Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Thank you for your service and know that your sacrifice will never be forgotten by your law enforcement brethren.

Detective Cpl/3 Steven Rizzo
Delaware State Police (Retired)

October 7, 2020

I’ll never forget the day we entered the Army together. Unfortunately I couldn’t find where you were stationed after graduation. I went to the 2nd Ranger Bn at Fort Lewis. First we invaded Panama then the Gulf War kicked up. I left the Army and went to work at Seattle PD. I always wondered where you were every time I drove through Castle Rock on my way to my home in Central Oregon. I was so shocked when I finally found you on this site. Something inside me knew you would be in law enforcement. I just wish I had another chance to catch up with you. You will be remembered forever by not only your close friends, but those you were kind to along the way.

Anonymous

January 21, 2020

Never forgotten

Anonymous

January 21, 2020

Kevin, it’s been so many years since we entered the Army on the same day. We went to different basic training units and duty stations. I went to the 2nd Ranger Bn but could never locate you. First we invaded Panama, then the Gulf War kicked up. I left the Army and went to Seattle PD. I thought of you every time I drove through Castle Rock on my way home to central Oregon. I knew some day we would reconnect...but when I saw you on this site I was crushed. I know your family is proud of you. You were such a kind person and a dependable friend.

Anon

January 21, 2020

When I see you again, I’ll give you grief over that blind date you set me up with. I miss you and the laughs we had over that.

Sammy Castaneda
Delano PD

November 26, 2018

I miss and think of you often brother.

Sammy Castaneda
Delano PD

November 26, 2018

Rest In Peace Brother. Thank you for your service and sacrifice. You are not forgotten

Officer Mike Robinson, (Ret)
City of Upland, CA

October 7, 2017

Rest in Peace, Deputy Elium. Your sacrifice is not forgotten.

Officer 11169

January 23, 2012

Your heroism and service is honored today, the fourth anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.

Rest In Peace

Phyllis Loya

Anonymous

October 7, 2009

To Deputy Kevin Elium, his family and his fellow officers with the Tulare County Sheriff's Office:

Our heartfelt thoughts are with you on the anniversary of Deputy Elium’s tragic death and we honor him for his valor and sacrifice to the community. Rest in Peace, Deputy Elium and thank you for your service.

Wives Behind The Badge, Inc.
Members and Staff

October 7, 2009

To Deputy Kevin Elium and and his loved ones:

On this the third anniversary of your tragic death, please know that your memory is honored and revered today. Rest in Peace, Kevin. I am praying for solace for your family today and each day of their journey as survivors.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the distinquished service Kevin gave to his community and the citizens of California, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on October 7, 2008.

Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05

Phyllis Loya
mother of Officer Larry Lasater, eow 4/24/05

October 7, 2008

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell
Sergeant
Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
Copyright © 1999 - All Rights Reserved
and may not be duplicated without permission

Investigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

December 6, 2007

Today on the anniversary of your death we remember you and thank you for your service.
This writer has updated a reflection on every officer that has died on this date, October 7, there are 59 of you, your reflection update is the last.

I pray there will be no more. Rest in peace and God Bless you, your family, police family and friends.

Pat Van Den Berghe
Neighbors for a Better manchaester, NH

October 7, 2007

My thoughts are with your loved ones on this 2nd anniversary of your EOW. Continue to keep watch over you loved ones and those still out on patrol. Thank you for your dedicated service to law enforcment. You have not been forgotten.

Bob Gordon
Father of Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04

October 7, 2007

Well brother, things have still not gotten easier. I met with Pop (Marty), and the kids a few days ago, we buried Grandma. She now rests just a few feet from you. The kids are doing great, they are an awesome reflection of you. I miss you brother, I come to see your resting place quite often,not because you are there, but so we can talk. Brother Russell is just a few feet away also.
I rest easier knowing that we will see each other again, but until we do, I will watch over things here, as we had always agreed upon. Just wanted you to know, I am watching over the family, as you watch over us all, I Love you brother, I will see you again, in His time.....

Det. Sgt. Joseph (Jody) Cox
Tulare County Sheriff Dept.

February 2, 2007

Kevin, I MISS you so very much, words cant even explain how much I really miss you. We shared so many great memories together in the short time I knew you. You will always hold a special place in my heart always and forever.

Felicia Borges
Close Friend

October 22, 2006

Deputy Elium,

Hey God Bless You Kevin. You will not be forgotten. I wish you good luck in you new beat Heaven. Maybe you will be my FTO there.

Deputy Elium was my game, working for Tulare County Sheriff's Department was my game.

