Massachusetts State Police, Massachusetts
End of Watch Thursday, June 15, 2006
Reflections for Trooper Paul Francis Barry
To the family and friends of Trooper Barry,
Please accept mine and my families deepest sympathies. We at the CHP have lost a lot of our own recently and know of the pain that youi are going through. All LEO's drop a tear everytime another one falls. Thank You Trooper Barry, from one state Trooper to another for you service and your sacrifice, know that youi will not be forgotten.
TROOPER BARRY WE HAVE THE WATCH NOW.
Officer Matt Burton
California Highway Patrol
June 20, 2006
As a wife of a Massachusetts State Police Trooper and we parents of two, we seem to live in denial and pray that the nightmare will never come true. As wives we always worry even though we try to not let it show. We are PROUD of our Troopers and the job that they love so much and do so well.
Trooper Paul Barry was my husbands classmate 1st platoon, which is why it hits so close to home. It seems like this could or would never happen and why we will never know. For all that he has done; his services, his dedication, his loyalty to his wife and how he honored his children will ALWAYS be remembered! Trooper Barry will always be in our hearts and minds, even though he may not be here with us, he is never to far behind.
My family would like to send our deepest condolences to your family, friends and to all the MSP Troopers. It is a reality check to us all and we stand by you hand and hand. It will be a hard long road a head of you but you will get by because you will remember that he is and will always by your side. I personally don't know what to say that will help you through this tragic loss, but as a wife of a MSP Trooper your husband/father/son/brother will always be remembered and NEVER will be forgotten!
May Paul rest in peace and may you also find peace for your family and all of those around you. We are very sorry for all that has happened and we want you to know that if there is anything we could do please just let us know! We will have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers each day. As Trooper Paul F. Barry will be RESPECTED, HONORED and FOREVER a HERO to us all!
God bless
Laura Cusolito
wife/mother of MSP Trooper
June 20, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Trooper Paul Barry. I value the risks officers face everyday to protect our communities. I have much respect and honor for each and every one of them. I have a father who has served 33 years at the Framingham PD, you all have a tough job. Take care and may you rest in peace.
Tammy
Tammy DaSilva
mass resident
June 20, 2006
When we met the Barry's 2 years ago at the Franklin Childrens Center preschool I knew in an instant that we were making friends for life. My youngest son, Jack, became best friends with Paul's daughter so we were thrilled to discover that one of the Barry boys would be on my son Ricky's baseball team. For 2 years now the Barry's have been our "baseball family". Without fail Paul would arrive at the games armed with toys, snacks, and plenty of extra cash for the ice cream man. Regardless of what happened on the field that day, there wasn't a more proud father in the stands. Paul Barry had every right to that pride. His children are the most genuinely kind people I have ever met. They give to one another unconditionally, and without ever having to be asked. They radiate the happiness, love, and warmth that comes from living in a home where you know you are special. The Barry Family lives the gift of life.
It is terribly hard for us to imagine that Paul is gone, that we won't pull up to the ball field to see him standing there with a Dunkin iced coffee and a box of munchkins, a pack of kids scootering around him. We will miss having that gentle man beside us who always made you feel like everything was going to be alright. We'll miss his laugh, his smile, his peacefulness. But there is beauty, too.
There is beauty in the fact that his oldest daughter is Paul all over. Looking into her face you see everything her father was...gentle and easy going, but strong. As you look at each child you find Paul, something in the eyes, the smile, the mannerisms. There is beauty in knowing that Maryellen will have 7 children to share the memory of the love of her life with, to keep the spirit that drives them alive. My child once asked me "what if you die?" I looked at him and said, "By the time I die I will be so much a part of you that you won't know where I end and you begin."
About a week before Paul's accident his mother told me a story about Paul as a little leaguer. She said that his coach wished every kid on his team was a Paul Barry. He was the happiest to be there, he cheered the loudest, he loved the game the most. And when he missed a pop up he would look at her, smile and say, "The sun was in my eyes, so I missed that one. But I'm gonna get the next one."
We will miss you, Paul.
The Hildebrand Family
Franklin, MA
Ellen Hildebrand
Franklin Friend
June 20, 2006
My prayers and thoughts are with the friends and family of Trooper Barry. God Bless your hero..
Invest. Mike Bradford: ret
Tallahassee (FL) Police Dept
June 20, 2006
God Bless
Chief George Yaccich
Rochester Township Police, PA
June 20, 2006
May God be with you and ever close to your Wife and (7) Children. Will be riding in the May 07 Police Unity Tour for you and all our brothers and sisters that have been called for. Rest in peace.
Detective Rick Gunning
Moorestown Twsp Police NJ
June 20, 2006
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO TROOPER BARRY'S WIFE AND FAMILY FROM MY WIFE AND I.
