Pittsburg Police Department, California
End of Watch Sunday, April 24, 2005
Reflections for Police Officer Larry Elwood Lasater, Jr.
Larry Elwood,
I needed to check in with you brother to let you know Laura and I remember you today! We remember our days at Ft. Knox with you as our neighbor and serving with you at 1st Tank BN. We remember meeting JoAnn and thinking how in the world did that happen (you won that deal man)! We miss you a ton, I have to admit I still speak of you in the present tense because I cannot think of you any other way. We think of your son, family and all that is good and honorable about you. I admire you as a Marine, son, brother, husband, father, UNC Fan and am comforted by your example and the way you are! I want you to know I appreciate your sacrifice and those of your brothers in blue we owe our freedom and quality of life to you heroes! I want to let you know your wingman Major Greg Poland is carrying on right now for us in Bagdad, is OK and thoughtful of you this day. You are the best!
Semper Fi,
Mark
Mark Bolz
1stLt USMC (Former)
April 24, 2007
To Officer Lasater's Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this day. We know that every day is painful when you have had to say, "See you later" to your precious loved one, but the anniversary of the worst day of your lives can bring additional grief. We want you to know that we are thinking of you and we will not forget Larry and the others who died Heros to protect the rest of us. May God comfort you.
The Family Of Billy Jack (BJ) Zachary
EOW 1-1-2006
The Family Of BJ Zachary, EOW 1-1-2006
April 24, 2007
You are always in our thoughts but especially today. Please place your hands on all of those who love and care for you give them the strength to live each day as you would -
April 24, 2007
TWO YEARS TODAY. WE REMEMBER, AND PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY.
MRS LASATER, CODY, MRS LOYA AND THE FAMILY, I HAVE BEEN THINKING OF YOU ALL DAY, AND PRAYING FOR YOU ALL.
OFFICER LASATER, NEVER FORGOTTEN.
JIM SWEENEY CIVILIAN NEW JERSEY
A FRIEND TO ALL PEACE OFFICERS
April 24, 2007
Larry,
I made it to your memorial - it was so hard to hear Phil talk about you again, just as it was to hear him at your funeral. I was doing okay until I fixated on your lovely boy. Cody wandered aimlessly out into the clearing between you and your family...he began swaying to the music playing for you. Every once in awhile he stumbled to the ground, mustered himself back up, and made his way over to your co-workers standing at attention in their Class As. He peered up at them, admiring their uniforms - it was adorable! Jo Ann was so strong and graceful. I felt humbled in the presence of all your family - how painful their lives must be without you in it.
Phil said something about you that will stay with me forever. That you were a true Hero, and that you had saved so many lives – and that the people you saved may not know it, or ever realize it, but that they are here because at one point, you were. I wish I could thank you on behalf of those people – for your professionalism, your kindness and most of all your sacrifice.
Jo Ann – my thoughts are often with you and Cody…and my prayers will be with you this summer during the trial. I hope you find some comfort during this time.
April 24, 2007
Dear JoAnn, Cody, the Lasater Family, and Larry:
First let me say that I know in so very many ways how you feel. I lost my greatest friends, my strongest supporter, and most of all the only man I have ever loved to the same senseless violance that took away your wonderful husband, father and son. I thought about you all day today, knowing how very hard this day wil be. I lost Lynn on the 22nd of May, 1999. Until I started reading your reflections I thought my misery was just mine, but I see know that this type of loss effects everyone just the same. I must say have feel so drawn to Larry's reflection page. I enjoy reading about Cody, and how he is growing. There is no doubt in my mind when your husband went to work that fateful day he knew in his heart of hearts how very much he was loved by you and all his family. I never got the chance to tell Lynn how much he meant to me, how very much I loved him. I never thought anything like this would happen to someone I knew. Lynn always joked about being "six foot tall and bullet proof". Oh how wrong he was. The eight year anniversary of Lynn's death is just around the corner. So many people keep telling me it gets better with time, but it really doesn't. My prayers are with you today, and every day. From what I have read it sound like Larry is always with you and your family. Regardless of how and why, there must be comfort in knowing that he is never far awary. If you ever want to just talk, please don't hesitate in getting in touch, (615) 399-5555. God bless you, your son, your family, and most of all Larry. And Larry if you some how know what has been said about you on this site, seek out Lynn, he's a great guy, you guys will have a lot in common. Thank you for your service.
