Oklahoma City Police Department, Oklahoma
End of Watch Thursday, October 20, 2005
Reflections for Sergeant Jonathan Paul Dragus
This weekend will be 2 years that all of our lives changed so drastically. You would be so proud of Kelly...she's amazing. Such a rock. I know she's still hurting, but she's so strong!! And Kaden, wow....he's precious. So smart, and sweet and funny; just like his dad and mom. I know you are looking out for them and watching over. Please send them some special hugs from above this weekend. Please watch over us all.
I hope you know how much you are missed Jonathan. We still remember you every single day and pray for Kelly and your family every single day.
Thank you again for your service and allowing us the privelge to call you "friend"! We are honored.
Kelly and Kaden - we love you!!!!
October 19, 2007
Kelly and Kaden , I hope you are both doing well and I will be thinking about you and your family this weekend...
Ashlyn , I hope you are doing good and know that you are also in our thoughts this weekend.
Sergeant
O.C.P.D.
October 18, 2007
Dear Jon...Can't believe it has been two years...we still think of you and Kelly often. We will continue to pray for Kelly, Kaden and Ashlyn. Please continue to watch over all the men and women in uniform. Love always, Kevin and Terri Tucker.
Kevin and Terri Tucker
October 18, 2007
You are remembered today and thank you Sir for your service.
vandenberghe
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October 17, 2007
Jonathan, Saturday will be two years that you’ve been gone. I just can’t believe it’s been that long. I still question how you could be taken from us. I miss your warm friendly smile. I miss your corny jokes and I miss watching you with Kaden. Oh, you would find such enjoyment in watching him…he is so smart. What a personality he’s developing and what a little goofball…just like his daddy. I still feel pain when I look into Kelly’s eyes: she still misses you terribly. She has her hands full with work and Kaden, though you would be equally proud of her. She’s a rock, but I don’t know how she could’ve come this far without the Christian faith you inspired in her…thank you.
Please continue to be our angel watching over us from where you are. I’m sure you are aware that your mom is not doing well and would be much happier with you. If you would just call to her, she will hear you and take your hand and be finally free.
You are still very much in my daily thoughts and life without you is still a painful and empty place. I love you!
Anne (Your other mom)
Anne Keef
Mother-in-law
October 17, 2007
I never knew you and wish it was different circumstances that lead me to meet and become friends with your beautiful Kelly.. Give her the strength to get through this weekend. She is an amazing woman , but we can all use a little hug from above now and then. You and all your family will be in my thoughts and prayers this weekend.
Kellie Stepnowski
Wife of Dennis Stepnowski EOW 6*29*06
October 17, 2007
God bless you Kelly and Kaden...we will never forget.
October 9, 2007
Well OU did it!!!!!!! It was tough but OU beat texas 28-21 it was GREAT! Thanks for looking out for us down here, Things are going good. You are still missed very much and 10th isnt the same without you
October 7, 2007
As your second year EOW marker gets closer we will always
remember what you sacrificed that day. God bless your entire family . Rest forever blue angel
October 2, 2007
Hello Son,
October 1st is tomorrow. We think about you constantly. I am so glad that we had that nice conversation two nights before God took you home. Your Father and I will morn forever, but it will always had some of the pain removed because you were the kind of son that brings nothing but pride to our hearts. Your Father is getting a little better. I know its because you have been our Angel and I know you loved your Father with all your heart. I feel your presence all the time. I really love meeting your friends and people that you barely knew, because I always hear the same stories. How you lifted them up in some way and how they will never forget you. What a great calling God gave you while you were with us! We wished we could see Ashlyn. Maybe someday. There is always hope.
Your family is growing! We have babies everywhere! We will enjoy telling them about their Uncle and what a great man he was.
Love You With All Our Hearts!
Dad and Phyllis
Paul and Phyllis Dragus
Father and Step-Mother
September 30, 2007
Hi Jon...It's so close to that time of year again. I will ask for a Mass to be said in your name during the month of October. We love you.
your friend
September 25, 2007
Just sitting here at an extra job, and just started thinking of you. Work is going well....but it still isn't the same without you...we all miss having you around
September 12, 2007
On this day of remembering heroes... we remember you!
