Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

I thought of you, Larry, Michael Gordon, and Jeff Hewitt especially today when I awoke to the news of another young officer being brutally murdered in San Leandro. Another family whose lives have been torn apart as their loved ones were senselessly taken from them. There are too many of us on this painful journey, but it does help to know that we are not alone. None of you are forgotten and all of you are loved. Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer Larry Lasater

Phyllis Loya, Mother of fallen officer

July 26, 2005

you da man

daniel auten hood rat
east end boys

July 24, 2005

Lar,

Bless you. My family and I will miss you forever. I believe that says it all.

Jules

Officer Julie Preston
Chillicothe PD

July 23, 2005

Sorry, to hear that Officer Cox had died.I only had a short time with Officer Cox, while I had attened Worthington Elementary School, in Ohio. I remember him as a GREAT Officer who cared about the kids he was teaching, and he was also a GREAT friend to all who was in his present. I will truely miss him. I just found out about his murder by my mom, after she read it on a internet site. She remembers him as a Wonderful person too. He will be missed greatly by both my mom and I. God Bless you all.

Jeanetta Knoop
Former Dare Student

July 21, 2005

Hey You-I went to the family reunion last weekend and it just wasnt the same without you and Opal. If you see her let her know that Timmy got his apple pie and loved it.

I see where Larry Lasater's mom left you a reflection. The day I read the TT that went out my heart sure broke for his family too. I think you and he could have been friends down here, but if it is possible Im sure you two have already hooked up on the great highway above.

I came to visit the other day and I saw the cross that Theresa and Evan left you. Just as I expected you had the coolest marker in the whole place.

I sure do miss you. Not a day goes by that Im not remembering something about you and either crying about it or sometimes I even muster up a laugh.

I have talked to Velvet more in the last couple months than I have in ages. I think that we took off where we left off. Its good though.

Anyway, please continue to watch over all of us and keep a close eye on Theresa, the court stuff has to be very draining on her and I worry about her a lot. I miss you more than you could even imagine.

C ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

July 17, 2005

To the family, friends, and fellow officers of Patrolman Larry Cox:

My heart goes out to all of you for the devastating loss you suffered when your beloved Larry was brutally murdered. I have read the memorial section dedicated to Officer Cox on several occasions, but have not emotionally been able to pay my respects until today. Officer Cox's death was in so many respects like my son's death. My son, Larry Lasater of the Pittsburg, CA Police Department, was shot twice during a foot pursuit of two robbers two days after Officer Cox was mortally wounded by gunfire chasing a robbery suspect. I have noticed from many reflections on Officer Cox's memorial that some of his friends called him "Lar". This too was the abbreviated name I called my son. Both Larrys seemed to be very dedicated to their job and the communities they served so well. Each had a son now left fatherless, although my son's baby boy was born only a few days ago. How sad it is that he never held his son Cody whose birth he eagerly anticipated and that his grave bears a "It's a boy" balloon. I know tht the law enforcment community here has embraced us in a circle of love and support, and I know that is true for Officer Cox's family as well. How wonderful that Officer Cox made an impact on so many young people through the Dare program. May God watch over all our families as we struggle to live our lives without their physical presence. I have read that it is not how we die that is so significant, but rather how we lived. Both of our Larrys led lives that were honorable, giving, courageous, and well-lived. I also pray that we get the justice that we all deserve for these splendid men that were ripped from our lives. None of us will ever be the same and these officrs, along with other fallen brothers and sisters, will never be forgotten.

Phyllis Loya, Mother of fallen officer

Phyllis Loya, mother of fallen officer

July 15, 2005

IT IS ALWAYS THE MOST PAINFUL TO SEE A BROTHER PASS IN THE LINE OF DUTY BUT LIKE THAT DAY AND THE NINETEEN YEARS PRIOR THIS BRAVE OFFICER DID HIS DUTY AND PAID THE ULTIMATE PRICE, AND FOR THAT I TAKE MY HAT OFF AND MY HEART OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND CAN ONLY HOPE THE SWIFT HAND OF JUSTICE WILL SERVE THE HORRIBLE INDIVIDUAL WHO COMMITED THIS HANOUS ACT A FITTING PUNISHMENT.FROM EVERY ONE WITH THE UFD OUR CONDOLENCES AND GOD BLESS.

