Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Brian you are still missed, you are still thought of often by many, you WILL NEVER be forgotton.

A HERO TO MORE THAN HE KNOWS. (c)2004

Emory - Arlington, WA
brother of Ferry County WA Undersheriff Matthew J Lane, EOW 5/30/03

December 31, 2009

brian,

the law enforcement world was shaken last week beyond belief. the four fallen lakewood officers served as a reminder to me of how fast you too were taken from us. i was honored to have served my time on the road with you and your crew while in everett. i admired and respected you, and how you represented your position as an officer. i have many memories of the times you assisted me willingly, always asking if i needed help. you were a born leader, and would have been a great supervisor.as i watched the memorial today, i felt honored to have served in your memorial 10 years ago, it will never be forgotten. my children, who are no young adults,still have memories of who you are and what you meant to our family. when your supervisor logged you out of service for the last time, i realized i never got to tell you thank you. your legacy will live on forever Brian so " thank you " you are not forgotten. 992/258

richard l walker
epd reserve officer

December 9, 2009

I am proud to have worked with Brian. I had the chance to speak with Brian only an hour before this traffic pursuit he was involved in. When I could not find Brian in the most obvious places, my heart sank. Words can never express the emptiness and helplessness that followed.

That was 10 years ago, but the memory is like it was yesterday. All of us in the business of law enforcement can relate to the difficult incidents we re-live in our memories.

I have often reflected on the motivation, ambition, energy, passion and love for the job that Brian demonstrated. I am sure Brian would have been promoted by this time in his career. He exuded all of the traits a good supervisor would be required to possess.

Thank you, Brian for the time we had together on our team. You have not been forgotten.

Steve Lawson
Arlington, WA

Sgt. Steve Lawson
Everett Police

November 11, 2009

You are remembered everyday for your service. I thank you for everything you have given my home city of Everett. You have moved me to become an officer and I hope one day to give back to you and lateral to the City of Everett in your honor! You are always missed!

Andy Nye
Kootenai County Sheriffs Department

October 1, 2009

Hi Brian,

I have just spent the last hour reading all the wonderful things said about you and how you impacted many peoples lives in the most positive of ways. I currently am on the hiring list for the Everett Police Department, and pray everyday that I get my chance to be a part of this wonderful brotherhood. You have been such an inspiration to me and I can only hope to have the respect and admiration from so many people that you so rightly deserved. Thank you for all you did and the sacrifice that you made to keep our city safe. It would be an honor to wear the same uniform that you so proudly did yourself. Keep watching down on your fellow brothers and sisters, I know you are with each and everyone of them. God bless you and your family, and thank you.

Larry Schulze

September 6, 2009

Hey Brian,

It's been 10 years now big guy and we still miss you bro. I just wanted to let you know that we still remember you and we still appreciate everything you did while you were here with us.

Keep watching over us, we will see you again one day.

Anonymous

July 11, 2009

Happy Birthday!
Here's the thing - even though you would have been 40 today, there's no doubt you'd still only look 25! One of your many gifts!

Has it really been ten years since your last birthday party? So many good friends, good times and great memories. I love to look at the picture of you and Tashi-dog every year at your birthday. It is a beautiful reminder of the passion, spirit and attitude that you brought to my heart and to my life.

Brian Michael - you are missed - but certainly still such an important part of so many lives - not the least of which is mine. I love you.

46572254
-Meg

Officer Meg DiBucci-Nelson
Fiancee - Everett PD

May 27, 2009

Happy Birthday Brian.

Been thinking about you a lot lately.

Miss you.

Here's hoping that those of us who miss Brian are well.

Michael Jones

May 27, 2009

Dearest Brian,

Although I hadn't seen you since you were about 14, the time passing doesn't matter. You grew to be a splendid, fine man and an inspiration to many, including myself. Sweet cousin, I look to the stars most nights and now I know that not only do you shine there, you shine most brightly in the hearts of those who knew you and loved you.

My nephew has recently applied to the LAPD and I'm forwarding the link to your memorial to him in hopes that he, too, will find inspiration in all the good you did and the love you shared.

I know the pride your Mom and Grandmother had for you and my heart breaks for them knowing how much they loved you and miss you.

