Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Sergeant Jeffrey Todd Hewitt

Buncombe County Sheriff's Office, North Carolina

End of Watch Sunday, April 4, 2004

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Reflections for Sergeant Jeffrey Todd Hewitt

Sgt Hewitt,
As i'm sure you know by now, The BCSD has retired the radio number Edward 2 and made Edward 4 a sergeants number. Never could I fathom a more fitting salute to such a hero. Enjoy your special assignment on Streets Of Gold The new Sgt has some big shoes to fill but I am sure you will help him along.
Rest in Peace Brother and Godspeed.

Gone But Never Forgotten.

Anonymous
BCSD

May 7, 2004

Jeff,
Words could never express how much I miss you. Every day I check this page and I am reminded of what a wonderful person you were. So many people love you and I hope they were able to let you know how much they truely loved you while you were here on Earth with us. There are few things that I regret in my life but I must say that not telling you how important you are to me and how much I truely did care about you will haunt me for the rest of my life. I miss you so much. I feel like I talk to you more now than I ever did when you were here with us and all I can do is hope and pray that you are hearing all of this.
We love and miss you so much. Thank you for being a part of my life. Godspeed

May 6, 2004

Jeff,
It's been one month since we lost you and I still can't beleive you're never going to walk thru the briefing room slapping that skoal can!
We miss you. Rest in peace brother and watch over us.

Anonymous
BCSD

May 5, 2004

E-2
The sacrifice that you have given is more then most brothers will ever give to this job. I entered the Law enforcement field Dec. 29th 2004 and now more then ever want to do and to be the best that I can be. The past month has inspired me to grow as a officer and as a person.
After growing up in a law enforcement family for the past 18 years I know the troubles that we face, but knowing there is a better place to be after it is all said and done is more then anyone can ask for. I know that you are guarding the streets of heaven the same way that you guarded the streets of Asheville, I know this because i have heard all your brothers and friends talk about your love for life and for your job. For Jeffs family just know that Jeff is not gone forever, jsut for now. our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Sgt. Jeff Hewitt gone but not forgotten 10-42

BLESSED ARE THE PEACEMAKERS;FOR THEY SHALL BE CALLED THE CHILDREN OF GOD
MATTHEW 5:9
GREATER LOVE HATH NO MAN THAN THIS;THAT HE MAY LAY DOWN HIS LIFE FOR HIS FRIENDS
JOHN 15:13

2206
Asheville Police Department

April 28, 2004

To SGT Hewitt's family, fellow officers and friends. You will all be in my prayers. Knowing that Jeff died a selfless hero may bring comfort but it doesn't take away the hurt that you must bear at his loss. There are no words adequate to honor his sacrifice nor to thank the officers who continue to serve even as their hearts bleed at each loss of a brother. THANK YOU!!! Your dedication is noted where only God sees with prayers that He will reward you as only He can. Soldiers are sometimes asked to place their lives on the line for their country; policeman may be called upon to make that sacrifice at any given moment of any day - I salute you all. Mrs. Hewitt, even when you don't want it to, life goes on. Trust God, have faith, lean on others and remember there are many who need you now more than ever. Your sacrifice is not anonymous and you are not alone in your loss. Many of us know your pain and would take it away if it were possible. Take good care of you as you honor Jeff with your life - a life he died to keep safe and happy. I am Trooper Anthony Cogdill's aunt (his mother's sister). My love to you and yours.

Greta Insko
U.S. Army Operational Test Cmd

April 28, 2004

Dear Sgt. Hewitt,
There are 14 new brothers and 1 sister in BLET 2004 day class ABTCC, some you know and some who you havent met. I hope I can safely say and hurts to say is hello and good-bye. We have herd a lot of great things about you from your brothers at the BCSO(SRT). My you rest in peace our brother. SEMPER FI MARINE stand your post proud.

BLET Class 2004
ABTCC

April 27, 2004

BUFFALO, NEW YORK

DEPARTMENT OF VETERANS AFFAIRS POLICE OFFICERS
WISH TO SEND OUR CONDOLENCES. OUR THOUGHTS
AND PRAYERS ARE WITH SGT. HEWITT, HIS FAMILY
AND CO-WORKERS.

GOD BLESS...