FIREFIGHTER/EMT JACOB FREELS
CITY OF UNION DIVISION OF FIRE

July 9, 2005

Lar-I just got my internet back on today. Its been down for a week or so.

I guess you already know, but there is a lot going on at the department. I know you know about Robbie and his mom, about Don D having surgery and Dink having his procedure, but if you get a chance, keep an eye out for them. And as you know, I have my "stuff" getting ready to take place too. Do me a favor and hang out with me that day, Im a little nervous about it.

Its still hard for me to accept that you are gone. I guess I still dont want to believe it. I still cry when I see your picture, I think about you everyday, I went out and bought the new George Strait CD just to hear the song about being on the other side. I think that song fits you perfect. I guess Im just saying that I miss you very much and I wish you were here.

C ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

July 7, 2005

Just wanted you to know we have not forgotten you. God be with you and those you who love you. We all miss you!

Westerville Ohio

July 5, 2005

I still remember like it was yesterday seeing Larry at so many games at CHS. He was always there smiling and talking to all of us.What a wonderful supported he always was!! He was a wonderful role model to everyone too. Thank you Larry and God Bless you and your family.

Melina Corbett
former student at CHS

June 27, 2005

Larry it sure doesnt seem like it but it has been two months. Two very long months. I still cry when I see your picture and I still think of you everyday. I try to call and check on the family but, as you know they are all very busy. Theresa showed me a picture of your head stone and you will be very proud of it. If it is possible for such a thing to be beautiful, yours is. But then again nothing less would suit you.

Your mother absolutely amazes me. She is so strong and so sure of everything. I think that is where you got it from. She is the best.

I still cant believe that I am leaving stuff on this web site, this is so unfair. We should not have to doing this. I just dont understand how this happened to you. You of all people.

Anyway, I miss you and I wish you were here. Please keep watch over all of us, we need you.

C Ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

June 22, 2005

I came upon this site while looking for my father who I only knew for 3 years and was originally from Chillicothe.

What a blessing I received while here reading about Officer Cox!
I am TRULY saddened to hear of his passing and how it came about. HE obviously touched SO many lives and left such positive influences on so many people of ALL ages. How very fortunate all of you are to have had this man in your lives.
God Bless his memory, family and friends. He is in Heaven, obliously from what has been written, waiting for all others who believe! PTL!

Thank you for such a wonderful page. I have enjoyed reading about this man, all the way from Wichita Falls,Texas!
God Bless all!
Linda

Linda

June 19, 2005

Hi he was a good man . I hope they get the guy you killd him and kill him to i am not a mad girl . EMILY

EMILY
12

June 19, 2005

Officer Cox- You are my one true hero. I still remember you always being at every single one of my volleyball and basketball games. I would look over from the bench and you would give me that Larry smile! You were so upset with me when I told you I wasnt planning ball last year but when you saw me on the court when I came back all you said was "I told ya so!" It was so funny when we were on our Washington DC trip in 5 grade when you yelled at all the guys just because they scared us!! That was awesome! And when we went to the reds game and I thought you were gonna hurt me when Jen and me hit Evan but all you said was awww he deserves it once in awhile! You always told me "Marissa, your gonna do something in this world. You just wait theres something special about you." I want you to know Ill never forget that. I could come to you about anything and everything and ya know what I still can. I miss ya and youll be in my heart forever. You better not miss one of my games this year! :-)! God bless you and Ill see ya when its my time to come home!! I love you!!

