Wayne County Airport Authority Police Department, Michigan
End of Watch Wednesday, February 9, 2005
Reflections for Sergeant Michael Allen Scarbrough
Up before the kids again this year...amazed they haven't gotten up yet! They're all excited about the gifts...I made sure to get them things that they didn't ask for but would really like so that there's been that same excited joy around here that they had when they believed. It's been fun for me thinking of ways to surprise them...I think I've done it...I can't wait till they get up either! Watch over us today and know that we'll be thinking of you. I love you, boo.
neece
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Mike and to Mike's Family, god bless you thru the holiday season, were thinking of you take care
WCAAP
December 24, 2006
Up early this morning thinking about you. The gifts are all wrapped and ready to put under the tree, the food prepared to take over my mom and dad's tonight and we're just about done packing for our trip tomorrow.
I remember last year looking forward to leaving...I said it wasn't really running away from home but being able to look back, I know it was. Marky said it best by saying that he was really excited about going to see our family this year and that last year, although he had fun, just didn't feel right. Luckily he said it in front of our other kids so we could open up a conversation about it.
We talked about how losing you was so fresh last Christmas...how everything felt kinda foggy...how sad we really were and that this Christmas is different because we have worked really hard on managing this grief, that we already know that we can make it through a Christmas without you and that,Thank God, we can feel some joy and happiness again.
Nothing will ever be the same without you and we all realize that but we are slowly building a new life that is being filled with friends, family, love and joy. I thank God, too, for all of the support we've been given which I know is the main reason we are able to make progress in healing through this journey.
You know that you are missed and that a special prayer will be sent to you as we gather tonight. I'm thinking about you, missing you and loving you, boo.
neece
December 24, 2006
Hey Mike-
Merry Christmas!
You're always in our heart and on our minds.
Monte
WCAP
December 23, 2006
Best Wished thru the Holiday season, God bless
December 20, 2006
MRS. SCARBROUGH,
FROM MY FAMILY AND I, TO YOU AND YOURS, OUR BEST WISHES FOR THE HOLIDAY SEASON.
SERGEANT SCARBROUGH, NEVER FORGOTTEN.
JIM SWEENEY CIVILIAN NEW JERSEY
A FRIEND TO ALL PEACE OFFICERS
December 18, 2006
Hey Bro. Just stopping by to say hi. Layton is growing like a weed, but I know you already know that. I tell stories about our childhood to him and he can't seem to get enough. You were one crazy kid !! I guess I never realized how much fun we had being brothers until I tell these stories to Layton. He is hardcore about wanting to be like his uncle Mike someday. He wants to not only be a cop but he wants to be a cop in Michigan. He wants to get involved in the explorers program. Layton even said "Wouldn't it be cool if I got the badge number 33 ??!" I don't know I said but if you did you'd have a lot to live up to. Keep watching over your family Bro. I miss and love you. Keep showing me the signs I'm sure you've been showing me. That's a neat trick.
Love you
Brian
Brian Scarbrough
Brother
December 13, 2006
Can't believe how time flys, god bless
December 12, 2006
Woke up early thinking of you. 22 months today. I love you, boo.
neece
December 9, 2006
When you finally stop laughing, let me know. There's a lot of disbelief about this, none more than by me.
"Junior" stuck me between "Big Red" and "DW" in the Shift Command locker room. Nice, that ought to make for some "nightmarish" thoughts and stories for a while. I see theraoy in my future.
"T-Rex" hasn't stopped laughing since he found out either...
All I can think about is "TOP GUN":
"Hey Maverick, do you still have that number for that Truck driving school we saw on TV? I think I'm going to need that".....
Sgt C Monte (as of 12-11-06)
WCAP
December 9, 2006
Just thinking today
December 8, 2006
Happy Holidays to Denise and the family, God Bless
December 6, 2006
Denise and kids,
Well, another holiday season is upon us and with that comes a few inevitable tears as well. I just wanted to wish you and the kids a Happy Thanksgiving and know that you guys are still in my thoughts often. I know that Mike and Wayne are with us in our hearts and our memories and for that I am so very thankful. Take care and be safe.
Ashley Koester
Widow of Lake Co. Deputy Wayne Koester Eow 02-09-05
November 23, 2006
Today went well. Everyone was over my mom and dad's and we had a good time. I am truly thankful for all of the people the kids and I have in our lives. Counting my blessings today...I love you, boo.
neece
November 23, 2006
Hi, Mike
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of Denise and the kids and the rest of your family over the holidays and of you as always. Miss you.
Alison Weber
wife of WCAAP
November 21, 2006
Just thinking about you Denise and the family as the holidays are approaching. May you be blessed...
