Cumberland County Sheriff's Office, North Carolina
End of Watch Friday, September 30, 2005
Reflections for Deputy Sheriff Christopher Brian Matthews
18 years.
Lt. Matt Hurley
Cumberland County Sheriff's Office
October 1, 2023
When you died my son was still 4 months away from being born. Next Friday he will graduate from high school. Time passes and the memories don't fade but the pain becomes less sharp and more of a dull ache that never quite goes away. I was a young sergeant that day, not yet 30 years old myself. Now I have officers who have 5 less years on the planet than I have on the Job. Time passes but it doesn't always fly.
As I am sure you are aware more of our co-workers have joined you in the past year. Eric and Oscar left us far too early in the fall and winter of last year and their loss is gravely felt as well by all of our co-workers and friends. Look after them as they get adjusted to the Kingdom of Heaven for they too were men of faith and courage.
Lt. Matt Hurley
Cumberland County Sheriff's Office
May 11, 2023
Time has yet to ease the pain of that sorrowful day. I still wear the pin which I received from your mom and remember how short time is for us all.
Our friendship was cut short .Brian I can never forget you.Rest well A-14
B-17. Stan
E Stanley
Friend
September 9, 2022
I've had one bad day in this career and that day was 16 years ago. Time doesn't heal all wounds it just teaches us how to understand the events in a different light.
Sixteen years ago our profession was noble. A path of service. A path of honor. In the past few years that pathway has had mud thrown upon it. Stones kicked at the defender, lies spread about the honored.
It has been tough for many to see the way through the troubles but once again in the near future the field of law enforcement, or as I prefer to call it, public service, shall be seen to be the greatest of endeavors.
We as a society cannot exist without men such as you and I thank you, once again, for your service.
Ar dheis De go raibh a anam.
Lt. Matt Hurley
Cumberland County Sheriff's Office
October 1, 2021
Thinking about your Momma who I was blessed to meet at the COPS WALK
Denise
Survivor of Trooper Calvin Taylor
September 30, 2020
Thank you for your service and rest in peace always knowing that your service and sacrifice will never be forgotten by your law enforcement brethren.
Detective Cpl/3 Steven Rizzo
Delaware State Police (Retired)
September 30, 2020
RIP
First Sergeant Thomas Webb, Retired
New York State Police
October 17, 2018
Brian, I purchased the motor from your cruiser and your spirit kept me safe while owning the vehicle and I believed you saved my life several times from several near misses, keeping me from losing control of the car and even delaying the fire that finally totaled the car. I never knew you while you were alive but your spirit did it's job and saved me to continue to live my life, and with that I say thank you.
Alden Landres
September 15, 2018
Hello Brian,
Today, September 30, marks eleven long and sad years without you. We miss you and love you more than words can express. I know that you are watching over us, and I m grateful for the joy you brought into our lives.
May God bless you.
Mrs. M.
September 30, 2016
Eleven years. The more things change the more they stay the same. I see your brother often and parents a lot less than I'd like but busy lives for all of us make for easier days. My kids are growing like weeds and their joy and zest for sports and dance keeps me smiling, and I am sure you as well as you watch down on all of us. Never forgotten.
Lt. M. Hurley
Cumberland County Sheriff's Office
September 30, 2016
Brian,
Happy Birthday!
We love you and miss you so much. We will cherish you in our hearts forever.
Mrs. M.
July 2, 2016
Brian, you should be here, excited about Christmas like always. I still expect to see our presents separated and stacked up by our places to open because you were unable to sleep. It's been 10 long years and I miss you so much!!!!
Momma
December 24, 2015
Was just sitting around thinking and you popped into my mind. It's been a while but just wanted you to know that you aren't forgotten.
CRH
November 25, 2015
Dear Brian,
This day, September 30, 2015, marks ten years since God called you home. Please know that your family, your loved ones, your fellow officers, and your friends miss you. We will love you and will treaure your memory forever.
