Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

As I was traveling back from vacation, my GPS took me off I-74 and on to US 64 toward Lexington. I passed the Deputy Toney C Summey Bridge. As an active police officer, I am always curious about the hero for who the sign was placed. I wanted to visit Deputy Summey's memorial page to say thank you for your sacrifice, and to let the family, friends and co-workers of Deputy Summey know that his memory will continue to live on through others. May God bless and keep you all, as you continue to carry on the legacy of Deputy Toney Summey.

Anonymous

July 23, 2024

Hey my best friend
Just wanted to say hey missing you! as we enter yet another year with you not here, but on the other side I’ve had you on my mind quiet frequently lately just missing you wishing we could talk hold hands see your smile an yes those deep blue eyes of yours I see them every time I look into our little girls eyes!

Dena
Wife

January 1, 2024

Toney,

I have never forgotten you, and how well you treated me while we would see each other in the ER. It has been almost 18 years since your passing, but I have continued to keep your family in my prayers. I have a child of my own now, and I sometimes tell him about our interactions and the lessons I learned from you. You were a good man, deputy, and a friend, as I have grown older I have tried to mirror how I interact with people, based off how I watched you interact with people. I am honored to have had the opportunity to call you a friend.

Wes Smith
Friend

November 14, 2021

Thank you for your time and service. With honors.

Todd Murry

April 28, 2021

Rest in peace.

J.R.

April 28, 2021

Rest in peace Deputy Summey.

John Morgan Jr.
NCARNG (ret.)

April 28, 2021

Rest in heavenly peace

Mark Mottola

April 27, 2020

You gave your life to help me and my children. There is no greater sacrifice one can give, and I will never forget.
Thank You with all my heart.

Tamara Polke

March 26, 2020

Hey my love & best friend,
I just have a few things to say. LOl, which I learned means "laugh out loud" not what I thought it meant "lots of love." But, today I must say is the very first time even after all these years that I have read and cried every entry on these pages! I must say sincerely, "THANK YOU!" to all who have entered words of encouragement, prayers, shared your memories, well wishes, etc.
Our children and I miss you so very much! Its been a long time since I've been on this page to say hey, but I think I've been waiting for the change...Everyday remains a mystery how after all these years the pain, hurt and all the emotions haunt us throughout the day/nights. Time heals most I guess, but the loss of you; such a kind hearted man, daddy, friend, and soul mate the tears still flow, the memories still hurt, longing to see your face an smile, and the loneliness still haunts.
Megan & Andrew seem to have found their way building their families. You would be so proud of the woman and man they have become. They don't say it often but, I'm sure they still miss you Intensely everyday.
I know God don't make mistakes. He has an ultimate plan...I'm just not in on the details (You are now). Because God says, "Greater love has no man than this, that he who lays down his life for his friends." John 15:13 I'm pretty sure that verse means for your family too.

Love you always and forever,

Dena
wife

August 11, 2019

Rest in peace Deputy Sheriff Summey.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

June 1, 2019

Hey ol friend, had you on my mind this morning, sure do miss ya.

Justin N Davis
Friend

August 18, 2018

Hey my best friend,
Today and everyday we continue to miss you...your smile to brighten our days, your wisdom for guidance, your faith that everything is going to be alright, encouragement, your hearty laughs, and lots, lots more. I miss you more than words can say. Thank you for being my best friend!
Love you always and forever,

Dena
wife

April 28, 2018

Thinking about you brother, miss you. Keep watch over us from your high seat my friend. God Bless your family I know they will need it on this day.

MPO Vincent
Asheboro Police Dept.

April 28, 2018

Hey best friend,
Today, it certainly don't seem like 14 years have passed since you went home to our Savior. I miss you--everyday thoughts cross my mind about you--the time we had together--the time lost...time stolen...things you miss out on...I miss spending time together, your laughter, your smile, your kind heart, my best friend...even after all this time I miss you!
Love you forever & always

Dena
wife

April 27, 2017

Doesn't seem that long ago buddy when we checked on a car together and you told us stay safe I gotta go to a call. We left that night with smiles on our faces and a sense of friendship. That was the last time I spoke with you brother, the next day I heard that you had gone to be with our Lord. I miss you and think of you often. May the Lord continue to watch over your family......SYOTOS My Brother.

MPO Vincent
Asheboro Police Dept.

April 27, 2017

I miss you my friend

Justin

April 27, 2017

Tony enjoyed the time we spent working together at the sheriff's office you were a true friend and brother. Will never be forgotten brother.