Wife of WCCAP
November 18, 2006
Today would have been our 18th anniversary. It's been a rough couple of days leading up to this. Some days are so much harder than others but even if I would have known what was to happen and how hard this journey would be, I'd do it all again. I'd marry you again in a minute. The memories I have will stay with me for the rest of my life because I had the best life with you and for that I feel so blessed. Thank you for being such a great husband and father. I miss everything about you, and I love you, boo.
neece
November 12, 2006
It so nice to come here and read the reflections left by others. I appreciate knowing that Michael is still thought about, remembered and honored. Thank you to all.
Marine Corps birthday today. Semper Fi...You were the epitome of their motto "always faithful" in everything that you did. Love you, boo.
neece
November 10, 2006
21 months today. Nothing else to say except I miss you and love you, boo.
neece
November 9, 2006
Denise,
Thank you so much for leaving a reflection on my husband's page. It means so much to me that you reached out to me. It brings me comfort to know that I'm not the only one that feels like getting away during the holidays. I'm touched by the reflections you've left for your husband. I was reading that you went to the retreat, it sounds like it was a wonderful experience. I hope to meet you there next year.
I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking of you and your children, especially during the holiday season.
Jo Ann Lasater
Wife of Officer Larry Lasater EOW 4/24/05
November 9, 2006
MRS SCARBROUGH,
I WAS READING THE REFLECTION YOU LEFT ON OFFICERS LASATERS PAGE FOR HIS WIFE, AND REALIZED THAT I DIDN'T RECOGNIZE THE NAME. I READ THE ODMP EVERY DAY, AND PRIDE MYSELF IN LEAVING REFLECTIONS FOR OUR HEROS. SOMEHOW, I MISSED YOUR HUSBANDS, AND I FEEL SO BAD. BUT SOMEHOW, I STOPPED BY LARRYS PAGE AND SAW YOUR REFLECTION, WHICH BROUGHT ME HERE TO HONOR YOUR HUSBAND WITH A DESERVED REFLECTION.
I DON'T KNOW IF YOU NOTICED, BUT I LEFT A MESSAGE FOR LARRYS WIFE, PRETTY MUCH SAYING THE SAME THING YOU DID TO HER. I FEEL SO BAD FOR HER. I PRAY FOR HER AND CODY, AND HOPE AND PRAY THAT SHE IS ABLE TO GET THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS IN WHICH EVER WAY SHE FEELS IS BEST FOR HER AND HER SON. THE IMPORTANT THING RIGHT NOW IN HER LIFE, IS HER AND HER SON.
MRS. SCARBROUGH, I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALSO. IT'S OBVIOUS THAT THE KIDS KNOW THAT DADDY IS A HERO, AND DIED DOING WHAT HE LOVED, PROTECTING US.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON.
SERGEANT SCARBROUGH, REST IN PEACE. NEVER FORGOTTEN.
JIM SWEENEY CIVILIAN NEW JERSEY
A FRIEND TO ALL PEACE OFFICERS
November 9, 2006
YESTERDAY IS HISTORY, TOMORROW IS A MYSTERY AND TODAY IS A GIFT.
SERGEANT SCARBROUGH, YOU REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND. I SALUTE YOU! MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU, YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES. I THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE. YOU DID NOT LOSE YOUR LIFE, YOU GAVE IT IN SERVICE TO OTHERS. A TRUE HERO INDEED.
THOSE CLOSE TO THIS HERO, PLEASE TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT I, ALONG WITH MANY OTHERS ACROSS THIS LAND, GRIEVE WITH YOU. KEEP HIM IN YOUR HEART, AND PASS HIS STORY ALONG. MAY GOD BLESS YOU.
JIM SWEENEY CIVILIAN NEW JERSEY
A FRIEND TO ALL PEACE OFFICERS
November 9, 2006
Just wanted to tell you Neece to hang in there. I read your reflection on another site, and had to come to your site to say hello.
I lost my dear cousin, Isaac Espinoza, 3 years ago, and I continue to think about him and all the wives that have lost their husbands. I actually met my husband at a Police Memorial. It scares me that I am married to a Police Officer now, but I pray for all of you because I can't imagine being the pain you go through every day.
Your husband is with you as you read this. He watches over you and your children everyday. Trust in this. May you trust in the Lord that he has a plan for you.
Cousin to Isaac Espinoza
November 8, 2006
Hey Mike, just saying hi
November 7, 2006
Not knowing you, but hearing the things about you...I wish I could have.....
Wife OF WCAAP
Michigan Wccap
November 5, 2006
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