Marissa Tackett
1st Dare Class in '98

June 16, 2005

Lar-I cant believe it still. It seems so weird. Everynight I come home from work and see the "beacon" that used to be your night-light, I think of you. You know what Im talking about too. LOL

I cant believe that Evan is driving. I guess I think he is still 5 years old. You should be so proud of him. He is a carbon copy of you. He reminds me so much of you its scary. I promise not to tell him too many stories that Im sure he has never heard. I will keep some of them to myself. I hear you laughing.

I hear "Chester" might be switching jobs, help him out if you can cause you know what he will be doing and that you might be able to help him just a bit. Im sure he would appreciate it none the less. I know he reads your reflections from time to time too.

Anyway, I miss ya. C Ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

June 15, 2005

Officer Cox,
You were and still are a wonderful man... Our prayers go out to your family... You will NEVER NEVER be forgotten in our hearts or in our community....We all love you...
May God Bless you and your family

The Holley Family

June 14, 2005

Hey Lar-I just talked to your mom about going to a graduation up at OU-C tommorrow. They want to honor you and give Theresa and your mom something. Im sworn to secrecy on the "gift." I think it will be really hard to sit in that gym again and not cry my head off.

I dont think that a day has went by that I havent thought about you. I still have my braclet that Brandy's wife, Sara gave me during the viewing and I think of you two daily.

I miss you dearly.

C Ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

June 9, 2005

Just wanted to tell you happy birthday.
Please keep an eye on Heather she really misses you.

May 31, 2005

Happy 45th Birthday my friend.

C Ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

May 31, 2005

Job well done brother! Rest in peace.

Officer J. Ashenhurst #1204
Columbus (Ohio) Police

May 31, 2005

Hey Larry I only have a second but I had to tell you something. Remember what I told you that the pastor said at the cemetary, about rain? Well, guess what? Its our first Memorial Day without you and its raining again. How fitting is that? Us, the angels, everybody. You know what I mean, too.

Talk to ya soon. C Ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

May 30, 2005

officer Larry Cox was a true hero in this world. He has touched the hearts of many innocent children one of them being my oldest son who was a second grader at Tiffin Elementary. Larry taught him a lot of valuable lessons that I hope he will use to help in later on in life. Also i am truly thankful that I personally knew Officer Larry Cox and that he had a positive impact on my life. My deepest sympathy goes out to his wife and family in this time of loss.

Ms. Rebecca Hastings

May 30, 2005

Hey Lar-I know its a little early but as you know this is our big weekend at work and we have overtime available everyday. I just wanted to tell you Happy Memorial Day in case I dont get a chance to tell you before Monday. For once in my life Im early with a greeting. Wonders never cease.

Everywhere I go I see the "Officer Cox" bracelets. I dont think that Brian knew how big that was going to get. Everyone wants them. I cant tell you how many Ive seen, it seems like everyone has one. I guess that just goes to show how many people loved ya. I havent talked to Brian yet but I will try sometime soon.

I finally talked to Tim and he e-mailed me the "plaque" he made. I think I will put it in a frame. He gave one to Theresa and I think hes making on for your mom.

Im on my way to work so I have to cut this short. I will talk to ya Tuesday though. You know what day that is.

C ya soon. Me.

Heather
Friend

May 29, 2005

Larry, you sure did leave an impression. A lot of people are better off for knowing you. And the citizens of Chillicothe, how lucky they were that you chose to serve.
While your tour is over, ours continues in your memory.

Master Trooper
Virginia State Police

May 28, 2005

Well Lar its been over a month now and it just still doesnt seem real. Its hard to believe that its been that long. Most of the flags have been raised back to full staff now. I met a friend of yours the other day. I met Kathy and boy did she have some stories to tell. Im not sure if we should have been crying or laughing. Maybe a little of both. She and I both know that we only met because of you and for that I say thanks. I look forward to meeting more friends that have more stories to tell.

Well buddy, believe it or not I am a little tongue tied and not sure what else to say. Believe that or not.

You keep a close eye on us and we will keep you in our hearts. Promise!

Anyway, I miss ya and Im still prayin' for the whole family.

C ya. Me.

Heather
Friend

May 23, 2005