PO ERNEST G. PENN
DEPT. OF VETERANS AFFAIRS POLICE

April 25, 2004

Jeff,

I only worked with you for a short while, but everything I knew and heard about you was great things. I always heard how you were always there for everyone you came in contact with. If you could have seen how your law enforcement family came together to share in the memory of your life you would have been very proud. There were people not worried about saying,"I love you man", to another law enforcement officer and so many times I heard, "i'm here if you need me. Your life touched many people while we were honored with you here in this sometimes rough world. Your life has and will continue to touch others even though God needed you before anyone was ready (if you can ever be ready) to let you go. Your family were strong and loving. Tracie and Tyler were holding on to eachother as you had held on to them for the past few years. Your love was shown from their eyes and hearts. May God's loving touch be with them always and may they always know they have your law enforcement family to help them, cry with them, laugh with them and pray with them. Keep watch on us all from the most wonderful post that anyone can be asked to man. From one of your law enforcement families, see you later.

Love to you family.

Anonymous

April 24, 2004

There is nothing I can say or do to change what has happened.
Last year April 27, 2003 we lost a friend to us all, the 911 center, the Sheriffs office and surrounding agencies in a similar incident.
I can say as a 911 telecomunicator, we try to dig out as much information as we can about any and all situations, even if they don't want to answer or questions. They always think we're not sending them help, and we try to reassure them help is on the way, but we need more information.
Alot of the times, they either hang up or drop the phone.
When we call back they probably on phone with their kin folk, because it's always busy too.
Please don't think we haven't given you all we have. Trust me we are as nervous as you are, when you check on scene. We don't have crystal balls, or fore tell the future, all we can do is do our best to help you serve and protect.

I have a twin brother that is a (Detective)
I have a brother in law that is a (Detective) His Brother is a deputy in same agency.
My younder brother works at a 911 center in another county.

We all suffer, with such a loss. Trust me.
Just remember as a team, we can all try make it a safer place.

Till we meet our friends again, just smile, and trust in God's grace.

Faron
Randolph County 911

April 22, 2004

The scariest thing happened...something I have been terrified of my whole life...something that's magnitude I never could fully imagine, and only fear more today: "Officer Down." I can remember as a little girl watching my father drive away, blue lights and sirens blairing, and crying myself to sleep in my mother's arms, wondering if he would make it home. My father has always been my life and will always be; I could never face his death; I could never face his death at the hands of someone else. Families of police officers know that there is not a night that goes by when you don't pray (sometimes ceaselessly) for their safety. Sunday was one of those nights. I knew there was something wrong and that my dad was on his way to help; there was no telling what he, or any of the other responding officers, was walking into. Only God knows how many times I repeated prayers that night; I put myself to sleep praying a mile a minute. But that didn't take away the pain of so many people, especially Jeff, that were affected by that night. The scariest thing happened...something I have been terrified of my whole life...It wasn't my daddy... but it could have been...If not for Jeff.
As daddy's girl I would stand at the front door with my hand on the light switch waiting ,restlessly, for my father to pass by in his police car. At just the right moment I would begin flashing the front porch light as fast as I could in response to dad's flashing blue lights. This was our way of saying "I love you", one last time. I want Jeff's family, friends, and "brothers" to know that Jeff is flashing his blue lights at you all, saying he loves you one last time. I and so many others have Jeff to thank that we will see our loved ones again; it is because of him that my dad is still alive.

An Officer's Daughter

April 20, 2004

REST IN PEACE BROTHER.

E-2 MAY BE GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.

LT.CHUCK LONG E-1
BUNCOMBE COUNTY SHERIFF

April 20, 2004

Please remember the fallen officers we have lost. Remember the men and women who died trying to make this world a safer and better place for us all to live in. Thank you Sergeant Hewitt for a job well done. Please continue to watch over us and protect us as only you can. You will forever be at our side and in our hearts.

For those of you who still have loved ones with us please take the time to tell them how much you appreciate and care about them.

IF I KNEW

If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.

There will always be another day
to say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance
to say our "Anything I can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,

That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear

Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.

Anonymous

April 20, 2004

Semper FI Hard Charger
Sleep well brother

Deputy
Brevard Co. Sheriff's Office (FL)

April 19, 2004

My fiance, Dennis McElderry, was the first law enforcement casualty of 2003. Dennis died doing a job he loved, just as I'm sure Jeffrey did. It saddens me to know that Dennis was not the first to die in the line of duty, nor will he and Jeffrey be the last to die this way.

Having gone through the pain of losing Dennis I can truly understand and feel the pain that Sergeant Hewitt's family, friends, and co-workers must be feeling. My heart goes out to you all, especially to his wife. No one can truly understand the pain of our loss until they've walked in our shoes. I wish I could give you a few words of wisdom to help you through this tough time, but there isn't anything I can really say or do to make the situation better. Just know that my thoughts are with you.

