Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Police Officer Brian Donte Winder

Baltimore City Police Department, Maryland

End of Watch Saturday, July 3, 2004

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Reflections for Police Officer Brian Donte Winder

Hi, Brian I just wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY.I miss you so much and not a day goes by that I'm not thinking of you. Remembering our last conversation, your warm smile and your silly laugh. You will forever have a special place in my heart as my very special friend with much love. Loving you always, Shantele

SHANTELE RUSSELL

October 5, 2005

I have not heard from Lorrie in a while. Please stay by her side, give her the strength to carry on with out your body here on this earth. Be with her in her dreams, and let her know that you are still there. I know she is keeping herself busy, to past time. Slow her down and let her know that she is not alone. Stay with your children and keep your spirit fresh within them. If your absence is still hard for me, I can only imagine what your family is feeling. Til we meet again, your friend, T.

P/O L. POWELL
BALTIMORE CITY POLICE

September 30, 2005

the trail is over and life goes on for everyone else but ones family. life was stopped on 7-3-04 for me. nothing is or ever will be as life was before. day after day goes by of trying to make life have a little worth or meaning. i thank God and you for giving me brandon. he is your little man as you called him. he is trying so hard in school and doing well. i look at him and see you over this boy. you left me a wonderful copy of yourself. i wish i could take away some of his hurt. only God and you can do that. i miss you as if it was yesterday. 1 year, 2 months, and 24 days. next month is coming fast. what will i do without my best friend. i will do something different to remind me of you in a wonderful way. i don't know what. thank you for wonderful years and memories. i know you see your little man on the football field. all my love lulu say hello to gavin and shiffield and duke. tell duke thank you for being there on 7-9-04.

WIFE

September 27, 2005

No amount of time served will ever be enough to bring you home. But now that things are over, you will finally be able to rest and your family, friends, and co-workers will be able to hopefully find some closure out of all of this. Please continue to keep watch over all of them.

Jennifer Aaron
Wife of Ofc. Duke G. Aaron, III (EOW 07/20/04)

September 2, 2005

It is over B. Please help us all to accept the things that we can not change, and help us to move forward with life. Finally, please help us to remember that "This battle is not ours, it's the Lord's". Rest in peace my friend.
Love Always
T.

P/O L. Powell
Baltimore City Police

September 1, 2005

Brian,

Please wrap your arms around Lorrie today and give her a big birthday hug. I must say, you have one beautiful family Brian. Please continue to keep watch over your family, friends, and co-workers from above. All of them need your guidance and strength every day and I know you are there for all of them and will always be there for all of them.

Lorrie,

I know today is your birthday. Please try to make the best of it. I think of you often and I will always be there for you. You are a stong woman Lorrie Winder and don't ever forget that.

Love,
Jenn

Jennifer Aaron
Wife of Ofc. Duke G. Aaron, III (EOW 07/20/04)

August 26, 2005

missing you with much love..Shantele

Shantele Russell

August 24, 2005

Hey B, I haven't heard from your mom or dad in a while, I am going to stop by and check on them. I can't sleep and keep coming back to this site everyday, trying not to leave a message, because I know that is not your style, but you know me. Please stop by in your family members dreams tonight and give them a comforting hug to let them know that you are still with them. Rest in peace my friend.

P/O L. Powell
BCPD

August 22, 2005

Hey B, just wanted to say that I miss you much. Please stay with me through these difficult times. Since you have left and went to Heaven, things down here have done a complete 180. I am trying to remember everything that you told me and tried to teach me. Now I see why we had those conversations. I still don't think that I can do do this without my partner(you) by my side. It is getting harder everyday. Please help me to keep the faith, please help me to be able to help Lorrie and the rest of your family. Please be with your wife because her birthday is coming up. Make her feel your presence so that she doesn't feel alone.