Lisa Dianne Binkley
State of Tennessee Military Police
April 24, 2007
Always Protecting
Always Serving
Always in our Hearts.
Dearest Lasater Family,
Our thoughts are with you on this saddest of days, the day that your beloved Larry was taken from your lives on this earth, but never, never from you hearts and memories.
With loving thoughts,
The family of Matt Rittenhouse, EOW 9/16/2004
Linda Rittenhouse
Matt's Mom
April 24, 2007
God Bless you Officer Lasater...
Stephanie
April 24, 2007
My thoughts are with your loved ones on this 2nd anniversary of your EOW. I guarantee you have been in the thoughts of your loved ones every hour of every day for the past two years as they love and miss you dearly. You will never be forgotten by those that love you and care about you. Continue to keep watch over all of them and those still out on patrol. Thank you for your dedicated service to law enforcement and also to this great Country of ours.
Bob Gordon
Father of Michael P. Gordon, EOW: 8/8/04
April 24, 2007
Larry, Jo, Cody and family, our love and prayers are with you today and everyday. Larry you will never be forgotten.
A.P.D Family
Police
Antioch Police Department
April 24, 2007
Please watch over your mom and give her strength during this very difficult time.
T.
April 24, 2007
In your family's darkest hour, they thought of helping others. My best friend has had 2 kidney transplants and I thank God everyday that she is still here. It is hard to be so happy knowing that someone elses family is grieving. Officer Lasater will live on through all those lucky enough to recieve a heroes organs. I hope your family's decision will lead others to become organ donors.
Melissa
wife of a michigan deputy
April 24, 2007
4/24/07
You live on in the memories, hearts, and minds of all who love you. Your loved ones will be in my thoughts today, as they remember the day, two years ago, when their lives were forever changed.
Norie Haas
Mother of Brian Haas
E.O.W. 4/24/04
Norie Haas
April 24, 2007
Wonderful men leave wonderful memories.May you have sweet rest and may Our Lord bless your loved ones, now and ever.
April 24, 2007
Dear Jo Ann and Phyllis: I just want to let you know that I am thinking about you tonight and, in fact, I think of you often. I will be especially thinking about you, Cody and Larry this week when Class 14 graduates.
Carol Espinoza, Mother of
Officer Isaac Espinoza
EOW 4/10/04
April 24, 2007
I know I never knew you Larry, but I grew up in the Bay area during the sixties. Pittsburg Police made me leave town. I deserved it back then. Had to retire from Police work in Tennessee due to complications from a stabbing during an arrest. I'm sorry this happened to you and I wish all the best to you family and friends. I thank you to for your dedication, bravery and the sacrifice you've made for our country. Two years tomorrow and by the looks of your reflections you will never be forgotten. God bless.
Darrell Cook Retired Police Tn.
April 23, 2007
Wishing you the Courage to face the day,
Wishing you the vision to Believe,
Wishing you the Hope you need to ease the pain,
Wishing you the Strength to make it through the day,
Wishing you the Spirit to keep the memory alive.
Thinking of you, as I was two years ago,that night.
My thoughts and prayers always with you and your Family.
Always,
in my prayers
Angel of Peace
April 23, 2007
Larry it has been Two years since you left us but you are in my heart and thoughs each day.I got to spend some really special time with Cody in Washington last summer.I want to thank Jo Ann for letting me have time with him it is so hard to be on the other side of the country at times. I am so proud of what fine young men you and James turned out to be.It is so terrible Cody did not get to spend time with you ,but I know Jo ,your family and the many wonderful friends you have will be there to keep your spirit alive.When I looked at Seth and Cody I could not help thinking as you and James as kids and how they reminded me of you Two. I miss you and know how heavy every ones heart is at this time.I just wanted to tell you Jo Ann and Cody how much I think of you both even if I am not there. I want to thank every one for being there for Jo,James,Phyllis and the rest of Larry's family Two years ago and since .After a tragedy like this happens it makes all the difference in the world to know that there is still so much goodness left in people.We will always LOVE and MISS YOU.