Please accept my condolences on behalf of the McElderry family and remember that Jeffrey is part of huge law enforcement family. If you ever need anything any number of them will be there for you (as I've quickly found out!) From reading the many reflections posted here, I am certain Jeffrey was well respected and well loved.

Thank you for a job well done and for helping to make this world a safer place for us all. Please say "hello" to my fiance Dennis for me.

Peace, Love, Luck, and Happiness!

Jocelyne Brar (Winnipeg, MB Canada)
Deputy Sheriff Dennis McElderry's fiancee - EOW (01/03/03)

April 19, 2004

Jeff, I was with you that night, and I feel like I owe you an explanation as to what went wrong, but I don't know myself, What I do know is that you saved my life, and Rocky's life and Charles' life. You saw what we didn't see. But then again you always had my back. Every time I stopped a car, it didn't matter where you were I always heard you say Edward 2 is en route to Edward 7. You were not just my sergeant you were my partner as well. I'm going to miss going to the campfire with you, and the times we spent away from the office as well. I hope one day to come to terms with what happened that night. All I can say is I'm going to miss you more than anyone will ever know, and I will never forget what you did for us that night. Rest in peace brother, job well done.

E-7
BCSD

April 18, 2004

It was an honor to be a co-worker and friend. The sacrifice you and your family made will never be forgotten. We (edward squad) will continue to honor your memory. I will miss your comments about my assortments of hats. Rest in Peace my brother.

J. Miller E-4

John Miller (E-4)
BCSD

April 17, 2004

Jeff.... As a friend and citizen of the community, I thank you for the sacrifice you made to protect our community... I am overwhelmed by the support from the law enforcement community, here and far away...The law enforcement community is truly one of brotherhood. You made a lasting impression on my heart, and you will be greatly missed. May you rest in peace in heaven above... To the Hewitt family and the BCSD: You will remain in my prayers...may you be comforted in your pain... BCSD: thank you for what you all do each and every day...

K. Stafford
Buncombe County

April 17, 2004

Sgt. Hewitt,

Rest in Peace my Brother....Your untimely death really hits home. I know you had to be one of the best, so this is a warning to us all, BE SAFE!!!! God Bless You and your Family. Buncombe County Sheriff's Office, you are in my prayers. ......"Blessed are the peacemakers; for they shall be called the children of God." Matt. 5-9.

Officer
NC

April 17, 2004

You touched more lives than you will ever know. I am honored to have been your friend. Thank you.

Courtney M (E-6)
Buncombe County Sheriff's Dept

April 16, 2004

You are a hero in every aspect of your life. Buncombe county lost a great officer. You have a special place in Heaven as a hero

April 16, 2004

I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the family
of Sgt. Jeffery Hewitt and to the Buncombe County Sheriff's
Office. Sgt. Hewitt gave the ultimate sacrifice and saved other deputies lives. He is truly an American hero and I know
the other deputies would have done the same for him without
hesitation. God Bless All of You. Besafe.

Cpl. Bryan Taylor
Hillsborough Co. Sheriff Tampa, Fl

April 16, 2004

On behalf of the Pittsfield Police Dept., we offer our condolences to the family and friends of Sgt. Hewitt. God Bless.

Officer Rodney Minoty
Pittsfield Police Dept. ME

April 15, 2004

You have given the ultimate sacrifice. You have done what must would never do in this world today. God bless you for all you have done for this country and the people you served. God bless your family during this difficult time. Rest in peace brother.

Deputy Doug Sullivan
Fresno County Sheriffs Dept.

April 15, 2004

My prayers and condolences go out to the family and friends of Sgt. Hewitt. May the memories of happy times spent with him help to ease the pain you're feeling now.
Rest easy, Brother; you will never be forgotten.


Monroe Co. Sheriff Dept. Bloomington, In.l

April 15, 2004

Only a small percentage of Americans understand the terms, "Excellance In All We Do", and "Service Before Self"! You see, those that don the uniform know the scarifices that they must endure for the purpose that they believe. We may never know exactly why one would purposely and knowingly, place themselves in harms way. The cost is enormous, not only for the member, but for their families, friends, community, and their nation. It is officers such as Sergeant Hewitt that continually build the passion for others to follow and to emulate. He can be best described using words such as Honor, Pride, Dedication to Duty, and Heroism. His ultimate loss provided the protective sheild for his followers, allowing them to fullfill his dream of a safer world. We will continually honor you today, tomorrow, and for the many lives that you have touched representing the future. Thank-You Officer Hewitt for your ultimate sacrifice. YOU made a difference! A slow salute to you and your grieving family. All our thoughts to you and yours, and to those that knew you well.

TSgt. Douglas Hermann
Washington Air National Guard

April 15, 2004

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