Your in my prayers and I'm proud to share your blood.

Cousin Paula

Paula
Cousin

May 2, 2008

"The Badge"

He starts his shift each day
To respond to calls unknown.
He drives a marked patrol car.
A police officer he is known.

He's paid by the citizens' taxes
To make it safe on the streets.
But he usually has a second job
'Cause a waitress has his salary beat.

Now he doesn't know a holiday
'Cause he works all year round.
And when Thanksgiving and Christmas finally arrive
At his home he cannot be found.

He's cursed and assaulted often,
The one whos blood runs blue.
He seldom ever gets a thanks,
To some he's just a fool.

His friends are always other cops
'Cause people just don't understand
That underneath his badge and gun,
He's just another man.

He knows there might not be a tomorrow
In this world of drugs and crime.
And he gets so mad at the court system
'Cause the crooks don't get any time.

And each day when he leaves for work,
He prays to God above.
Please bring me home after my shift
So I can see the ones I love.

But tonight he stops a speeding car,
He's alone down this ole' highway.
It's just a little traffic infraction.
He does it everyday.

Well, he walks up to the driver's window,
And his badge is shining bright.
He asked the guy for a driver's license,
When a shot rang through the night.

Yes, the bullet hit its mark,
Striking the officer in the chest.
But the Department's budget didn't buy
Each officer a bullet-proof vest.

So he lay on the ground bleeding.
His blood wasn't blue - His blood was red.
And briefly he thought of his loved ones
'Cause in a moment the officer was dead.

In the news they told the story
Of how this officer had died.
And some who listened cared less,
But those who loved him cried.

Well, they buried him in uniform
With his badge pinned on his chest.
He even had his revolver,
He died doing his best.

Written By:
David L. Bell
Sergeant
Richland County Sheriff's Department
Columbia, South Carolina
Used with Special Permission of the Author
Copyright © 1993 - All Rights Reserved
and may not be duplicated without permission

Investigator David L Bell
Richland County Sheriff's Dept., Columbia, SC

April 28, 2008

February was a big month for us, and I've been thinking of you more than usual. You continue to be an inspiration to me and I still find myself asking internally - "what would Brian do?" I know that you continue to watch over me and somehow you continue to help me understand and overcome life's hurdles - I feel as though I signed up for life's simple long distance run and somehow all the hurdles from the short track keep ending up in my path.

Your attitude and your heart are still a part of me and I rely on them daily to conquer challenges. You are an example I use with the kids at school to teach life lessons and in that way you are still making a difference through the police department.

You are forever with me.
-Meg 2254-657

Meg DiBucci-Nelson
Fiancee / Everett PD

February 21, 2008

My friend, your photo is still on the wall in my office. You were brave beyond belief and your zest for life was inspiring to all who met you. You lived your life more fully in the short time you were with us than most do in an entire lifetime. Rest in peace Brian. We miss you and still remember.

John Stines
Tumwater Police Department

January 28, 2008

I was led here today so I ask that you may be resting in peace and that The Lord will continue to comfort and support your loved ones.G-d bless.

November 18, 2007

Its amazing how often you come into my thoughts Brian.....you were and still are a very strong influence in my life. I just wanted you and those that care about you so deeply that alot of the positives that have come out of my life today have come from the level of respect and friendship you provided me. I will always miss you my friend.

Manish

August 23, 2007

Hi Sweetie,

Just wanted to let you know that even though it is crystal clear that you were a star on earth, you now have your own personal star in the constellation Aquila, which shall henceforth be known by the name of "Brian Michael DiBucci. You are star #143 562 and, needless to say, one of the very brightest.(Imagine that)! Your constellation in the sky is visible all year long as is your presence in our hearts on this beloved planet earth. Brian, I miss you and I love you.

Proud Mother

July 17, 2007

Brian,
It has been eight years but seems like yesterday.
You and your family will always be in our hearts and prayers.
You will always be missed my friend.
Pat Layton

Pat Layton
Community Member & former PEMC Security

July 15, 2007

On the 8th anniversary of Officer DiBucci's death, we honored his service in our patrol briefing by reading his entry from ODMP. Each day, we honor one fallen officer on the anniversary of their death so as to keep them in our thoughts, and also to remind us of the dangers inherent in our job. Officer DiBucci is not forgotten.