Patrolman D.B.Inman
Denton Police Department

April 26, 2016

Hey my dearest love and best friend,
I miss you more than any words can ever say.....Yet again, I have to tell you about an occasion you missed out on. A few weeks ago you became "grandpa!" Our little girl gave birth to our first grandson! I sure wish you could have met our sweet little blessing.

On another note, it saddens me to tell you about the loss of our long time friend and sheriff. But, I know you were first at Heaven's gates to welcome our friend, and sheriff through the golden gates into our Heavenly home. God called Maynard home this week at the end of his struggle with an illness. Sheriff Reid our friend---rest in peace. Toney, I know you and Maynard have lots to catch up on...of course Toney were never at a loss for words; a story to tell, making someone laugh, or just to lend an ear when someone needed it.
Toney you would have been so proud of Andrew today; he stood tall, respectful and honorable in the midst of other officers as our friend, and sheriff's body was relinquished to it's final resting place.
Keep watching over our Andrew out there as he carries on in your absence.
Love you forever and always,

Dena
wife

January 9, 2016

Hey my dearest love and best friend,
I just have to tell you the latest news! Andrew has now joined the ranks of law enforcement...He is now out on patrol just as you were. I must say you would be very proud of our son! I know I am proud of him. He is proud to represent the badge with the highest honor, respect and courage available in human form. Keep an eye on him out there for me...I know you are! Andrew is very proud, and honored to carry on in your absence.
Love you forever and always,

Dena
wife

September 22, 2015

Hey Brother,

Just talking about you this week with Victor. Just thinking about what a good friend you were and cared so much about others. I will always cherish those times you came by the shop just to hang out, or when you would stop by when on patrol to just say "hello!" What a heart for people you had. You couldn't have known, but I think you had a great influence on my son Josh, who now patrols with the same Randolph County Sheriff Badge you did so proud. Till we meet on the other side, my friend!

Roger Parris
Friend

March 10, 2015

Hey my dearest love and best friend,
I know you were at heavens' golden gates last Tuesday to welcome Peggy into the glories of Heaven! You are always on my mind and in my heart!!
love you always and forever,

Dena
wife

March 7, 2015

Hey My Love,
my dearest best friend ever!....Valentine's Day arrives again...today and every day you are in my heart and on mind....I know you are watching over all of your brothers in blue (ladies in blue too).....it's just the way you are---were---have been and always will be....may all peace be with you as you are held safely in the arms of our God and Savior....
love you always and forever,

Dena
wife

February 14, 2015

Tony,
I was just thinking about you today as I have over the years. Watch over us brothers in blue.

Park Ranger G. Warren
High Point Park Ranger/ former coworker

February 1, 2015

Hey my best friend,
Another year came and soon to leave. Home will never be the same without you!
The recent news from about the two officers in New York taken so suddenly from their families, friends, co-workers and loved ones hit hard here at home...That news renewed suppressed emotions and feelings...I understand how those wives must feel the sorrow, overwhelmed, empty, alone, questions, the whys, lost and many, many more feelings and emotions that will surface over the next few days, months and yes, years to come.
I do not know the officers or their families, but I do feel and understand their sadness, grief, pain, sorrow, etc.
I know the kind of man you were here...kind, compassionate, caring, loving, friendly, warm spirit and a huge heart. I know as those two officers took their flights up to Heavens Gates. There you stood by our Fathers side, so readily to greet each of them with a bright, warm, friendly smile, hand extended, ready to embrace your fellow "brothers in blue" into the glories of our Heavenly Father.
Here though, as each day turns into night, a new day emerges, you are always on my mind, and your love in my heart. I miss you more than any words could ever reveal in my lifetime! Our life together was blessed, to have known you was to love you! The time we shared here was much to short! I often wonder how different our lives (family) would be today...You still here, that terrible day in April not taking place...would we be sitting on the porch listening to the night crickets...taking trips to the beach, mountains etc...You here for our children's graduations, weddings and all occasions...just how wonderful it would be to see your happy bright smiling face...just once more...one more day...one more moment...once more hear/say I love you, just one more warm embrace, just once more to feel safe in your arms ...Oh my, how GRAND it would be to have "just once more!"
I Love You Always and Forever,

dena
wife

December 27, 2014

Just thinking about you my friend with all the news in the media lately. I hope you are enjoying the time with our Lord. Until we meet again my friend, see you on the other side.

Master Police Officer T.G. Vincent
Asheboro Police, NC

December 21, 2014