Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Beautiful Sister of Mine,

Another year has passed and what better way to start my New Year than to leave a reflection. I hope that I am the first reflection because youy memory is so special to me. I visit this site often and no matter what other reflections I visit, yours is always the first. I guess I want to see the newest reflections of love and admiration. I think of you often,and although we have never met, I feel a spiritual connection to you, as a police officer and sister. I too lived in Virgina, when I was in the Army (Ft. Lee), and like you went into law enforcement, and I am sure that we have a lot more in common.

I have probably read every single reflection on your site and realize how much you are loved and respected by all. Please know that your death will never be in vain. I will keep your name and memory alive every where that I go.

I have a friend who is an ex- Norfolk PD officer and when I aksed if he knew you, he said that he was gone by the time that you arrived, but that fellow officers who knew you sang your praises. He said that you were known for professionalism, diligence to duty and kindness. What better way to be remembered!!

I could literally write and fill up this page, but out of respect for others I will leave this reflection and please know that I will never forget you and will thank you each year and there in between for protecting us all. This past year, a friend of mine visited the National Law Enforcement Memorial in our nation's capital and as a favor looked up your reflection. She too was proud of you and was happy to be able to be there.

I know that each day is a blessing, and I never take a single day for granted. I often think of all who gave the ultimate sacrifice,and for that I can't thank you enough.

Your Life is and was a blessing,

Connie L. Stephens,
Special Agent
US Immigration and Customs Enforcement Service

CONNIE L. STEPHENS
US IMMIGRATION & CUSTOMS ENFORCEMENT SERVICE

January 1, 2007

I just want to let the family of Officer Herring know that a citizen from the city your loved one protected is thinking of you and praying for you, especially during the holidays. Officer Herring and her service will not be forgotten. I pray that you will think of the happy times that you had and smile. God bless you.

Citizen
Norfolk, VA

December 25, 2006

Still missing you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Police Dispatcher
Norfolk Airport Police Department

December 9, 2006

Sheila:
As I begin my training for my 5th Police Unity Tour, I will think of you. Your sister Sharon is a friend of mine, fellow Motorcycle Enthusiast, and beautiful person who I think very highly of. I can only imagine you as being the same. Even though we never met, I know you. I also know that you are missed so much by so many. I pray you will be with me again this year when I climb on my bicycle for another 250 miles. God Bless you & your family. Matthew 5:9 - Blessed are the PEACEKEEPERS, for they shall be known as the children of GOD... I know where we will meet one day...
BIG Rick

Officer Rick Davis
NNPD

December 5, 2006

Lexas or Sharon, please send me an e-mail at [email protected]. I feel so close to you all. Even though I have never met yoy. I think of Shelia everday also and would love to talk to a family member

Sergeant Albert Mobley
South Carolina Highway Patrol

November 28, 2006

Hey mommy Thanksgiving has just passed and what can i say, its not the same without you. It has been three long years and i still can not believe it. People seem to think as time past so does the hurt and sadness but it doesn't. Its not a day that passes by that i don't think about my beautiful mother and all of the good memories and times we shared. i still hear your voice and i look at your pictures everyday. I do want to thank you for having such a wonderful twin sister that looks after me as you would. We argue everyday like we use to and my love for her grows day by day. She is so beautiful but it scares me sometimes because so much of you is in her. She even has the nerve to act a little tough just like you now. Isn't that funny since she is the prissy one. My love for you will never die and no one could ever replace you in my life. I love you always and you are forever in my memory and heart until it is my time to join you and weedies in heaven.

Love you always and forever Lexy

November 28, 2006

I conducted a background investigation on Sheila in 1999 when she applied to our Department. I was quite impressed with her. I was shocked and saddened when I heard of her death. I know she is missed.

Lt. John Harnois
WayneCounty Sheriff Dept.

November 25, 2006

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YOUR OTHER HALF IDENTICAL TWIN SIS BROKEN HEARTED SHARON I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU I MISS YOU

November 22, 2006

Usually I return to this site once a year, but this year I've returned for a second time to type. I believe that there is/was something special about you and some connection between you and I. Although we have never met. I saw your biography and photo one night on duty and think of you often. It's been 3 years now and I keep finding you on this web page.....(although I never remember your name or the year you passed away). I just do some type of search to find you and it always works. Please pray for me and those that do this sometimes ugly job. You look so great in your dress blue uniform. I can see in your eyes that you were both gental and tough. I'm sorry that you're gone and I can't pretend to comprehend how sunken your partners must still feel. I really need you to pray for me.....in my job and in my life....May God bless you.....

patroman
minnesota

November 10, 2006

I STILL REMEMBER YOU PASSING THE FIRE ARMS PORTION OF THE ACADEMY BACK IN 1999 OUT THERE ON THE RANGE ALL BY YOUR SELF,AND YOU GOT THREW IT,I REMEMBER THAT SMILE AFTER YOU PASSED, AND I WILL CONTINUE TO REMEMBER THAT SMILE,MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOUR FAMILY.

OFC.DERRICK HILL
FRIEND

November 5, 2006

To Sheila and her family,
I just want you to know that there is no amount of time that will allow those who worked together that allows them to become numb to the pain of the loss. As the child of a retired police officer, he still remembers each spot that an officer was shot. Unfortunately, I too will carry those memories forever. I drive past Brambleton Ave, and tell my kids, "that is where a hero was killed." You will not just be remembered for your death, but for your smile when you worked the equipment room, or your composure when you testified in court. We always pray for strength for your family (the one in blue and the one you were born into).