Messena
September 11, 2007
Dear,
Dad I miss you. I always think of you every day. I know where you are your happy but I still wish you were here with me and everybody that loves you. I still remember the day God wanted you to be with him, and I'll always remember. Oh dad the good times we had together. Dad I feel like I didn't just lose my dad but i also lost a true friend. Well dad I am ten years old and i miss all the birthdays i couldn't have you there. Well dad I love you so much goodbye dad I'll write agian don't worry.
ashlyn
duaghter
August 22, 2007
Well Jon, in 7 more weeks David and I are getting married. Kelly is a bridesmaid, and I wish you could be a part too...I know you will be there in our hearts though. I am so belated on your birthday,but I didn't forget so Happy Birthday Brother! We sure miss you. I think about you everyday and Kelly and Kaden. Love ya brother!
Shana Lesnau
friend
August 10, 2007
Your niece recognizes your picture. She is the most precious, gourgeous, absolutely perfect little girl the world has ever seen (spoken like a completely unbiased father). Your namesake nephew Jonathan crawls like a champion. His twin brother Jameson can't crawl yet and just spins in circles as Jon-Jon makes his way around the room. Please even the score between these two. Your sister misses you everyday. You will have a new niece or nephew in the next week or so. We know every sacred event in our lives would have been better if shared with you. Its amazing you have been gone almost as long as I knew you, but I miss you everyday.
I trust you will will Adrian Peterson to rookie of the year. If you weren't carrying some weight up there my sons wouldn't have been born on the day OU won the Big 12 championship.
August 4, 2007
You are still thought about everyday. I continue to pray for Kelly, Kaden and the rest of your family daily. There are so many of us that wish we could do more to help. May God continue to watch over your wonderful family and bring them peace that only He can give.
Messena Howze
Wife of Oklahoma City Police Officer
August 3, 2007
My heart secretly breaks everytime I see your picture. I don't show it but it is oh so true. She is tough, Jon. Her faith holds her together and for that, she is a much better person that many could dream of being. We'll all watch out for her by your grace. I wish now I would have known you better.
August 1, 2007
Happy Belated Birthday
Sorry Jon I was away from a computer so I couldnt leave you a Birthday note. We miss you everyday and I share your story often an officer who payed the ultimate for his Police family. I know you are watching out for us and just know you are missed so much
July 20, 2007
Happy Birthday Jonathan! We will never forget you!!!
Kevin and Terri Tucker
July 6, 2007
Happy Birthday Jonathan!
Kaden and I love you so much and miss you more than anything. We went to the cemetary today and Kaden sang the Happy Birthday song to you. We sang it once together and then he sang it on his own. He even said Daddy instead of Kaden on the Happy Birthday to...part! That was the first time he sang that song by himself and the first time he ever said anything other than "Happy Birthday to KADEN!"
It amazes me how he knows from the moment we get off the highway where we are going. He says, "Go see daddy?" And again today, just like on Memorial day he asked for me to put him down and he said "kisses" and then kissed YOUR side of the headstone. I know all of this is way to hard for his little two year old mind to comprehend, but somehow he does.
It is evident to Kaden and I every single day that a huge chunk of our lives is missing and that's you. I still don't know how I've made it this far without you.
Someone told me something the other day. They said, "You will spend way more days with Jonathan than without him," and although it's hard to deal with now because now seems like forever, what they said is true. You are in a perfect place now and someday when God decides, I will join you, but until then I'll be missing you and remembering you always.
Kaden and I are getting together with all of my family and your dad and Phyllis tonight to celebrate your life. We all love and miss you so much. Thank you for being someone who will never be forgotten because of the life you lived. You are an inspiration to all. You are the reason I can keep going, because of what you taught me when you were here.
KD (x2)
July 6, 2007
Dear Brother, today I celebrate the day you were born. I am so blessed to have had you in my life. I miss you every day. Happy Birthday. Love, Sis
July 6, 2007
Happy birthday :)
July 6, 2007
Happy Birthday Jon. We love you and thank about you everyday. I havnt wrote in some time, We miss you very much. We are doing our best on taking care of Kel and littleguy, hes growing up too fast, and acts just like you!! Keep an eye on us! We love you.
July 5, 2007
Jonathan,
Today, Father's Day, would have been a great day for you and your family. It seems virtually all holidays eventually turn our conversations to reflections and memories of you. Your sister and I took Samantha, Jonathan and Jameson to the Royals game. Last week I went to Chicago and hung out with Brian. I got kind of drunk and sang the Humpty Dance at some 3/4's empty bar. Needless to say I looked and felt like an idiot. We love you and miss you.
Shawn
Shawn Rogera
Brother-in-law
June 17, 2007
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