Family, Friends & Fellow Officers Remember...

Happy 52nd birthday in heaven son. You are still terribly missed and loved. Hugs hugs nd more hugs. Mom

Carol Aselton, Mother

July 8, 2024

Thank you for your service Officer Aselton !!!!!

Sergeant David Dufault (Ret)
Hartford Police Department
Hartford, CT

March 6, 2024

Patrolman Aselton, it has been 25 years since you were taken from us. New England law enforcement has continued to thrive, learn and become safer due to the traditions and sacrifices you, your family, and many others have made for us. Thank you for your military and 2 years of law enforcement service.

Chief (Ret) Steven Marshall
Georges Mills, NH

January 23, 2024

Forever in our hearts and memories……
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Sgt. James McElroy
Retired Officer

January 23, 2024

Patrolman Aselton,
On today, the 25th anniversary of your death I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice-not just for your Community but for our Country as well when you served with the USMC during the 1991 Gulf War. And to your Family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Semper Fi Devil Dog!

BPA Mike Casey
United States Border Patrol(Retired)

January 23, 2024

Another year son, can it be. As expected, everyone is fine. You are still in everyone hearts and still terribly missed. There are still many tributes to you and still the ongoing stories. Know you are loved and will be in all our thoughts and prayers on Tuesday. Much love, Mom

Carol Aselton
Mother

January 19, 2024

So here we are my bonus, another year. Tonight is the hockey game and, then, of course, we deal with Monday, the 23rd. Know you are still loved, you are still deeply missed and you will be in our hearts forever. Love you much. Mom

Carol Aselton, Mother

January 20, 2023

A much belated happy 50th birthday son. I am late writing because I was in Connecticut with your twin celebrating both your birthdays. It went on for the whole weekend right up to Tuesday night, the night before I flew home, when we met at your grave and "did shots " to you. Saturday was the big day, and I am sure you were watching.....your spirit certainly was there. Denise made an amazing cake with pictures showing the two of you growing up. I know you are watching, and I know you are so loved and so missed. Hugs Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

August 15, 2022

Another year. Wow. You are still sorely missed and you are so loved. We all miss you. Love you much. Mom and Tom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

January 21, 2021

Happy 48th birthday my bonus. Can't believe all this time has passed. Everyone is fine, and I know you are keeping an eye on everyone including me! Thank you son. There is still hurt, there are still tears, and, of course, there are still "Brian stories." Love you son. Mom and Tom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

July 14, 2020

My son is a Police Officer, Special Operations with Virginia Beach PD.
I grieve for the tragic loss of Brian and not a day passes I do not think of him.
I did not know Brian but I feel such a connection to him; I know he is watching over my son from Heaven; Brian has his six.
I visit Brian’s grave weekly and talk with him, I know he is listening and always gives me a sign in the form of a single starling that soars over my head as if to say, I am with you and your son, watching over you.
With love, respect and sympathy.

A Police Mother
A Blue Family member

May 30, 2020

Another year my bonus, and I am sitting again writing another reflection on your page with tears in my eyes. You are still sorely missed. Your stories are still told and your spirit and laughter are still remembered by all. Hugs son.

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

January 22, 2020

Rest in peace Patrolman Aselton.

Rabbi Lewis S. Davis

August 24, 2019

Happy 47th birthday my bonus baby. You are still sorely missed. Love you. Hugs. Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit, Mother

July 16, 2019

Happy 46th birthday son. The "Final Ride" was awesome. It truly was a celebration of your life. The only thing missing was you.....so tomorrow is another special day in this mom's life...we know you are keeping watch over all of us......and we miss you so much. Hugs and kisses. Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit, Mother

July 15, 2018

My Step-Son is a State Trooper here, in CT.

There isn’t a day that goes by, that I don’t think about all PO’s, and what they do for us.

In constant remembrance of the full measure given by all those who serve.......

Steve C. (Glastonbury)

Just a citizen and friend

June 3, 2018

Here we are again. Another year without you. We are all well. Jake and Olivia are great. You certainly would have enjoyed them. Love you much son. Rest in peace.

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

January 22, 2018

Belated happy birthday my son. I spent your birthday with Carolyn and Karl. Everyone is fine. You are still sorely missed. So many things remind me of you--your laughter, your gusto for life. You are one special bonus and I am blessed that God gave you to me. Luv u Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

July 23, 2017

Today makes 18 years since you made the ultimate sacrifice. I thank you for your service and I know you are watching over all our brothers and sisters in blue. Again Thank You!

Former Asst. Chief of Police Paul Jordan
Merryville Police Dept.

January 23, 2017

Today makes 18 years since you made the ultimate sacrifice. I thank you for your service and I know you are watching over all our brothers and sisters in blue. Again Thank You!

Former Asst. Chief of Police Paul Jordan
Merryville Police Dept.

January 23, 2017

My bonus, I still have the same words, the same thoughts, the same hurt, but what gets me through is you...what you stood for...what you accomplished in life, what made you you......ok so there were some hairy times growing up, but I know you are laughing now, patting me on the head, saying "chill out mom." 18 years son.... RIP... you are so loved and so missed.

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mom

January 19, 2017

Happy birthday in heaven son. Your are still sorely missed. You truly were my bonus. Much love.

Carol Aselton Benoit, Mother

July 14, 2016

Today is the anniversary of your line of duty death. Thank you for your service in the United States Marine Corps and on the East Hartford Police Department. This is a tremendous loss for our nation now matter how much time passes. When I participated in your Snow Dash 5K this year in 2016 at the start of the race the rain was coming down pretty good and during the pre-race speech I was in prayer and when that sun started to shine through the clouds I like to believe that was you. When I attend the 4:00PM mass at St. Brigid of Kildare in South Boston today I will be thinking of you and remembering the life of a great American Patriot Warrior who is a true American hero.

Former Protective Security Officer (PSO) for Region 1 U.S. Department of Homeland Security Federal Protective Service Police, Pete Harrington BostonMA

January 23, 2016

Rest in peace my bonus...17 years....your smile... and laughter still rings in all our hearts...luv u Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

January 22, 2016

Happy birthday my bonus!

Luv u, Mom

Carol Aselton Benoit
Mother

July 15, 2015