Former Norfolk, VA POII
NPD

September 4, 2006

I noticed Sheila's death on the ODMP when it occurred. I have occassionaly come back to look at it. I am awestruck by the reflections left by everyone, especially her sister and daughter. I appreciate the service ODMP provides by keeping the memory of fallen officers in the minds of us who still benefit from their sacrifice. To her sister and daughter, continue to visit leave your reflections.

Lt. Daniel Grasso
Library of Congress Police

August 30, 2006

As a relatively new Officer back in January 2003 after your passing my Sergeant asked if I would go with several other Officers from our Dept. to attend your memorial service. Up to that point I had never attended a Police Officer's funeral. It was a very sad and humbling experience and one I will never forget, it really hit home how dangerous and unpredictable this Job can be. Continue your rest Officer Herring, and thank you for your Service. God Bless You and Your Family.

Officer K.J. Flynn
Chesterfield County Police Dept., VA

August 24, 2006

I will go to your memorial tomorrow 08-12-2006 and place flowers out for you. This was always your worst day which made it my worst day. Your beloved daughter Aleisha 6 years old was killed on this day. You were both taken away on a Thursday ten years apart. I know you and Aleisha a.k.a Weedies are together forever. I miss you. I still think about you every day.

Your Identical Twin Sis
Love Eternal Sharon Atkins

SHARON ATKINS
IDENTICAL TWIN SISTER

August 11, 2006

I never knew you Sheila, or your family. But, your picture has always stayed in my heart. I've never seen a female police officer look so sweet and so tough at the same time. Your story and the reflections I read keep me going and keep me sharp. I return to read about your tragic loss about once a year. I can tell by looking at your eyes that you were a tremendous loss for your family and for your partners. Blessed are the peacemakers. Please watch over the rest of us.

Patrol
Minnesota

July 23, 2006

It had become a tradition, you and Alexis coming over for Thanksgiving Dinner ,this time you gave us a special treat,you came over for Christmas ,all the family was there, you had us in stiches from the time you arrived until you parted with the usual hugs and kisses...so from all the members of the Herring clan thank you Sheila for the time you spent with us. We love you and Alexis and we miss you. The Herring Family

Theresa Herring
Sister in Law

July 10, 2006

ALL I CAN SAY IS I AM STILL MISSING YOU!!!!

LOVING YOU BEYOND ETERNITY!!!

YOUR OTHER HALF!!! EVERY TIME I SEE YOUR CAR I STILL LOOK FOR YOU. I GUESS I THINK YOU WILL MAGICALLY APPEAR:)

LOVE YOUR IDENTICAL TWIN SIS
SHARON

June 9, 2006

What a tragic waste....God be with you and all of your loved ones for the rest of eternity.

Police Officer
Ellisville, Missouri Police Department

May 24, 2006

I WILL NEVER FORGET WHAT YOU GAVE TO OUR CITY, THE CITY OF NORFOLK VA. THAT BEING YOUR LIFE FOR THE PROTECTION OF OTHERS. AND KNOW TO THAT YOU WILL CONTINUE TO SAVE LIVES THROUGH TRAINING OTHER OFFICERS WILL RECEIVE.

-Words from a son of a chesapeake virginia firefighter paramedic killed in the line of duty on 03/18/96: Firefighter Specialist Frank E. Young and John R. Hudgins Jr.-Two L.O.D.D.'s-Auto Parts Store Blaze

FIRE PHOTOGRAPHER STEVEN YOUNG
CHESAPEAKE VA FIRE DEPARTMENT

May 23, 2006

Sheila,
What can I say, you are truly, truly missed. The streets in heaven must be a very safe place right now. A day still doesn't pass when I am in the POC that I don't look at your picture on the wall, and know that you were/are truly special. Your family is carrying that on for you. Keep an eye out for us down here for we will meet again.... You were called to a much better place to serve and you ansewred the challenge with courage and pride. Sheila, WELL DONE SISTER, WELL DONE.

Detective K.A.Purnell
Norfolk Police Department

May 22, 2006

It's police week again. I went to the Police Unity Tour Send Off. The ceremony was beautiful. There were at least 250 bikes. I still get emotional. I miss you and my heart is still BROKEN!!!! I can't wait to see you again. I love you for all eternity. Your other half. Your identical twin sis for ever and always.

SHARON ATKINS
IDENTICAL TWIN SISTER

May 10, 2006

I just read your story and wanted to say thank you for your sacrafice and service to your community.

Rest in peace, and may god be with you always.

Police Sergeant
Everett, Massachusetts

May 10, 2006

Sheila,

I found your memorial page after reading a message left by your sister on another Fallen Officer's Page. I pause and thank you for your dedication and sacrifice. We continue to fight the good fight in your name and memory. God Bless you and Rest in Peace, Sister

Officer Laura Madore
NC LEO

April 30, 2006

Thank you for your many years of service in law enforcement, Officer Herring. Your service and sacrifice will not be forgotten. May God ease the pain that your sister Sharon feels from your passing on.

Private Citizen
Norfolk, VA

April 28, 2006

Still hurting

Sergenat
NPD

February 19, 2006