Buddy Hobby
Uncle
April 23, 2007
God Speed Hero. Two long years. I pray for your family daily and I hope that God will touch them and help them on the 24th. I will share a tear with them. I feel like I know you.
Heather
Larry Cox's Friend EOW 4-21-05
April 23, 2007
Easter was such an emotional holiday. It is always a hard holiday because it was the last holiday we spent together as a family. Also, it was emotional because it was just a few days after the accident. Cody was adorable. He discovered candy for the first time and knew just what to do with chocolate easter bunnies. (Bite the ears off!). He also had a great time watching his older cousins play soccer in the back yard. Everytime one of the older boys would kick the ball, Cody would yell, 'Ball Go!!' and point at the ball. I think we are going to have a soccer player in a few years!
Louise
Sister-in-law
April 20, 2007
Elwood,
I miss you so much, buddy- your infectous smile, great sense of humor, tremendous dignity and unparalleled heart. Your selfless actions- all the way up to the end of your life- were not only commendable but heroic. You were a friend that so rarely comes into somebody's life- generous, fun, grounded, with great virtue and morals. We all are better for having known you.
I had the privelage of hanging with Cody for awhile a few months ago. I know you're watching him with great pride. He's got your same mischievious smile! I'm anxious to spend a lot more time with him, Larry. In fact the boys and I have all agreed to get together for a baseball game this summer- although I haven't talked with JO yet, the entire point is to bring Cody to a game. We may even succumb to an A's game, although I'm definitely tempted to expose your son to baseball properly- the Giants way!
I can't believe it's 2 years already. We will have a couple beers for you on Saturday. You're always with us, Elwood. Thanks for being a hero- and a great friend.
Jim Crudo
Friend
April 20, 2007
Even though we had our big wedding on 10/23/99 and we counted that as our anniversary, today is exactly 8 years since we went and had our private ceremony. I remember I had the nervous giggles through the whole thing which started you laughing. They must have thought we were both crazy.
I'm looking forward to showing Cody San Diego and my favorite beach. He's going to love it. I know I'm going to get that feeling back that I want to move there so he can be a little beach baby but I know it's better for both of us to be near family. I'll just have to start taking him there every year.
I wish you were here to tell you "happy anniversary"...I was thinking today that I'll never in my life hear those words spoken to me again. Yet another thing I took for granted.
Love you always
April 19, 2007
Dear Lasater Family,
It has been an honor to represent the memory of Larry. I hope your time in San Diego will be memorable. The entire class in looking forward to meeting you. I pray the Lord's peace will be with you always.
Cadet Chris Dillard
Cadet Christopher Dillard
Palomar College Police Academy
April 19, 2007
HELLO I AM HONORED TO HAVE THE OPORTUNITY TO WRITE TO THE MOST SPECIAL PERSON TO ME DURING THE ACADEMY. ONE OF THE THINGS THAT IS DRILLED IN MY MIND IS WHEN WE DESIGNED UOR GUIDE ON. ONE OF THE THINGS WE WANTED IN OUR GUIDE ON WAS SOMETHING MOTIVATING, SENTIMENTAL, WITH A LOT OF MEANING. WE DECIDED TO DESIGN IT IN MEMORY OF YOU (LARRY E. LASATER JR.
LARRY YOU ARE MY INSPIRATION TO LAW ENFORCEMENT AND DURING THE HARD TIMES IN THE ACADEMY YOU WERE THERE FOR ME YOU PUSH ME TO DO BETTER AND BETTER. I THANK YOU FOR THAT.
THANK YOU
CADET: CARLOS CARRILLO CLASS 14
Cadet Carlos Carrillo
Palomar Police Academy
April 18, 2007
Jo Ann,
After reading your last message I wanted you to know how it made me feel happy and warm. Both you and Cody have really touched my life, I so look forward to hearing how you both are and the many changes in Cody as he grows!
I realize this must be a very hard time for you and you are in my thoughts, I hope in some small way my prays are felt and your pain is a little less. Please take care of the both of you and know I am thinking of you, Cody and Larry at this very painful time.
April 18, 2007
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