you and there will be no harm done, that he will embrace you with his love and hold you tight in his arms. God Bless each and every one of you that put on the uniform to serve and protect and thank you. Amen
Across the miles of a mother of a son that serves and protects!

Sharon Perrault
Beaumont, CA.

January 29, 2007

There comes a time in our lives when we realize just how delicate and precious life really is…just how important every moment, word, touch, thought, family member and friend really is. We question God…ourselves…life…and we ask ourselves why…why life has to be so difficult and so CRUEL…then…then we realize that we are not in control…then we realize that this life here on earth is just a mere blink of an eye…one breath…one glance…one bush against a cheek…and we realize that this life here on earth is nothing compared to what God has prepared for us. We have to hurt this bad to appreciate what is to come…No more tears…no more hurt…no more pain…no more loneliness…no more worry…just LOVE and happiness…friends…family…laughter and tender touches. Warm moments to fill our souls for eternity…forever and ever…Amen

Hope Mills Police Officers Wife

January 28, 2007

Heath, We LOVE you and we MISS you so much. Everyday is a day of rememberance...and a hole that can never be filled. You gave us all something to strive for...perfection...in Life and in Christ!!! You had an amazing soul that that can never be forgotten. We can feel you presence. I strive everyday to find someway to share your life and your love for your family and Christ. I know you are up there with our Lord preparing a place for each and everyone of us and just knowing that one day we will all see your infectious smile again is what gets me through. You have certainly left behind a legacy!!!! Shelly, I wish I had the words to ease your heart ache or that touch that could take away all your pain...my heart aches for you...you are a strong, beautiful woman with a heart as big as no other. Heath definately shines thru you and your children. I do offer my shoulder...for you to cry on and my hand...for you to take when you need support...please call on me when ever you need...I am here...waiting...We love you...

Angie Perrault

January 28, 2007

Sergeant James H. Hardin, Thank you for the service you gave to the citizens of the Great State of North Carolina.
May you rest in peace with our Lord-Savior Jesus Christ forever.Tank you!
Joel Elkes
Native and Citizen of~Randolph County,N.Carolina

Joel Elkes
none

January 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, friends, and co-workers of James. I know that there are no words that can ease the pain of losing him. Just know that others are thinking of you and God will give you the strength to get through the difficult days ahead.
We lost another hero on earth but God gained another angel.
God be with you.
Jan Banks

Jan Banks Reserve Sgt
Buncombe Co Sheriff's Dept

January 27, 2007

Heath,
I am sure you have already welcomed Sgt Barfield with open arms. I don't understand what is happening to us? Shelly went to the hospital when I called her. I don't know how she does it, maybe you left her your strength, because she keeps on giving. But you were the same way, guess she's just following in your footsteps and doing what she thinks you would do. What a wonderful family you left us with. I can't write anymore right now. Im am just in disbelief. You all take care and look out for the rest of us. Both of you are missed and loved and always will be.

P.S. Tell Barfield "Kelly Knows".
Rest in Peace our ANGELS!!

KRISTI
Hope Mills PD Telecommunicator

January 27, 2007

Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers now. Heaven has another HERO today. Rest in peace, Sir.

Shirley Roberts
Aunt of Fallen Hero John Logan EOW-3-14-04

January 25, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and the department.

Fallen but never forgotten.

Officer B. Laurie
Haltom City Police, Tx

January 25, 2007

Now that I have some indication that you were a follower of Christ while on earth I can cope with your destiny. According to these reflections, you knew Jesus personally and that blesses me greatly as I know I will meet you face to face one day and be able to
thank you for your sacrifice. There is none greater than Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We don't get to Heaven based on what we do, but by the sacrifice He made on the cross for our sins. AMEN! Thank you for your fine example to those that worked with you and knew you. There is now a huge void that cannot be filled, but as you are remembered, thoughts will turn to
your exemplary life and we will be filled with pride and respect and love for the man you became. You were a wonderful testimony to the Lord you served. God be with all those who mourn and may His promises lift all those with heavy hearts for many years to come. I am reaching thru this computer and giving a big HUG to your sweet widow and your family, both at home and
at work. I wish I could erase your pain, but it is God-size and He's the only One up to the task.
It seems to me that this picture doesn't suit you as
everyone mentioned your ever present smile. I am so
impressed by the fact that there are fellow officers that
would gladly have taken your place. You meant the
world to them and I know they can't wait to be with you
again. You left a legacy that will never be forgotten.
Well done, good and faithful servant!
Lynn Kole
Washington State

January 23, 2007

Dear Family, Friends, and Co-Workers of Sergeant James H. Hardin,

We are so sorry to here about your tragic loss of Sergeant Hardin. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in support during this very difficult time. We know that sometimes there is little comfort that comes from words. Keep focused as you can on the memories and joyous times for these things may bring you comfort. Rely heavily on family, friends, and other law enforcement for support. Honor your fallen loved one, for their sacrifice will not be forgotten. Sergeant Hardin is a hero.