P/O L. Powell
BCPD

August 19, 2005

hello my bear. thank you for last friday. you continue to give me signs to let me know you are with me where ever i go. you are an amazing man still in heaven. i can't help but to smile at the times you come to me. please don't ever stop until i am there with you. i know you will be riding with me across the bridge friday and laughing. you know i will not be driving. i love you and miss you so deeply. say hello to duke,gavin,and crystal. i know you are in charge of something in heaven and still in charge on earth. with all my love. lulu. you worked with an outstanding group of people.

lorrie
spouse

August 17, 2005

Hey B I see that no one has left you a message in awhile. Just wanted ya to know it does not mean we are not thinking of you.. always.. jen

P.O. Rollhauser
BPD

August 10, 2005

I never met Officer Brian Winder. But his son Corey was in my art class at Woodlawn high school. I saw Corey on the news and I was shock. In school he never act like anything was wrong. Corey you are a strong person. To Officer Winder's family know that GOD has given him so much rest and peace.

Troy
Citizen

July 26, 2005

I'm sorry to hear about Officer Brian Winder. Officer Winder son Corey was in my art class at Woodlawn high school. I never knew he lost his father. He always act nothing was wrong. Corey you are a strong person. To Officer Winder family know that GOD will never leave your side.

Troy

July 26, 2005

Lorrie,

We've only met once but it seams like I knew you, Because you and the boys we're on the top of Brian's talk list...(smile)

I'am glad that I came across this memorial page so I could tell you I pray for your family often, the Lord is with you and will keep you in HIS hands Always...

I think of Brian often...

May God Bless You Always

Police Dispatcher Edward S. Lesane #53
Baltimore City Police Department

July 24, 2005

Brian,
Tragedy struck today at the memorial run for Duke. Please take the newbie, Grant Hunter, under your wing. Between you,Duke and Steve he should learn fast.
I talked to Lorrie today, dealing with the kids and family stuff, she sounded so tired. Watch over her Brian, she has so much to do now. We'll watch over her from here too,

bARB
veterans police

July 17, 2005

BRIAN,
I DID NOT KNOW ABOUT THIS WEBSITE UNTIL JEN SHOWED ME. IT HAS BEEN A YEAR SINCE YOU LEFT SECTOR 2. WE STILL MISS YOU AND THINK ABOUT YOU. WE ALL MAKE IT A POINT TO CHECK ON YOUR PARENTS. THE HARDEST THING ABOUT STAYING IN THE VILLAGE IS TO DRIVE PAST G&G LIQUORS. WE STILL TALK ABOUT YOU OFTEN. YOU DID NOT DIE IN VAIN AND YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE FOREVER AND WE WILL SEE YOU AT THE BIG SHIFT CHANGE PARTY IN HEAVEN.

P/O CHRISTOPHER WARREN
BALTIMORE PD

July 11, 2005

A year has passed and I'm still very sad and angry, I think about you everyday, I remember the day I told you I was joining the Navy,You stopped by my house and told me You were Proud of me. I met Brian when I was 14yrs old He Was the Big Brother I never had. I'm 30 Yrs Old now Brian can you believe it...I pray for your Wife and Children everyday.
you will never be forgotten love Mann&Family...

PETTY OFFICER GAINERS WELLS
U.S. NAVY

July 5, 2005

Hey Brian, your candle light vigil was beautiful because it was full of love ....

Lorrie, Thank You for your words of comfort to me ... the words you spoke to me ... where heartfelt and will always be cherished and appreciated ... Thank you so much ... You are beautiful wife, mother and friend .. Brian is always looking down on your with a loving smile and heart ...

Thank you both for being beautiful people and May God Continue to Embrace Your and Your Family with the sweet confront of the Holy Spirit ...

Love,

Shawnta ~ Disp 20

Ped Shawnta Privette - Dispatcher 20
baltimore city police department

July 4, 2005

I'am so sorry for the lost of your husband,father,and grandfather.We must never forget the great service he has given to help make this a better place.It to has been a yr since my uncle has fallen in the line of duty(Kenneth Burton)1-04-04.I know the pain that you go threw on a daily bases but someday we will see them both again.They might be gone but they will never be forgotten.God be with the ones who serve and protect us all.

