Beaufort County Sheriff's Office, South Carolina
End of Watch Tuesday, January 8, 2002
Reflections for Corporal Dyke "A. J." Coursen
Another anniversary of that tragic day. I miss you everyday. I would give anything to have one more day with you.
DJ Coursen
January 8, 2014
Merry Christmas sweetheart!
DJ Coursen
Surviving Spouse
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas buddy... Thinking about you over the holidays..
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EPD
December 2, 2013
Thinking about you today buddy... 200
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epd
May 27, 2013
Today on Police Memorial Day, I recognize you, my love, my Hero! This past week, I have felt you closer than I ever have in so many years. I was so proud to represent you on the Police Unity Tour. I remember you telling me that you started the bicycle patrol before we met. I thought this would be a perfect tribute to you and other officer who have been killed in the line of duty. The Unity Tour's motto is "We Ride For Those Who Died" 1800 bicyclers, motors and supporters, each ride 300 miles for a fallen officer.
I will do this every year for as long as I can for you.
I will always love you, DJ
DJ Coursen
surviving spouse
May 15, 2013
Still think of you often.
Dan Coursen
Cousin
March 7, 2013
Stopped to see the park that the county dedicated to you & your partner. It is a fitting memorial..
epd 200
February 20, 2013
Happy Birthday sweetheart!
DJ Coursen
Your Loving Wife
January 24, 2013
The Monument
By Sgt. George Hahn, Los Angeles Police Department, retired
I never dreamed it would be me
My name for all eternity
Recorded here at this hallowed place
Alas, my name, no more my face
"In the line of duty" I hear them say
My family now the price will pay
My folded flag stained with their tears
We only had those few short years
The badge no longer on my chest
I sleep now in eternal rest
My sword I pass to those behind
And pray they keep this thought in mind
I never dreamed it would be me
And with heavy heart and bended knee
I ask for all here from the past
Dear God, let my name be the last
SCC
January 21, 2013
I remember everyday coming through that door. I wish I could have been there faster. You fought the fight, I hope I can be the man you are. I miss you guys.
Cpl. Kelly Cotner (S30)
BSCO Squadmate
January 8, 2013
11 years... I cannot forget. Believe it or not I do not police anymore, but I try to fight the good fight. I know you guys were are there and I felt you as soon as I came in the door. I wish I could have been there sooner.
Cpl. Kelly Cotner (S30)
BSCO Squadmate
January 8, 2013
It's been eleven years buddy... Seems like it was yesterday
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EPD Retired
January 8, 2013
I just read the most inspiring book "Proof of Heaven" The thoughts of you in such a glories place that we can ever imagine is comforting. It does not however ease the pain of missing you. I long to hear your voice, feel your strong but gentle hugs and make you smile or should I say laugh at me. There will never be another one that compares to you. You will always be my husband!
Your loving wife
DJ Coursen
January 8, 2013
The holidays have pased and the new year has started. I think of you often...
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EPD
January 3, 2013
I am sitting here reading all these beautiful stories about a young man that stole my heart years ago when I used to go to the roller rink in LaGrange every Friday night with friends. He was there and wanted to meet me and I didn't think anything about it but he just wouldn't let up so I ended up talking with him and we got to know each other. He stole my heart but ended up breaking it because he felt we lived too far away for a relationship so we lost touch but I never really forgot about him. He called me one night out of the blue and I had to tell him it was too late to meet but I sure wish I could go back in time and meet him one last time. I never got to say goodbye to him but he will always be in my heart with all the good memories. I'm sorry that we had to lose such a great guy but he died doing what he always wanted to do.