RETIRED TROOPER ROBERT E. ROCHE
MASSACHUSETTS STATE POLICE
June 20, 2006
Always a smile.....Always a kind word about EVERYONE.....Always there when you needed him.......Simply a Trooper's Trooper...... God Bless you, Paul.
Trooper Joseph J. Hilton
Massachusetts State Police - Athol Barracks
June 20, 2006
Rest in peace Brother, May God Bless you and your family.
Patrolman
June 20, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to this fallen brother and his family and friends.
Police Officer Trainee Steven Cabral
Baltimore Police Department
June 19, 2006
Condolences to the family, friends and colleagues of our fallen bother, TROOPER PAUL F. BARRY. On behalf of all two thousand plus police officers of the Royal Bahamas Police Force, I want to remind you that "earth has no sorrows that heaven cannot heal". Our prayers and our thoughts are with you during these difficult times.
Cpl 483 Morgan Turnquest
Royal Bahamas Police
June 19, 2006
We have not met....but we are brothers. Sadness fills the hearts of New Mexico officers for our Massachusetts brother. You will join three of our New Mexico officers who we have lost in the past nine months. Prayers and condolences en route to the family of Trooper Barry.
Detective (Retired) James M. "Jinx" Jones
Albuquerque Police Department
Albuquerque, New Mexico
(formerly of South Weymouth, Ma--circa '1961)
Detective (Retired) James M. Jones
Albuquerque Police Department
June 19, 2006
Rest in Peace
Brother
Deputy Sheriff LE
Palm Beach Sheriff Florida
June 19, 2006
God Bless and provide everlasting peace to you Trp. Paul Barry for your public service and ultimate sacrifice. May God always provide the strength and loving care to his
7 children, his wife Mary Ellen and family.
May we all remember, that our troopers risk their lives daily with traffic stops in breakdown lanes, so honor and respect them by reducing your speeds.
Trish/Mass. Resident
Trish
Mass. Resident
June 19, 2006
My prayers and thoughts go out to Officer Barry and his family. May you rest in peace.
Nicole
June 19, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Trooper Barry. May you rest in peace, we thank you for you dedicated service. God bless the friends and family.
Police Department
Town of Bellingham, Massachusetts
June 19, 2006
Very sorry to learn of the loss of Mr. Barry. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and seven children.
R.I.P. Paul.
John G. Schofield
Bedrock Fire Dept. (Retired)
June 19, 2006
The officers and Members of the Westford Fire Department extend our sympathy to Trooper Barry and his family in this time of sorrow.
Chief Richard Rochon
Westford Fire Department
June 19, 2006
Dear Ms. Barry, Children and Family,
Please accept my utmost gratitude and prayers in honor of your loving husband, father, son and brother. Although I never had an opportunity to meet him, I am sure he loved his family as well as the brotherhood of law enforcement.
Please remember that god will help you through the rest of your journey with your children. When you see only one set of footprints, please believe that the good lord is carrying you. He will not give you anything you cannot handle, please believe that.
May peace and prayers be with you and yours,
Respectfully submitted,
Lana J. Fisher Holden
Citizen of Feeding Hills, MA
Outside of Springfield, MA
Lana J. Fisher Holden
Citizen of Massachusetts
June 19, 2006
My heart goes out to Trooper Barry's wife, children, and family at this time of grief. Although retired one never feels seperated from the proudest State Police organization in the country. These tragic incidents bring back those in the past that seem like yesterday, and never forgoten. God's speed Trooper Barry
Major, Massachusetts State Police (Ret.)
Major Karl W. Hupfer (Ret.)
Massachusetts State Police
June 19, 2006
Rest in Peace. Thank you for protecting our family members we have in and around Franklin.
The Chabot Family
Mildenhall, England
(We grew up in Franklin)
The Chabot Family
June 19, 2006
Rest in peace brother, you will not be forgotten.
Patrolman Shaun McCready
Altoona (PA) Police Department
June 19, 2006
The last time I spent time with Paul was on a double date at our college ball..all I could think about when I heard this tragedy was what a great guy he was and what a fun time we all had. His kindess and big heart will not be forgotten. My prayers are plentiful for his wife and children.
Godspeed,
Jennifer Sheehan
friend
June 19, 2006
My family's thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Paul's mission is now complete and it is our hope that the Lord will give you the strength to overcome this tradgey.
I also hope there is comfort in knowing that those of us that have proudly worn the Uniform of the Massachusetts State Police will always be there for you and your family!
Be Strong and God Bless
Captain Robert J. DeCiero (RET)
Massachusetts State Police
June 19, 2006
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