Sunny Hasnain
Going to be in Law-Enforcement

October 15, 2006

we give our loved ones back to G-d,
And just as He first gave them to us,
And did not lose them in the giving,
So we have not lost them in returning them to Him...
For life is eternal.
Love is immortal.
Death is only a horizon,
And a horizon is nothing but the limit
of our earthy sight.

Author unknown.

October 7, 2006

Kevin
I will never forget you coming to the Pixley Sub just to see what was going on before you started your FTO, You were so excited to be there, Just to be around the Guys and hanging out at the Sub. You always had that great smile and laugh. And you were truly excited to be a member of the department and couldnt wait to get out there and serve our community. My family will always miss you especially at Christmas, My nephews loved you dearly. You were their friend. May God always hold you Dear Kevin...
Love Pam and The Moorhead Family

Pam Teves
Tulare County Sheriff's Dept Records Clerk

October 5, 2006

To Deputy Sheriff Kevin Elium
It has taken me 24yrs to finially find information of where you were at. I wanted to badly to see you again to let you know your Aunt loves you. Only to find you are no longer with us.
But by reading all these kind words on the internet that those who worked with you and knew you over the years, You grew up to be such a wonderful young man. Whow,
I am so proud to read and hear of your accomplishments, and two children to boot there are no words to tell you what I feel right now.
But my heart breaks like everyone elses. May you rest in peace. May G-d hold you tight until we meet again, and may He watch over and guide your children.
your Aunt Mary

Mary Albertson
Aunt

August 9, 2006

I was an inmate at BWDF during Dep. Elium's work there. He showed compassion and always took the time out to talk to me and let me know that I didn't have to live the way I was. He inspired me to clean my life up and for that I am eternally grateful. I always hoped I would see him again, but not like this. My condolences to his family. He was a beautiful human being.

Anonymous
Grateful Friend

May 2, 2006

To Deputy Kevin Elium and his loved ones:

On this the fifth month after your tragic death, please know that your memory is honored and revered today.

My heart is still with your family and I look forward to meeting them in Sacramento and/or D.C. You’re all in our thoughts and our prayers.

Kevin, you rescued us, saved our possessions, our lives and our families. You are one of the rare heroes among us. You were always there for us in the most traumatic moments of our lives. No matter when we called, we just expected that you would come and do whatever it took to help us, and you always met our expectations. Your selflessness and dedication are awe-inspiring.

This world, this country, your community truly are better places because of you. To have lost you is a great tragedy, an irreplaceable, immeasurable loss for society. We are grateful for and to you, and honor you for all you did for us day in and day out whether you received a word of thanks or praise.

Rest in Peace, Deputy Kevin Elium. I am so humbled by your valor and courage.

This reflection is sent with the utmost respect for the distinquished service Kevin gave to his community and the citizens of Califonia, and for the supreme sacrifice he and his family made on October 7, 2005.

Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05

March 9, 2006

Feburary 12, 2005, You came to my home to answer a call. I had a fashlight to guide my path down the road, that light manifested at my doorstep, my prayer was to all whom enter my home the Lord God would be their shield and fortress. Surrounding my driveway are 12 Palm Trees, representing The 12 Tribes in the Old Testament, 12 months in a year, 12 the number of completion. Psalms 17:8 "Keep me as the apple of your eye; hide me under the shadow of your wings". In the secret place of the Most High God, you are surrounded by the greatest Love of All.

Teresa Marie Rodriguez
citizen

February 24, 2006

To Kevin's children, you had an amazing father, one that will remain proud of you both as he watches from above. Don't forget his love for you, he will always be with you where ever you go. Your dad believed in sharing love, i hope you two will keep his belief alive. Love Your Aunt Jen

January 19, 2006

The cry of the city like a siren's song
Wailing over the rooftops the whole night long
Saw a shooting star like a diamond in the sky
Must be someone's soul passing by

These are the streets
Where we used to run where your Papa's from
These are the days
Where you become what you become
These are the streets
Where the story's told
The truth unfolds
Darkness settles in

Shine your light down on me
Lift me up so i can see
Shine your light when you're gone
Give me the strength
To carry on, carry on

Don't wanna be a hero
Just an everyday man
Trying to do the job the very best he can
But now it's like living on borrowed time
Out on the rim, over the line
Always tempting fate like a game of chance
Never wanna stick around to the very last dance
Sometimes i stumble and take a hard fall
Loose(?) hold your grip off the wall

Shine your light down on me
Lift me up so i can see
Shine your light when you're gone
Give me the strength to carry on
Carry on

I thought i saw him walking by the side of the road
Maybe trying to find his way home

He's here but not here
He's gone but not gone
Just hope he knows if I get lost

Shine your light down on me
Lift me up so i can see
Shine your light when you're gone
Give me the strength to carry on
To carry on

Private Citizen

January 13, 2006