Past Friend
October 12, 2012
Today on our wedding anniversary, marks the day that I vowed to Love, Honor and Cherish you. I have and always will. After all these years, you are still the LOVE of my life. Happy Anniversary sweetheart! DJ
DJ Coursen
surviving spouse
July 30, 2012
Dear Dad,
In music class I was asked to picked my favorite song and write a report about it. I had to share why I chose that song and a little bit about the song. I had to play the song first and then read my report to the class. When I played the song I started to cry and then when I read the report to my class I couldn't stop crying. My music teacher read my report to the class. I miss you so much and wish that I didn't lose you when I was 2 years old. Here is the report that I wrote.
The song I chose was "God Bless the USA" by Lee Greenwood. I know that this isn't a song that many of my classmates would listen to, but it has special meaning to me. On January 8, 2002 my dad along with Officer Tate were responding to a domestic call. When they entered the home and went looking for the suspect they were both shot and died. This songs talks about the men who fought and died for our freedom and safety and that was my dad.
This song was written in 1983 because the writer wanted to share how we could become more united. When it first played on the radio it didn't get much airtime. But, it became popular in 1991 when the US went to war with Iraq. It was a favorite song after Hurricane Katrina because it was for life and hope, after 9/11 it became a song for unity and rebuilding and after 2002 it became a song of heroism to me and I dedicate this to you.
I love you dad! Cory Coursen
Cory Coursen
son
May 19, 2012
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you.....There are some days like today that I think of you more. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY LOVE.
DJ
Your loving wife
January 24, 2012
Your heroism and service is honored today, the 10th anniversary of your death. Your memory lives and you continue to inspire. Thank you for your service. My cherished son Larry Lasater was a fellow police officer murdered in the line of duty on April 24, 2005 while serving as a Pittsburg, CA police officer.
Your memory will always be honored and revered. I pray for aolace for all those who love and remember you for I know both the pain and pride are forever. I am holding your family in my heart's embrace today. D.J., thank you for sharing your beautiful love story and to Cory, thanks for sharing a son's devotion to his beloved dad.
Rest In Peace
Phyllis Loya
Mom of fallen California Officer Larry Lasater, Pittsburg PD, eow 4/24/05
January 8, 2012
Another Christmas without you. This is the time of year when that knot in my stomach starts to tighten, knowing that dreadful day is approaching.
I miss you and will always love you.
Your loving wife DJ
December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas Capt. Miss you very much
Robert Kois
former patrolman Lagrange P.D. Ohio
December 18, 2011
We dedicated a Safety Forces Memorial in Wellington Sunday. Thought about you.
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EPD
September 16, 2011
I am surprised at myself for not doing this sooner. But I was at another memorial for a friend I served with and somehow I got to talking about it.
I remember him and Shane would occasionally join us for karaoke. We used to joke he looked like Jim Carey and I have never forgotten the laughs we all had . I only wish I was able to know him like all of you had.
I had just returned to Parris Island from a family funeral, when I saw the news late that night in my barracks. The church was so packed I wasn't able to get inside for the funeral as my circle of friends really took it hard. .
It wasn't long after that I was transferred to San Diego and lost touch with everyone from PI. I am glad justice was done, even if wasn't done by my own hand. God Bless your families and the Sheriff's Department.
Shane I hope your are well, though you may not remember me, I do remember you. You always used to sing runaway train( and purple rain I think.)
SEMPER FI
SGT Jason Basile
USMC (former)
August 24, 2011
Thinking about you. Rest In Peace Brother
L94
July 7, 2011
Dear Dad,
Today was my last day of school for 5th grade. I am going to be going to some sports camps this summer. I like playing sports and football is my favorite. Maybe one day I will playing for my favorite college football team. Mom says that I have the best arm for throwing and I wish you were here to see my play. I sometimes wonder if God opens the clouds and lets you look down on me, but then I wish he would open the clouds for me to look up on you. You will always be my hero. My friends came over and we read many newspaper stories about you on the internet. Reading the stories made me really sad and I started to cry. I didnt' want to cry in front of my friends but they also got sad too. Love you Dad.
Your son, Cory
Cory Coursen
son
June 3, 2011
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