Micheal Burton

July 4, 2005

I'am so sorry for the lost of your husband,father,and grandfather.We must never forget the great service he has given to help make this a better place.It to has been a yr since my uncle has fallen in the line of duty(Kenneth Burton)1-04-04.I know the pain that you go threw on a daily bases but someday we will see them both again.They might be gone but they will never be forgotten.God be with the ones who serve and protect us all.

Micheal Burton

July 4, 2005

A year has gone by and each day you’re missed so very much. I miss you more than words can say. I still remember our last conversation and the last time I saw your smile. I’m holding on to fond memories of my one true friend and missing you deeply everyday. You will forever hold a special place in my heart. Please continue to watch over me and Nick. Missing you and loving you always, Shannie

Shantele Russell

July 3, 2005

I cant believe that today marks the one year anniversary of your death. I didnt know you Officer Winder, but i have heard a lot of good things about you. Watch over us, we need it. You and your family will always remain in my thoughts and prayers.

P.O Brown
BPD

July 3, 2005

TO OFFICER WINDER'S FAMILY.
I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT OFFICER WINDER AND HIS FAMILY ARE NOT FORGOTTEN.
THE HOLIDAY'S SEEM TO BE THERE WORSE FOR US.
WE MISS THEM SO MUCH.
KEEP THE FAITH AND COURAGE AND KNOW THAT YOUR WHOLE POLICE FAMILY HAS NOT FORGOTTEN.
I AM ORGINALLY FROM MARYLAND. MY FAMILY AND I MOVED AWAY IN 1981 TO TENNESSEE AND MY SON JOINED THE HAMILTON COUNTY SHERIFF'S DEPARTMENT IN 1983 AND BECAME A DEPUTY IN 1999.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

LORRAINE BOND
DEP. SHERRIF DONALD KENNETH BOND, JR.
EOW: 9.06.01
MY SON

July 3, 2005

Hey Brian, It is July 3..and my heart is heavy from missing you my brother and friend ... I pray for Lorrie and your family everyday ..but today I pray that whatever pain they feel will be confronted by the Holy Spirit and your loving embrace from Heaven...

Lorrie, Remember that you and your family will always be loved ... and will ALWAYS be in my prayers ... Your Faith is a shining light for all that have the pleasure of meeting with you.

Brian continue to smile down on us..

Peace,

Shawnta' Dispatcher 20

Ped Shawnta Privette - Dispatcher 20
Baltimore City Police Department

July 3, 2005

Brian,

On the one year anniversary of your death, I hope that you are truly resting in peace and will continue to keep watch over your family, friends, and co-workers from above. I had the unfortunate experience of attending the first day of the trial this past week and it hurt me to see your family have to sit through what they were hearing and seeing going on in that court room. It upset me to see how your co-workers were treated throughout the entire trial. It hurts me even more that there was no closure for them last week and that as they remember you today on the date of your death, they still have that burden hanging over their heads that they will have to continue to hear your horror story played out again next week in court. I have been told that the trial is expected to conclude on July 5th. That day would have been my Duke's 30th birthday. The best news I could hear on the 5th would be to hear that justice has been served in favor of you and your family and that they can finally find some closure and peace.

Lorrie and family,

I will be there tonight at the candlelight vigil. I think back to last year at this time in my life and hearing the news that Brian was taken away from all of you and how I still had my husband to hold. I remembered Duke coming home from Brian's funeral and telling me how the funeral got to him emotionally. I never would have guessed that two weeks later that I would find myself feeling the same pain and torture that all of you had felt. One of the first people I wanted to talk to was you Lorrie. Although I wish I had never met you under these unfortunate circumstances, I am glad you have been apart of my life for almost a year now and I will always be there for you and for your family should any of you need me.

Love,
Jenn

Jennifer Aaron
Wife of Ofc. Duke G. Aaron, III (EOW 07/20/04)

July 3, 2005

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