Respectfully,

Alissa Scott
Widow of Beryl Wayne Scott
E.O.W. 09-10-02

Lisa Schultz
Widow of Don Schultz
E.O.W. 05-12-04

Co-Founders of Survivor Help Network

January 23, 2007

Sgt. Hardin,

I would like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for the citizens of Hope Mills. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Anonymous

Anonymous

January 22, 2007

We pause to mourn the death of Sergeant Hardin and honor his memory. Our thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathies, go out to his family, friends, and all the members of his department.

May God comfort each of you.

Major D.W. Warren
Montgomery Police Dept. - Montgomery, AL

January 22, 2007

Heath,

I want to apologize because I wasn't able to attend your Wake or Funeral. I was called into work early on both days, I was terribly upset that I couldn't go! However it will never change how much I admired you! I wanted to be there more than anything!! I've been to your car many times, clipped all the articles associated with your passing and cried many tears! I pray for your family daily in hopes that they can find some comfort! Your death has touched so many lives....as did your life! I beleive in God and I understand he has a "PLAN" for everyone. It's obvious to me that you did your work here on earth, now you can do more from Heaven. My memories of you will be cherished for years to come! I'm a better person for knowing you. Each time I sign onto my computer I read all the new additions to this site....you'd be proud! It was a honnor to call you a "Friend"! God Bless your mom, dad, Shelly, Samantha, Mason and all your friends and co-workers! Watch over them all Heath! In loving memory of a Hero!

Sandra Bitler
Friend

January 22, 2007

Heath,

Oh how my heart sank when I heard that you were gone. I sat thinking of all the get togethers that we had. All the times you made me laugh and how you took the time to listen when I just needed to vent. Your service was a true testiment to the man the friend and the officer you were.
You may have gone but you will NEVER be forgotten.
The world has lost a hero but HEAVEN has gained an ANGEL.

Traci Marley
Friend

January 22, 2007

To the family, friends and co-workers there is not much anyone can say that will help, just know there are alot of people that are thinking and praying for all of you.
The one thing that kept going through my mind during our nightmare was how much Clint loved being an Officer and he would not have traded places with anyone. I bet Sgt. Hardin was the same way, they are all a special breed to put that uniform and badge on everyday.

Just wanted to say Thank You for the sacrifice you made that day, and the sacrifice your family will make in the days ahead.
And to the Hope Mills Police Department you will miss Sergeant Hardin everyday, you have an Angel watching out for you, but still be careful out there.

Connie Barker Fort Walton Beach, Fl
Mother of Clint Walker E.O.W. 1-14-04 Prattville, Al

January 22, 2007

Your sacrifice will never go in vain. I thank you for SERVICE, and DEDICATION. May GOD give your family strength to overcome this tradgedy.

Officer Siniscalchi
Portsmouth Police Dept.

January 21, 2007

heath,

hey brother. i just wanted you to know that your funeral was absolutley beautiful. It could not have been more perfect. Servie spoke like no one else and brooklyn preached only like he can. heath i am so proud of those guys for doing an amazing job. you would have loved it. as i sat beside lee we began to watch your slide show and neither one of us could hold back the tears. then tt hit me on the leg and asked for matts and my hands. heath it was just beautiful. your father asked us not to forget him or your mom. i just want you to know that there is no way that i could ever forget them because they treated me as if i was family. oh yeah by the way don't be jealous of me but i did pamper shelly a little bit on tuesday. shelly i also want you to know that i will not forget about you, samantha, or mason. you guys are one of my seconds families and i will always be there for you. anyway i did go see you on friday and your grave site was beautiful with all the flowers laying on you. heath i miss you already and wish you were here. until we meet again i love you!

officer g. white
fpd

January 21, 2007