Agent Zach Perron
Palo Alto (CA) Police Department

July 15, 2007

This is the first time I heard about you and after reading the reflections, it's easy to see you were one of a kind.
You brought much happiness to others and I hope you
knew how much you were loved.
Lynn Kole
Bellingham, WA

July 15, 2007

My dearest Brian, me and Michael went to some car races this last weekend. It was so bittersweet, as anything to do with fast cars makes me think of you. I had a moment to myself as I was feeling sad... as I sat there with tears in my eyes, I had some fond memories of you and I when you used to race motorcycles. I miss you so much. In a few short days it will be 8 years since you were so horribly taken from us. You weren't kidding when you tapped my chest all those years ago and said "remember, I was in there first". You are first and always, and most likely the last man that I will ever truly love.

JLD

July 12, 2007

For some reason I decided to google Brian's name today. I found this page. Brian was and is a wonderful person. The smile was always there, the helping hand.. the playfulness. I had the privelege of working with him and becoming friends with Brian. Gone but never forgotten is so totally true to this sweet man.

I lost my father last year and I can now think of Brian and Dad meeting.. They would get along famously.

Love Ya Brian.. Keep watching out for us as you always did..
Deb

Deb N
Former Dispatcher and Friend

June 1, 2007

I have been thinking of you alot lately brother. I got out some photos last night and took a walk down memory lane by myself. While I was out there, I had some thoughts. I got a car awhile back that I wish you could drive (I think it would give the Impala a run). I wrote some songs that I wish you could hear. I went after a bad guy the other day and I wished you were there. I miss you man.

March 15, 2007

Although I did not know Brian in his adult life, I knew him when we were kids. I lived down the street from him when we were about 5-7 years old. We used to play together a lot. He was always very sweet and smiling and as it sounds by reading the other reflections, not much changed. :) I moved to California at the age of 7 and remember missing him. I moved back to Washington at the age of 17 and often thought of him and wondered how he was doing. It wasn't until I was 30 that I heard on the radio of his death. It made me very sad for his family and for him. He was so young and had a full life ahead of him. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones. There is a song that always, without fail, makes me think of Brian when I hear it. The song is "Keep On Rock N' Me Baby" by The Steve Miller Band and the reason he comes to mind is because I remember when we were little we were playing with matchbox cars in his livingroom and the radio was playing in the background and that song came on and Brian stopped what he was doing and started singing with it and playing the air drums unabashedly. That day was my fondest memory of him. Rest in peace old friend. And may God's peace be with your family, friends and loved ones today and always. In loving memory, Tania

Tania (Biro) Lundahl
Friend

February 13, 2007

I worked with Brian for several years, both as officers and when he was a dispatcher. Brian and I worked the power and graveyard shift and spent many nights desperate for something to do. If we weren't watching movies and eating pizza at the fire station, we were trying to figure out who had the fastest car. (let's just say we came out even most of the time)

The morning that we lost Brian, I sat straight up in bed at about the same time that he had died. I had no idea why, but later found out the news. I cried for days, knowing that the world had lost a great friend and an outstanding officer.

Meg, I hope you are doing great. Congrats on the honor guard. You are right, Brian would be so proud of you. Give me a call sometime, I am still in Colorado and I lost your contact info. 719-494-4804

Officer Todd Natale, Retired
Tenino Police Dept., Tenino,WA

December 8, 2006

Officer Brian BiBucci
Brian was my BEST friend back when we both went to Penn Hills school. I trusted brian with my life and as long as I live Brian will be in my heart. I miss you my friend.

Officer Darryl Hankins
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Officer Darryl E Hankins
Braddock Hills Police/ High School

July 1, 2006

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the family, friends and all the members of the Everett Police Department. We were made safer by his service and we all suffer their tragic loss. The family of Officer DiBucci deserves our appreciation and gratitude for their sacrifice. In the days to follow, may you be strengthened by the fact that Officer DiBucci is a man distinguished by exceptional courage and will always be admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities. You, your family and your sacrifice will never be forgotten.

Tom Doyle
Cary Police Department, North Carolina

June 1, 2006