I would like to pay tribute to you by sharing a quote written by Tom Brokaw as he spoke of The Greatest Generation. He wrote, "They stayed true to their values of personal responsibility, duty, honor and faith." Although you were not old enough to belong to that generation, this quote describes how you lived every day of your earthly life. We are blessed that you came into our lives.
Please look over us from above. May God bless you.
Mrs. M.
September 30, 2015
Hello Brian,
Happy Birthday!
We love and miss you so much!
Mrs. M.
July 1, 2015
Brian, Tomorrow I will try to honor your service and sacrifice and the service and sacrifice of your 34 brothers at the Peace Officers' Memorial Ceremony. I know that you are with God. I pray that God will be with me tomorrow.
Jim A
May 6, 2015
Hello Brian,
Happy New Year! We are spending another holiday without you, but we know that you are in God's keeping in heaven. We love and miss you so much. We think about you on a constant basis and wish with all of our hearts that you were with us.
I came across the following quote in the 12-27-14 edition of THE FAYETTEVILLE OBSERVER and thought about how these words apply to you. "Your song is over but your melody lingers forever in our hearts."
Thank you for the love you shared with and the joy you brought to your family and loved ones. Your memory is so precious to us, and we will cherish you forever.
We send our love, and ask that you look over us from above.
Mrs. M.
January 1, 2015
Brian, I have been told it gets easier. So far, it is just not true. Words to describe how I feel don't exist.
I Love you so much!
Momma
November 10, 2014
Hello Brian,
Today makes nine years since God called you to heaven. These years have been long, lonely, and sad without you. We miss your beautiful smile and your kind heart. You brought so much joy to your family and loved ones. We will always love you and will cherish your memory forever.
Please look over us from above, and may God bless you.
Mrs. M.
September 30, 2014
Though we never met, my cousin had the honor of attending the academy with you and serving with you on the road. She speaks very highly of you and honors you always. Thank you for your service and your sacrifice. Rest easy Brother, we'll take it from here.
Ofc. J. Furman III
Schererville PD 191/Gary PD 1462
September 29, 2014
Dear Sweet Brian,
Happy Birthday! Please know how much we love and miss you. Because we love you so deeply, we miss you so much. Words cannot express the joy you brought to your family and friends.
We ask that you look over us from above. May God bless you.
Mrs. M.
July 1, 2014
Hello my precious Brian. It's Father's Day and I sure wish you were here with us. You are in our hearts always. My life will never be the same without you. It's almost been 9 years and it still hits me like it was yesterday! I love you. There are no words that describe the pain. I feel alone. I miss you.
Momma
June 15, 2014
Hello Brian,
Merry Christmas! I know that you are celebrating Christmas in heaven with God, Jesus, and the angels. Please know how much your family and friends love you and miss you. We will cherish your memory forever.
"Blessed is the season which engages the whole world in a conspiracy of Love!" (Hamilton Wright Mabie) Christmas was such a special time for you, and we think of you even more so during this time of the year.
Please look over us from above and know how much we honor and respect you. You are always in our hearts.
Mrs. M.
December 26, 2013
You and all of your loved ones and close friends are in my thoughts today. Continue to keep watch over all of your loved ones, they will never let you be forgotten for they carry you and all of your memories in their broken hearts. You will never be forgotten because true heroes never die.
Bob Gordon
Father of Fallen Chicago Officer: Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
September 30, 2013
Hello Brian,
God called you home eight years ago today. We know that you are in Heaven and that Heaven is a happier place because you are there. You lhad such a wonderful way with people, and you were ever so caring about your parents, your best girl, your brother, your fellow officers, and all members of your family. We love and miss you so much.
"Nobody has ever measured, even the poets, how much a heart can hold." (Zelda Fitzgerald) Our hearts held, and continue to hold, an immeasurable amount of love for you. This type of love is a gift that will last forever, and we will always cherish your memory.
Please look over us from above. We send our love to you.
Mrs. M.
September 30, 2013
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